How to choose a wedding date using numerology, astrology, church calendar

Many couples, when choosing a wedding day, want this day to be special and foreshadow a long and happy life.

How to choose a wedding date? Use the wedding calendar from MONA Boutique Hotel. In it we collected different views and opinions on how to choose a date for a wedding and not make a mistake.

Favorable days for weddings according to the lunar calendar

The lunar calendar differs from the usual one in that it allows you to monitor the phases of the moon - new moon, waxing, full moon and waning.

This calendar is compiled for every year and you can see favorable days for each month of the current year or calculate the lunar day yourself

A wedding during an eclipse and full moon is considered unfavorable; the negative energy of the satellite has a destructive effect on the newlyweds. A wedding on a white night also requires tracking the movement of the Moon , since its influence does not go away. Before setting a date for the celebration, you need to check the lunar days for the wedding.

The influence of the lunar calendar on the choice of wedding date

It is believed that unfavorable days for a wedding can be the periods of the first and last lunar quarter, the days of the full moon and eclipses, as well as two days before and two days after the new moon.

The most unlucky lunar days for marriage are considered to be the 3rd, 5th, 8th, 9th, 13th, 14th, 19th, 25th and 29th.

The 1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 12th, 20th, 22nd, 24th, 28th and 30th lunar days are neutral.

And favorable for concluding an alliance are the 6th, 10th, 11th, 16th, 17th (most favorable), 21st, 26th and 27th days of the Moon phase.

Many also try to take into account the zodiac sign in which the Moon is located at the time of the wedding. Days when the Moon is in the sign of Aries, Taurus, Virgo, Cancer, Scorpio, Aquarius and Leo can become unfavorable. The sign of Sagittarius is considered neutral for marriage. The periods when the Moon is in the signs of Capricorn and Pisces are favorable for creating a marriage. On the other hand, if you sincerely love each other, no lunar calendar can negatively affect your union.

Lucky day for marriage according to numerology

Numerology is the magic of numbers, showing the connection between a person’s life and the date of his birth.

Choice for marriage according to numerology

How to calculate the day to hold a wedding: to do this, you need to add the birth dates of the bride and groom separately so that you get a number less than 15. For example, 10/19/1980 and 01/5/1990.

Add: 1+9+1+1+9+8= 29=2+9=11.

5+1+1+9+9=25=2+5=7. Add the resulting numbers – 11+7=18. This will be a favorable day according to numerological calculations.

The 31st number, according to numerology, does not have any special properties, and if the newlyweds so desire, it is quite possible to get married on this day.

Signs associated with wedding dates

The number 7 for a wedding, according to popular belief, is considered lucky for marriage, like other odd numbers, the 13th due to the exceptional unluckiness of this date.

Marriage on even days - for the birth of a boy, on odd days - for the birth of a girl

It is also believed that a birthday on the wedding day is a bad omen, but if the spouses’ birthdays coincide , then this is a very good sign. If the birthday of one of your relatives coincides with the planned date, then it is better to postpone it. For ethical reasons, it is not very pleasant when a wedding ceremony or wedding anniversary is celebrated on a birthday.

Signs with wedding dates

There are no special signs if the day and date of the wedding coincides with the wedding date of the parents, but in this case it is at the discretion of the newlyweds - not everyone will like to celebrate two anniversaries on one day. It is definitely bad luck to get married on a date that coincides with the date of death of one of your relatives. Such a family, according to signs, will be haunted by misfortunes.

Is it possible, according to signs, to have two weddings in one year in one family? According to popular superstition, it is impossible.

There is a sign that the bride needs to pin a gold pin on her dress for good luck. You can combine beauty and superstition by purchasing an elegant brooch in the form of a pin.

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According to popular beliefs, there are favorable years for weddings. This year 2018 is considered a quiet year for getting married , as well as the next one - 2021. But in the question “when is the best time to get married?” brides believe only in bad luck about a wedding ceremony in a leap year, known for difficulties and misfortunes.

Why can't you get married on a leap year? In fact, earlier this year the girls themselves went to get married, and no one had the right to refuse them.

So leap year used to be called the year of brides, and it was believed that it was successful in terms of marriage

Is it possible to get married in 2021?

