300 questions for two to get to know each other better. Discussion on LiveInternet

There are many stages when it comes to relationships. You start out as acquaintances, become friends, date, move in and get married.

But according to Barton Goldsmith:

“It's better to date longer and watch someone want to grow than to wish and hope or try to force someone to make the changes you want.”

However, we cannot change the fact that some people are disappointed in those with whom they build relationships. What is the reason for this?

They didn't ask enough questions about the relationship.

So, if you are currently in a relationship, I suggest you ask your partner because it can make a huge difference in your relationship with each other.

Here are 121 relationship questions you can use to get to know your loved one:

Fun Relationship Questions for Couples

If you had one day left to live, what would you do?

Where would you most like to go on holiday?

What would you do if you won $10,000?

What do you like most about me?

What would you like to change about me?

Who did you kiss first in your life?

How would you feel if I made more money than you?

Would you like to stay home with the kids while I work?

What's the craziest dream you've had?

If you could trade lives with anyone, who would it be?

What is your main goal in life?

Every person comes into this world with some kind of mission. It’s stupid to think that fate sent you to earth just like that. You need to understand that everything in this life has a meaning. This is something you should ask your significant other about. This question may have different answers for two people. And this is not surprising.

Don't be upset if your partner chooses to fulfill himself in his career rather than in his family as his goal in life. You will simply know what the person’s priorities are. Each person puts his own meaning into life and you should not blame a person for the fact that his philosophy of life is not clear to you. Know how to accept your other half for who she is. It is difficult, and sometimes simply impossible, to change an adult. So you shouldn't even try to do this.

Deep Relationship Questions to Ask Your Lover

If you could choose anyone in the world, who would you like to invite to dinner?

Would you like to be famous? In what type of activity?

Do you ever rehearse what you're going to say before you call?

What would be your ideal day?

When was the last time you sang to yourself? Anyone else?

What would you choose? Live to 90 and retain the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life?

Do you have a secret feeling about when you will die?

Name three things you and your partner (that is, me) have in common.

What are you most grateful for in your life?

Would you like to be immortal?

This question is interesting in itself. First you need to answer it yourself, and only then ask it to your lover. Life is a gift that at some point fate takes away from a person. But imagine a situation where this gift will be given to you forever. Is this happiness or curse? Find out your loved one's opinion on this matter.

A person can put forward any opinion, you do not have to agree with it. But it’s interesting to listen to the thoughts of a loved one on this matter. Thanks to such an answer, you will learn the philosophy of personality, the main values in a person’s life, his aspirations and ambitions. If a person is passionate about something, then he will passionately want to live as long as possible.

But people who cannot understand why life allows 60 years for human existence may be horrified by the idea of living forever. Thanks to this unusual way of looking at things, you will be able to better understand the essence of certain things and become closer to your lover. And whatever answer comes out of the person’s mouth, ask him to justify his position. Then it will be easier for you to understand the person’s logic.

Here's Another Set of Questions About Deep Relationships

If you could change anything about your upbringing, what would it be?

Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

If you could wake up tomorrow with one quality or ability, what would it be?

If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, or anything else, what would you want to know?

Is there something you've been dreaming about for a long time? Why didn't you do this?

What is the greatest achievement in your life?

What do you value most in friendship?

What is your most treasured memory?

What's your worst memory?

If you knew that in a year you would suddenly die, would you change anything about your current lifestyle?

What is friendship to you?

What does your ideal day look like in 10 years?

Do you want to look into the future? It is difficult to find a person who would not want to find out how her life will turn out. In order to roughly imagine your future, it is not necessary to go to a fortune teller. You can ask the person questions about their habits. The development of any person’s life can be imagined if you roughly understand the person’s lifestyle and aspirations.

Ask the person to tell you about their dreams. Let your significant other reflect on their life in 10 years. Such reflections are especially interesting to lovers, since they want to hear whether their person will appear in the future in the life of the narrator. It’s also always interesting to know how a person thinks life will go.

Does he plan to have a family, children, build a house and build a career? If a person has big plans for the future, that's good. A person who knows what he wants will be able to become one of the people. But a person who is lost in doubt and does not know what to grasp first is unlikely to be able to build his life. After all, before starting any work, you need to write a detailed action plan. It will make it easier to turn your dreams into reality.

Relationship Questions to Test Your Compatibility

What is the ideal number of calls a couple should exchange in a day?

Would you sacrifice your happiness for the success of a relationship?

What do you think of a romantic getaway?

What is most important for a successful relationship?

What would you call cheating?

If I cheated on you, would you ever forgive me?

Will you ever apologize to me even if it's not your fault?

Are you friends with any of your exes?

How should finances be distributed between a couple?

Do you think celebrating Valentine's Day is trivial?

What would your ideal dinner look like before you die?

