Signs about the wedding
Every nation on the planet has wedding signs; this is not the privilege of the Slavs and not their wild imagination. Each sign is justified because it did not arise out of nowhere. People simply showed observation, compared some events with their causes and consequences, and then came to a certain conclusion that was established in society.
Even deeply adamantly convinced skeptics cannot be 100% sure that superstitions never work in the 21st century. Life circumstances can turn out differently; they cannot be predicted even if you stand firmly on your feet and are confident in the future. Therefore, on the eve of your wedding and on the immediate day of its celebration, pay special attention to the weather, guests, witnesses, bouquet, gifts - they may contain clues that will help you unravel the secret of your future married life.
Signs before the wedding
First, let's look at the superstitions associated with the few days before the wedding:
- A marriage can fall apart if the future husband accidentally sees his betrothed in her wedding dress.
- If a girl who is about to get married tries on a dress and veil before the wedding day, then most likely her family life will not be happy, and the ceremony itself may not take place at all.
- You cannot put on wedding rings before the wedding happens, because this could cause the family to break up.
- Before the wedding day after the engagement has occurred, future spouses are not allowed to take photographs together. It is believed that because of this the family will fall apart, as one of the spouses will cheat on the other.
- The night before the wedding, the future husband and wife should sleep separately from each other. It is better if the man spends the night in another house.
- The bride should give her future husband a shirt. It is believed that in this way the universe strengthens the future family even before it is officially created.
- Do not announce your engagement at the end of the month, because because of this, troubles and misfortunes may haunt your family already in married life.
- When compiling your guest list, make sure that the number of people present on the most important day of your life is even.
- Plan your wedding so that its main celebration and celebration falls in the afternoon. It is believed that thanks to this, the family life of the young will be happy.
Spring wedding
If you believe the popular beliefs about weddings in the spring months, getting married in the spring means getting love and a fun-filled home from family life in the future. But there are exceptions here too.
The best date available for marriage in the spring is considered to be 1 Sunday after Easter. The celebration 7 days after the religious holiday, on Krasnaya Gorka, promises the newlyweds a strong family union.
Celebrations in March promise a long journey
If you decide to enter into a marriage relationship in March, you will have to live with your spouse, as popular beliefs say, far from your home in a foreign country. Those who have united their destinies will go on a long family trip in March.
April
Those who get married in April will have an unstable life. The family happiness of newlyweds married in April will become changeable and will not be distinguished by enviable constancy.
People did not get married in May, because they believed that this was not the best month: young people would suffer all their lives. Therefore, folk signs recommended excluding dates in May from wedding plans. Those who start a family in May will face betrayal and mutual distrust of each other.
Wedding by month signs
It seems that for lovers who want to legitimize their union, it doesn’t matter at all what month of the year they get married, because the main thing is that they love each other. But wise people think differently - the month chosen for marriage can greatly influence the fate of the spouses:
- If you decide to get married in the winter season, you should know that then your entire family budget will constantly be overspent:
- A December wedding is a real celebration of love, because every year this love will only intensify.
- A January wedding is the worst decision, because in this case, one of the spouses will become a widow early. Most often this concerns women. There is another sign associated with a January wedding - the couple will always be on the verge of breaking up.
- A February wedding is a celebration of family happiness and prosperity. People believe that getting married in February is a great start to a family life that will only prosper.
- Spring is the time of year when everything comes to life and blooms. This is why many young people, both before and now, choose spring to get married:
- A March wedding means that after the wedding, the newlyweds will live away from their home.
- An April wedding suggests that the family life of the newly-made spouses will be constantly unstable, changeable and unhappy.
- A May wedding is the worst option, because spouses married in May will suffer from infidelity and distrust towards each other throughout their lives.
- Summer is the height of weddings. Our ancestors believed that those who got married in the summer months always lived in warmth and prosperity:
- A June wedding will turn the married life of the newlyweds into an eternal honeymoon, because their love and passion for each other will never fade.
- A July wedding is a solution for people who can overcome all difficulties and will experience great happiness. In a word, there will be a place for both in their lives.