2021 is the year of the White Metal Ox, symbolizing restrained color and indestructible character. It promises to be calm and blessed, and everything you invest in this year should be returned twice as much, the wedding this year should be happy and open to long-lasting relationships.

On the other hand, the Year of the Ox comes after a leap year, which means it is considered the “Year of the Widow.” According to signs, many men die in such years, since supposedly such years often coincide with wartime.

But if you believe all the signs, then from 2004 to 2041 you shouldn’t get married at all, since almost every year except 2038 there is some kind of sign or bad name, such as “black mother-in-law”, “bitch”, “alcoholic” and etc., which, of course, raises serious doubts about its credibility.

Days when you can't get married

However, nowadays there are more significant prohibitions on marriage. In addition to the days when the registry office is not open, therefore, a marriage cannot be registered, there are restrictions imposed by religion on marriage.

Get married in an Orthodox church

According to the statutes of the Orthodox Church, the days when you cannot have a wedding are:

Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. On these days, the sacrament of marriage is not performed;
during fasting;
eves and days of Orthodox holidays;
on Maslenitsa, the week before Lent;
on Easter week.

The wedding date is agreed upon with the priest , he will tell you when it is best to perform the sacrament.

How to choose a day

As usual, the wedding date is chosen based on certain calendars. Each of them will tell you not only a successful month, but also a date. It is best to choose one cultural paradigm for yourself and follow it.

All regulations apply precisely at the time of marriage registration. Sometimes the wedding ceremony is kept modest and separate from the banquet and party. But according to calendars, you need to evaluate not the date of the holiday itself, but the day on which the family was born.

Numerology

The magic of numbers is used more often than other sets of rules when choosing a wedding date. The fact is that within the framework of numerology, each number has its own characteristics. To understand whether a date is suitable or not, you need to add up all the numbers that make it up and eventually get a simple number. For example, they decided to get married on October 1, 2021, then 10/1/2019 = 1+1+2+1+8 = 13 = 1+3 = 4

When the example is solved, all that remains is to turn to the interpreter of numbers. They have the following characteristics:

1 – the beginning of beginnings, family life starts with a clean slate, without the burden of the past, this is good;
2 – what is called “so-so”, this number is associated with negative energy;
3 is a good option, since it is the sum of three units, the sum of the past, present and future;
4 – two deuces, it is better to postpone the wedding;
5 – but in this situation the marriage will be happy;
6 – only for those who have been together for a long time and are confident in the strength of their feelings for each other, this number is not dangerous;
7 – is considered one of the symbols of harmony, you can safely have a wedding;
8 – love and financial stability will be endless, eight can be not only in the sum of the date, but also in the month number (August) and day (8 or 18 of any month);
9 – this number favors a union of proud and ambitious people.

If you have a choice between an even and an odd date, it is better to give preference to the odd one.

Moon calendar

The Earth's satellite has a great influence not only on natural cycles (ebb and flow) and human health, but also on general energy. The waxing moon promotes growth and prosperity in any endeavor. When the moon wanes, at the same time, as it approaches the new moon, it “cuts” the potential success of any plans.

The full moon is the moment of greatest power for those who follow the lunar cycles. Lunar eclipses (and solar eclipses too) are a taboo for wedding celebrations. Since ancient times, the darkening of luminaries in the sky was considered a bad sign that did not promise anything good in one’s endeavors.

For 2019, astrologers have compiled a full lunar calendar taking into account the phases of the night star. By consulting it, it is very easy to choose which month to celebrate. And the most successful days for new things, including starting a family, are as follows:

in January, the strongest marriages are on the 1st, as well as from the 21st to the 26th;
in February, the best option is the 25th, the 17th, 18th, 21st and 26th are also favorable;
in March, the moon favors marriage on the 19th, 21st and 23rd;
in April, strong marriages take place on the 20th, 27th and 29th;
choice for May - 20, 25 and 27;
in June there is a large choice; you can go to the registry office without fear on the 15th, 17th, 22nd, 25th-27th;
in July, a good option is the 15th, 20th, 23rd;
the August moon is most favorable on the 17th, 24th and 26th;
in September - 16, 21, 23;
in October - 14, 19 and 21;
for a wedding in November choose between the 9th, 14th and 18th;
in December there is also a large selection of dates - 14, 17, 19-21.

Important! The location of Venus must also be clarified in the relevant literature. During the period when the planet is moving backwards across the sky, marriages should be entered into with caution.