Today it is fashionable to compile profiles for couples in love. Using a simple survey, you can find out the necessary information about all sorts of person’s preferences. But you are unlikely to remember all the answers to such questions: tea or milk, compote or juice, potatoes or rice. The selected options will fly out of your head immediately after testing is completed.

Better ask an interesting question like this: what should an ideal dinner before an execution look like in your opinion? You will be able to remember the answer thanks to the non-trivial wording of the question. The other half will tell you all their taste preferences, name their favorite dishes and the desired presentation of all components of the dinner. And you will be able to remember the small names of the dishes. Don't forget to list your favorite foods to the person.

But keep in mind that your answer to a question may be taken as an instruction to action. And for a romantic dinner, your significant other will create what you called your favorite dishes. So if you are not sure of your significant other’s culinary abilities, name dishes that your loved one can definitely prepare.

Relationship Questions to Strengthen Your Connection with Each Other

How do you know if you love someone?

How did you know that you love me?

Is romantic love the most important love of all?

Do you think that once you love someone, you will ALWAYS love them? Or do you think that love will fade away over time?

What's the first thing you notice about someone when you fall in love with them?

What scares you about love?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Was it love at first sight for me?

What do you agree with? Should love always be comfortable, or should love always be new and exciting?

What do you think makes people fall out of love?

What makes you fall out of love?

Do you believe that people can change if they love someone?

Do you think knowing whether it's love or not depends on how long you've known the person?

How long do you think it will be before you know you love someone?

Can you love someone after they cheated?

What is considered cheating for you?

What could be worse: emotional or physical?

If you love someone, can you forgive infidelity/betrayal?

When it comes to cheating, should you forgive and forget/forgive but not forget/or not forgive at all?

Do you believe that love changes you?

Choose one book in which you would change the ending

How can you get to know a person better? Ask him about things he's never thought about. It’s trivial to ask about favorite foods and hobbies. This information will be relevant to you only in the first months of dating. Questions for couples who have been dating for a long time should be complex and philosophical.

Ask your partner what their favorite book is, and then ask if they are happy with the ending of the book. If not, invite the person to come up with their own ending to the story. Based on the answer, you can draw many conclusions about the person’s worldview.

For example, people who don't want the main characters of a book to die are optimists. Persons who do not like that the love line is not finished will finish it themselves. It’s easy to assume that such people are romantics. Fair individuals will punish all the heroes according to their deserts, and cruel individuals will kill almost all the characters.

Questions to know your soulmate

18. How did your partner spend his summers as a child?

19. What are your partner's favorite and least favorite parts of working?

20. Does your partner consider himself more like his mother or father in terms of personality? If yes, then why?

21. What purchase is your partner currently thinking about? What's on his wish list?

Pay attention to the questions you answered incorrectly. View friction as an opportunity to have a conversation and deepen your relationship.

As you review your answers together, remember that it is your partner who decides whether you earn a point for each correct answer.

For some questions, such as questions about your favorite flavor of ice cream, there may be two or more answers, depending on your partner's current mood.

Sometimes it turns out that we know our other halves better than they know themselves.

As you look through the answers, you may find that you remember something your partner once told you about his childhood that he forgot, but you remember.

So:

If you (or your partner) score 16 points or more:

You know your partner very well.

And if you score 16 or more and have been with your partner for less than six months, your relationship is probably too active.

If you (or your partner) scored 10-15 points:

You've gotten to know your partner pretty well.

Pay attention to exactly where you know each other the least.

Perhaps the two of you didn't talk much about your childhood experiences, or you avoided talking about topics related to negative emotions.

Try to make up for such moments.

If you scored 5-9 points:

This means the following:

1) You don't know each other that well.

2) You are only in a relationship for a short period of time.

3) You talk to each other a little, or maybe your conversations are of a certain nature (for example, you are both in the same profession, and your conversations converge mainly at work.)

If you (or your partner) scored 0-4 points:

This suggests that you don’t know each other at all, which means you have the opportunity to do this.

Could you adopt a child?

Men do not answer complex questions about children as quickly as women. Young people think for a long time before making their verdict. Therefore, do not rush the guy if you decide to ask him a personal question. It is not so easy to understand whether a person will someday be ready to accept a completely stranger’s child into his life.

Don't be scared by the fact that men rarely give a positive answer to this question. Young people want to support their family, in which their heirs will grow up. Don't be surprised that guys treat adopted children much worse than girls.

The list of questions for couples in love can be continued endlessly. When asking something from your loved one, follow a simple rule: do not ask directly, but disguise your question. The more veiled it is, the better.