- A wedding in August will give the newlyweds love, tenderness and romantic relationships that they will carry throughout their lives.
- A wedding in the fall is always beautiful and bright:
- Young people who get married in September will be in love with each other all their lives. Mutual understanding and trust will never disappear between them.
- Those who signed in October will have to constantly face difficulties in their family life.
- Those who get married in November will be very lucky in life, because they will never face trouble, they will always have financial well-being.
But there are many examples that show that signs do not work. Some couples who got married in January live in perfect harmony and carry their feelings until their death. And there are spouses who got married in June, who all their lives regret that they decided to link their fate with the person who is their legal husband or wife.
Should you get married in November?
When answering the question in which months you can get married, you should consider November separately. In general, it is favorable for marriage and promises young people a strong and happy marriage. The couple will carry their love through the years and preserve it even in their declining years.
Many couples try to get married on January 4 - the day of the Kazan Mother of God. And in Rus' they tried to have a wedding on November 10 - to Paraskeva, who promises women happiness in marriage.
It is worth considering that on November 28, the Nativity Fast begins, which lasts until January 6. Getting married in church during this period is prohibited.
Wedding date signs
The date you choose for your wedding is especially important. Here you can follow 3 ways to choose the most optimal date:
- Follow popular recommendations. Below is a table in which the days on which it is best to get married are indicated in blue:
- Follow the recommendations of astrologers who believe that the lunar phase plays a great influence on the fate of the newlyweds:
- They recommend getting married on days 10-11, 17, 21, 26-27 of the lunar cycle, on the days of the protection of the element of Fire (when the date is under the sign of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius). Astrologers are convinced that love, passion and optimism will always live in the lives of spouses who follow this recommendation.
- Astrologers do not advise getting married on days 3-5, 8-9, 13-14 and 19 of the lunar cycle.
- If you want everything in your family life to be easy, comfortable and harmonious, then you should give preference to dates when the day is influenced by the elements of Air and Earth (zodiac signs Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Virgo, Capricorn, Taurus).
- Those who sign on the day of protection of the element of Water (zodiac signs - Scorpio, Pisces, Cancer) will have a romantic family life.
- Follow the church calendar. According to it, marriages and weddings can be held on all days except:
- January 1-9;
- February 15, 17-23;
- March 3-19;
- August 14-31;
- September 21, 27;
- October 1-15;
- November 1-2.
wedding in 2021 signs, favorable days for a wedding
In the table above we have presented the dates when you should have a wedding. Now let's give some explanations why these particular numbers are called favorable for marriage:
- It will be easy for those married on January 21 to live together, because they will have enough wisdom and patience to survive all the difficulties and preserve their feelings.
- For those who get married on January 26, God will give many children, the family will be creative, interesting and loving.
- On January 28 or October 21, people who are of mature age should get married. Then their union will be interesting, rich and full of energy and love.
- If you have been together for a long time, then you should sign on February 9 or August 26. Then your family life will be strong, you will never be separated.
- If you are a creative and sophisticated person, then you should set a wedding date for March 23, July 20 or September 16. In this case, your married life will be exciting and full of different activities.
- If you are peaceful people and want family life to become your safe haven, then there is no better day in 2021 for a wedding than April 20th.
- A marriage concluded on April 27 will be extravagant and passionate. This is an ideal day for the wedding of people who want to live their whole lives just the two of them, without children.
- If you are getting married not for the first time, then you should choose April 29 or December 25 to celebrate a new wedding. In this case, she will definitely be the last, and you will be happy in this marriage.
- Those who get married on May 20 and July 15 will be able to create a real family nest in life and live as if the honeymoon never ended.
- Sublime and poetic relationships will be in the family that will tie the knot on May 25, December 14.
- Those people who sign on May 27 will have sincere relationships in marriage.
- The spouses will be devoted to each other if they get married on June 15.
- Newlyweds who get married in 2021 on August 17 or 24, September 21, October 19 will be true friends.