Chinese calendar

If the newlyweds believe in the Chinese (Oriental) horoscope, 2019 is a good time to register their marriage. The couple will be patronized by the Yellow Earth Dog - a kind, calm and devoted animal. It will not only provide the spouses with patience, respect, and gratitude to each other, but will also bestow financial well-being.

In addition, the Dog is unusually fertile, so in such unions children are born quickly and in large numbers. But in order to gain the favor of the Dog, the celebration cannot be noisy and pompous. She will appreciate the maximum modesty of the holiday.

The Chinese year is different from the European year. The Year of the Dog will last from 02/16/2019 to 02/4/2019. The Year of the Rooster is still in progress until mid-February, but he does not stand on ceremony with the newlyweds - it is better to postpone the wedding.

Church calendar

If the couple decides to make a marriage in heaven, this is a laudable desire. But not everything is so simple with a wedding. This sacrament implies the conclusion of a union forever, for all earthly and heavenly life. You need to have confidence in yourself and in your partner to take such a responsible step.

To decide on the wedding date, you need to turn to the Orthodox calendar indicating fasts, movable and immovable holidays. It is easier to decide on the day of an Orthodox wedding, starting from the leading prohibitions. Wedding will not take place:

On Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays, so that the first intimacy in marriage does not fall on fasting Wednesdays and Fridays and holiday Sundays.
During the period of fasting. In 2021, Lent is from February 19 to April 7, Petrov's Fast is from June 4 to July 11, Assumption Fast is from August 14 to 27, and Nativity Fast is from November 28 to January 6.
They do not marry on continuous weeks. These include Christmastide (January 7-17), Maslenitsa Week (February 12-18), Week of the Publican and Pharisee (January 29 - February 4), Bright Week after Easter (April 9-15), Trinity Week (May 28 - 3 June).
It will not be possible to go to the crown on the eve of church holidays, including the Twelves, Easter. They do not marry on the eve of patronal feasts. They are unique for each temple, it is necessary to clarify.
A wedding is unacceptable during the period of the bride’s “uncleanness” (during menstruation).

The wedding is preceded by conversations with the priest, as well as preparation in the form of fasting: abstinence from animal food and sexual intercourse for at least 3 days, but sometimes for 40 days. On the eve of the wedding, you need to take communion and confess.

The most popular day for a wedding is Krasnaya Gorka, the first Sunday after Easter (April 15). The most free month for a wedding is October.

Important! You should decide on a wedding only if the newlyweds are believers, otherwise the sacrament is meaningless. In addition, the church does not perform weddings without a stamp in the passport.

Beautiful dates for a wedding

Sometimes brides, not paying attention to the signs and forecasts of astrologers, try to choose a beautiful date. The choice of a beautiful wedding date is determined by a combination of identical numbers. For example, in 2008 the most popular date was 08/08/08.

This year such a complete coincidence will not happen, but a beautiful date could be the 18th of August - 08/18/18 with three eights

You can also select a combination of day and month numbers, for example, 06/06/18. It is believed that lucky dates are those in which there are many zeros and eights, for example, 08/10/18 or 10/18/18. Dates in which one number is a multiple of another, for example, 09.18.18, also look good. Such round dates look beautiful and sound good , and they are easy to remember. Whether a weekday or a weekend falls on the wedding date is not so important in this case.

The question of what date to have a wedding torments many girls who want the celebration to be perfect. You can refer to the characteristics of the days of the week.

What day of the week is best to have a wedding?

The favorability of a particular day of the week is determined by numerology, astrology, church charters and popular beliefs. So what day of the week is best to get married?

Characteristics of each day of the week:

Monday . Despite the fact that in most cases this day is officially a day off in the registry offices, from an astrological point of view this day is moderately favorable for marriage, since the Moon patronizes the newlyweds on this day.
Tuesday . On this day you cannot get married according to Orthodox teaching. In astrology, Tuesday is considered very unfavorable for marriage.
Wednesday _ Under the auspices of Mercury, he favors newlyweds - this promises compromise and harmony in marriage.
Thursday . There is no wedding on this day; popular beliefs also warn couples against getting married. But according to astrology, this is a rather successful day, promising material wealth in the house.
Friday . It is considered the most favorable day for marriage, since it is under the protection of Venus. Friday the 13th, according to signs, is considered an unlucky day, but this does not affect family life in any way. The church views Friday weddings favorably.
Saturday . The most popular day for official painting, the wedding sacrament is not held. According to astrology and folk signs, it is considered not a very favorable day for marriage. The marriage promises to be stable, but for happiness you will have to sacrifice a lot.
Sunday . It is considered a good day for marriage; this day is patronized by the Sun, which promises warm relations between spouses, but, in another opinion, emphasizes individuality, so the marriage will work out if one of the couple takes responsibility for family life.