Cool questions about the hero of the day:

woman

Do you believe that the hero of the day dreams of being on the cover of Playboy?
Will the hero of the day be able to dance a striptease?
What color are the hero of the day’s pajamas?
How does the hero of the day win the heart of a man? (cooks delicious food, irons shirts, etc.).
What was the hero of the day’s favorite game as a child?
What does the hero of the day like more - taking a bath or shower?
Can the hero of the day fight with a man?
Does the hero of the day compliment her boss?
Does the hero of the day like to eat delicious food?
What diet does the hero of the day prefer after the New Year's feast?

man

Will the hero of the day be able to cook borscht tastier than his wife?
Will the hero of the day be able to approach the lake and shout “Hello, Black Sea”?
What was the hero of the day's favorite game as a child?
Does the hero of the day mix beer with vodka?
Does the hero of the day like to sing when he takes a shower?
Did the hero of the day steal apples from someone else's garden as a child?
How much beer can the hero of the day drink at one time?
What color are the eyes of the hero of the day's mother-in-law?
Does the hero of the day like to drive a car around the city at night?
Does the hero of the day like to dream when he looks at the moon?

Funny questions about the hero of the day:

woman

If the hero of the day sees a mouse, will it scream?
What order would you give to the hero of the day and why?
What grade did the birthday girl get in math?
The hero of the day’s favorite toy in her childhood?
What is the name of a birthday girl's dress that has no sleeves?
With which hand does the hero of the day stir sugar in a cup of tea?
What shoe size does the hero of the day wear?
What does the hero of the day like to wear on her head? (hat, scarf, etc.)
What does the hero of the day keep for her husband? (loyalty).
Do you believe that the hero of the day did not pronounce the letter “r” until she was 7 years old?

man

Favorite toy of the hero of the day? (car)
What will the hero of the day do if he finds himself in a foreign country without money or documents?
What is the difference between the hero of the day and his wife? (weight).
Will the hero of the day be able to walk down the street in women's clothing?
On what foot does the hero of the day get out of bed in the morning?
Why is the hero of the day sitting at work? (at the table).
What kind of dance does the hero of the day like to dance when he drinks a lot?
When did the hero of the day stop believing in Santa Claus?
What does the birthday boy eat when he gets sleepy? (nose).
What's the funniest thing that happened in the life of the hero of the day?

Questions about the woman of the day

Maiden name of the hero of the day?
What does the name Sergei mean for the hero of the day? (husband's name).
In what year did the hero of the day get married?
In what year did the hero of the day give birth to her child(ren)?
What color is the wallet in the handbag?
The name of the hero of the day's first love?
Where did the hero of the day meet her husband?
Favorite color of the hero of the day?
What does the hero of the day like to do in her free time?
First place of work?

Questions about the hero of the day man

How much did the hero of the day weigh when he was born?
What shoe size does the hero of the day wear?
What was the first car the hero of the day had (make)?
What is the name of the mother of the wife of the hero of the day?
What is the name of the father of the wife of the hero of the day?
Where did the hero of the day meet his other half?
What kind of alcohol does the hero of the day prefer?
Has the hero of the day been baptized?
Date of the anniversary's wedding?
Does the hero of the day like sweets?

Questions about numbers related to the hero of the day:

woman

What number do you get if you add up all the digits of a phone number?
What does the number 15 (20,25,30) mean for the hero of the day (work experience).
How many years has the hero of the day been married?
How many years will you get if you add up the ages of the hero of the day and her husband?
In what year did the hero of the day go to school?
How many days are there in the month when the hero of the day was born?
How many times has the hero of the day been abroad?
How many bags does the hero of the day have?
Lucky number of the hero of the day?
How many years will you get if you add up the ages of the hero of the day and all family members?

man

How many cars did the hero of the day have?
What number will you get if you add up all the numbers in the year of birth of the hero of the day?
What is the mileage of the hero of the day's car?
How many times a year does the hero of the day go to the bathhouse (go fishing or hunting)?
How many items are in the collection of the hero of the day (if he collects cars, stamps, etc.)?
How old is the wife of the hero of the day?
How many jobs has the hero of the day changed?
How many times did the hero of the day go on business trips?
How many times has the hero of the day jumped with a parachute?
How many times has the hero of the day invited his wife to a restaurant?

Questions to know your partner

1. What is your partner's least favorite body part?

2. When your partner was a child, what did he/she want to be in the future?

3. Which country would your significant other like to visit?

4. Did your partner have a nickname growing up? If yes, which one? Did he like this nickname?

5. Which of your relatives does your loved one communicate with closest? (If there are none, omit the question.)

Could you move to another city if you were offered a high-paying job?

Questions about family life should not be asked directly. Some may misunderstand them, while others may simply find them unpleasant. After all, a person you haven’t dated for even six months is unlikely to plan a long life together with you.

Before you think about getting married, you need to get to know the person better. Therefore, if you want to find out from a person his views on life, ask questions that cannot compromise either you or him. For example, check whether the person can give up everything and move to another city. If the answer is yes, clarify why the person made this decision.

If your partner argues for his action by saying that there is nothing keeping him in the city at the moment, do not get upset ahead of time. This does not mean that he has the intention of breaking up with you. This means that the person understands that when the relationship goes far, he will not easily agree to move.