- A romantic relationship will develop in a family that decides to hold a wedding ceremony in 2021 on September 23.
wedding in 2021 favorable dates and signs
Above is a list of dates that, according to astrologers, will be the best for marriage. However, there is another equally interesting way to choose a wedding date in 2021 - numerologically. What do we have to do:
- Select any date you would like to have your wedding on. Let's assume it will be October 27, 2021.
- Add up all the numbers of this date: 2+7+1+0+2+0+1+9=22=2+2=4.
- You've got an even number. This means that this day is unfavorable for a wedding, because only those dates that, when adding up all the numbers, give an odd number, are successful for a wedding.
wedding on Maslenitsa week omens
A wedding on any day of Maslenitsa week is always good! For newlyweds, this is an ideal celebration option, despite the fact that Maslenitsa always falls in winter, sometimes even in severe frost.
People say that a wedding held on Maslenitsa will bring the newlyweds a lot of love and happiness. And if on this day everything is covered with snow, then the marriage can definitely be considered successful.
wedding on Krasnaya Gorka signs
Weddings on Krasnaya Gorka have long been held by all lovers, because it was believed that such a union would be approved by the heavens and the Sun God - Yaril. This meant that the entire married life of lovers should be happy, prosperous, and comfortable. Many modern people believe in this and hold their wedding celebrations in Russian folk style.
In 2021, Krasnaya Gorka falls on April 15th.
wedding in Post omens
Orthodox believers never celebrate weddings during Lent, because this is prohibited by the church. People believe that violation of this canon can lead to the fact that the marriage will not be blessed by the Lord, and therefore will certainly be doomed to collapse. After all, if we remember the rules of fasting, then on the days of purification, physical intimacy is not allowed, without which the first wedding night and the subsequent honeymoon cannot exist.
Wedding in March
This is the first month of spring. However, folk signs regarding March weddings are laconic. There is a belief that newlyweds will have to live in a foreign land if they decide to tie the knot this month.
In Rus', weddings were not held mainly because of Lent, since the lion's share of March is occupied by it. During this period, there are no weddings in the church, and various entertainment events are not recommended.
Over time, the sign transformed. Now they say that getting married in March promises changes for the newlyweds. This could be a job change, the birth of a child, or a move.
Also note that the wedding day should be fine. But March is very capricious in this regard. Therefore, if you decide to get married, keep an eye on the weather - it should be sunny and clear. Rain or snowfall is also “allowed”, which promises prosperity for the young. But thunder and lightning over the heads of lovers do not promise anything good.
In general, due to the instability of weather conditions, the marriage of young people can be changeable and unstable. There is a risk of frequent disputes. Perhaps this is even a good thing, because it will not allow lovers to get bored and help them avoid routine.
Omen for a wedding, what is possible and what is not?
There are several prohibitions on the wedding day for newlyweds. Our ancestors advise not to allow the following on your wedding day:
- After the newlyweds leave the registry office already declared husband and wife, they cannot turn back, even if someone calls out to them. Because of this, their marriage can quickly fall apart.
- Young people cannot be photographed separately. While they are in their wedding dresses, they should be together in all pictures.
- Under no circumstances should anyone be allowed to come between young people. Possible on both sides. The newlyweds' hands should not be torn.
- The bride should not have open shoes. If she puts on shoes with an open toe or heel, then she will be in poverty all her married life - “walking around like a tramp,” as people said.
- Young people should not look in the mirror at a time when, besides them, someone else is looking in this mirror. If this is allowed, the spouses will divorce due to infidelity.
- During a feast, it is impossible for the newlyweds’ glasses to remain empty for some time. People believe that empty glasses are tears that a husband or wife will have to shed in marriage.
- The newlyweds cannot eat from each other’s plate on their wedding day, otherwise their family life will be full of discord and quarrels.
- We must not allow something to go missing from the newlyweds on their wedding day. If this happens, they will live an unhappy married life.
Signs associated with a wedding dress
The bride’s wedding dress must be unique, but at the same time correctly chosen, otherwise, as our ancestors believed, because of it, the whole married life will go downhill:
- It is better to give preference to a white or pink wedding dress so that your family life is prosperous, happy, and full of love.