So what day of the week is it best to get married? From Monday to Wednesday . The remaining days of the week are considered unfavorable for marriage.

It is not difficult to choose a wedding day, based on the influence of the stars on family life.

Choose your wedding day according to astrology

The influence of zodiac signs on choosing a month for a wedding

Zodiac signs also influence marriage, there are those that have a positive influence. These are all those that belong to the element of Water - Cancer (period from June 21 to July 22) - a popular season for weddings, Scorpio (period from October 24 to November 22) - enough fruits and vegetables, but it’s already quite cold and Pisces (from February 20 to March 20) is not a popular period, it’s cold, changeable weather, but a number of services will cost less.

Good family zodiac signs also include Taurus (from April 21 to May 21) - the time of flowering and beautiful photo shoots, Virgo (from August 24 to September 23) - a fruitful popular period, and Libra (from September 24 to October 23) - patronizes For romantics and lovers, it’s a fairly popular period, services are no longer so expensive and it’s not hot.

When choosing the best dates for a wedding in 2021, it is worth remembering that Taurus (April-May, the period of flowering and beautiful photo shoots) and Virgo (August-September, the period of rich harvests) are also considered good family signs. Libra (September-October) patronizes romantics and awakens a love of beauty. During this period, it is best to enter into an alliance with sublime natures who love going to exhibitions and theaters. True, in the year patronized by the Earth, it is better to choose periods of influence of water signs. Otherwise, the life of newlyweds may become too boring and unfruitful.

Read more about how to choose the best month for your wedding.

Which month is the best month to get married?

Each month has its own pros and cons, determined by weather conditions, signs and church customs. For each month, according to numerology and the lunar calendar, happy dates are compiled on which it is best to get married.

Signs and meanings of the wedding by month:

January wedding - the wife becomes a widow early;
a marriage concluded in February will be full of love and tenderness;
getting married in March means living in a foreign land, far from home;
April wedding - to changeable happiness;
wedding in May - to betrayal;
June wedding - the couple will spend their whole lives as if on a honeymoon;
get married in July - the marriage will be sweet and sour;
getting married in August means a strong marriage, sealed not only by love, but also by friendship;
wedding in September - the marriage will be long, without quarrels and scandals;
a marriage entered into in October promises problems and difficulties;
November wedding - to a rich and happy life;
getting married in December means happiness in family life, which will only grow.

What month is better to have a wedding? Each season has its own advantages - in winter there is no wedding rush, and you can calmly choose a wedding date at the registry office, in spring it is already warm enough to hold a ceremony outdoors, in summer, despite the heat, there are many celebration scenarios, in autumn the abundance of vegetables and fruits will ensure a rich feast.

January

Getting married right after the New Year holidays may not seem like the best idea, but in fact, January has many unobvious advantages .

Huge space for outdoor festivities: snowball fights, building a snow fort and sledding

A wedding in January offers many options for entertainment and competitions.

In addition, you can continue the theme of the New Year's celebration and weave it into the design of the banquet hall.

Get married in January

February

This month can provide several ideas for a wedding celebration at once - the theme of Valentine's Day and Maslenitsa festivities. The wedding date can be coincided with one of these holidays.

In addition, the advantages of a winter wedding also apply to this month: there are no queues for painting at the registry office, you can rent a banquet hall in a restaurant at a discount and fly off on a honeymoon to hot countries. A wedding in February can be combined with a trip and a symbolic ceremony on the shores of the azure sea can be held.

March

Despite the fact that this March is the first month of spring, in terms of mood and weather in central Russia it differs little from winter. But this is an excellent opportunity for a budget holiday, and the vagaries of the weather can be compensated for by an exquisite buffet in a restaurant. A wedding in March is an occasion for an interesting photo shoot against the backdrop of melting snow, spring rain and the warming sun.

April

This month is considered truly spring - there are more and more warm days, the first flowers and leaves on the trees begin to bloom. The awakening of spring is an excellent theme for decorating a celebration. In addition, the wedding rush has not yet begun , which you can take advantage of. A wedding in April can already be held outdoors, despite the unstable weather.

Get married in April

May

A May spring wedding is not only according to the calendar, but also according to the mood. Warm weather allows for off-site registration among trees and blooming flowers. This month you can save on floristry .

For a wedding in May, you can choose an unusual wedding dress and weave flowers into your hair.

June

June is a good month for a wedding, because the heat has not yet set in, and the berry season is already beginning. Despite the fact that summer is the time for weddings and the wedding rush is gaining momentum, young people can decorate their celebration in an original way, focusing on wildflowers and strawberries . A wedding in June is an excellent occasion for a picnic with kebabs and grilled meat dishes.

Get married in June

July

A summer wedding in the hottest month is an excellent occasion for off-site registration in nature. Wedding tents will shelter guests from the scorching heat. The middle of summer is conducive to an abundance of berries and fruits on the festive table.

You can make your wedding in July themed, decorating the celebration in a rustic style, or have a Hawaiian party.

August

According to popular beliefs, the strongest marriages take place in this month. August is a harvest month , when the markets are full of fresh vegetables and fruits. This will make the menu not only tasty, but also healthy. A wedding in August is considered favorable not only from the point of view of folk signs, but also according to astrologers.

September

An autumn wedding offers many options for decorating the celebration. The ceremony can be themed, for example, in a rustic or eco-chic style. The bright colors of autumn will serve as an excellent interior decoration and can be the leitmotif of the entire celebration. Despite the onset of cold weather, a wedding in September can be held in a park or in a country house, enjoying the autumn landscape.

October

The second month of autumn continues the theme of gold and crimson colors in the design. If the celebration is planned for the end of the month, then you can have a Halloween-themed wedding - with pumpkins instead of lamps, carnival outfits and themed dishes on the festive table.

Halloween themed wedding in October

A wedding in October is an occasion not only for a gloomy, gothic celebration, but also for an autumn holiday in a rustic style.

November

In late autumn, the excitement associated with marriage subsides, which allows you to plan your celebration in less haste and calmly choose a date. Despite the oncoming cold, November is considered a favorable month for marriage . According to signs, a wedding in November is associated with the end of field work and preparation for winter, so it was believed that it was better to have a wedding in this month.

December

A winter wedding in December is an excellent opportunity for a themed celebration in the style of a winter fairy tale. Of course, many are frightened by the pre-New Year's rush , in the bustle of which it will be difficult to prepare, but there will definitely be no queues at the registry office. In addition, this is a wonderful occasion for a symbolic ceremony on a tropical island.

But a wedding in December can be celebrated at home, by renting a room in a restaurant or organizing a home party.

What exactly is the best month to have a wedding and what is the best time of year for a wedding is up to the young to decide.

Each season has its own advantages and disadvantages

Months favorable for weddings, according to popular belief: February, March, August, September. But it is important to remember that to sign, you can choose any date of any month you like .

How to choose a suitable wedding date using astrology?

In Vedic astrology, it is generally accepted that the strongest and happiest marriage depends on choosing the right favorable wedding date. Practice shows that many unhappy marriages were concluded during an unfavorable period from the point of view of Vedic astrology. This is followed by divorces, constant scandals and quarrels. How to avoid this? Calculate the correct wedding date so that the marriage is harmonious and happy. Also, with the help of astrology, you can find out how many children your couple will have, what social status awaits you, how you can avoid problems in marriage, and much more.

Wedding in Lent

Many couples planning to get married are wondering: is it possible to get married during Lent? According to church regulations, marriages and weddings are prohibited.

Lenten dishes for a wedding during the church fast

Why can't you have a wedding during Lent? Since fasting is a time of spiritual cleansing, restrictions are placed on eating food of animal origin, physical intimacy and entertainment.

However, despite this, you can sign for fasting without having a wedding, since secular laws do not correspond to religious prohibitions.

If young non-believers or consider themselves to be of another religious denomination, then the Orthodox ban should not stop them from wanting to get married during Lent.