- If a girl wears a silver dress to her wedding, then her marriage will be short and will most likely end in divorce.
- By wearing a blue wedding dress to your wedding, you risk dooming your marriage to lovelessness. People believe that the color blue is a symbol of the cold that will reign in the family.
- A green dress dooms a newly-made family to a life without money. But a golden outfit will bring prosperity to your family. But it’s still better that gold was not the main color, let it be combined with white or pink, so that love reigns in the house, and material wealth is also present.
- If you wear a blue dress, it will lead to adultery in the future.
- It is unlikely that any bride will want to try on a brown dress, but there is a sign that an outfit of this color will lead to divorce with noisy proceedings.
- A black dress for a bride at a wedding will lead to the inevitable death of her husband.
- It is advisable that the dress be very long. It is believed that the longer the hem, the more years the spouses will spend together.
- A wedding dress cannot consist of a corset and a skirt. The dress must be one piece, so that the newlyweds do not separate after the wedding, but live together.
- The dress cannot be sold after the wedding ceremony, nor can it be borrowed. It should be new and kept at home as a talisman of family happiness.
- In order for the family to be strong, on the wedding day you need to put on a dress only over your head, and not through your legs. It is advisable that the bride wear the dress from a woman who has been happily married for a long time.
Signs associated with a wedding ring
The rings of the newlyweds are a symbol of their love and fidelity, so there are several signs associated with them:
- If you want your family relationships to be strong, then a few days before your wedding, place your rings in a bag, fill it with water and freeze it in the freezer of the refrigerator.
- You cannot let someone try on or wear your wedding rings, otherwise there will be no happiness in the young family.
- If one of the spouses loses a wedding ring, it means that he will become the cause of a divorce, which will not take long to occur after the loss of the ring.
Summer wedding
Summer is the most favorable time for weddings, and this is due not only to the presence of a large number of fruits and vegetables that our ancestors could fill the festive table with.
Sweet June
There is a belief that those who get married in June will have a life as sweet as honey. But those who have chosen this time for the celebration need to have time to carry it out in the first half of the month, since it is impossible to have a wedding on Trinity Saturday, Trinity and Peter's Lent.
Wedding in July - folk signs
July is the month of arranged marriages. During this period, there is a high probability of marrying a wealthy person. If your union is concluded in July, then you can be sure that you will live in abundance all your life. However, it is quite possible that this union will not be built on love. Wedding this month is possible only after the 12th.
August portends a reliable union
If you want your marriage to be strong and your relationship with your partner to be based on mutual trust, then August is suitable for you. Marriages concluded this month are very strong and you will receive maximum support from your partner.
But you need to get married before the 13th. The strict Dormition Fast begins on August 14, so you should not get married at this time.
Signs with a bouquet at a wedding
The groom gives the bouquet to the bride after the redemption. There are several interesting signs associated with it:
- The bouquet must have a round or teardrop shape for the marriage to be successful.
- In order for the newlyweds to maintain passion in the family, it is better to make a bouquet of red flowers. If you want relationships in your family to always be light and romantic, then you need to add mostly pink flowers to it. If you make a bouquet of blue or light blue flowers, the newlyweds will be faithful to each other all their lives. Orange flowers in a bride's bouquet indicate that the newlyweds will have a lot of happiness in their marriage.
- You cannot throw the bride's bouquet for unmarried girls to catch. This bouquet must be preserved. You should throw a spare one, maybe even an artificial one.
Signs associated with witnesses
Before choosing witnesses for your wedding, consider some folk signs:
- It is impossible for the witnesses to be a happy couple who have been in a relationship for a long time. They may lose their happiness - give it to the young.
- The witness must be younger than the bride; it could be a sister, but in no case a namesake. In another case, the bride will not see happiness in marriage.
- In order for the newlyweds to be happy in their marriage, the witnesses should wear blue, pink or gold outfits.
- To ensure that no one crosses the path to the happiness of the newlyweds, witnesses should always go ahead of the newlyweds.
- During the wedding meal, when all the guests shout “Bitter” to the newlyweds, the witnesses should shout “Sweet!” so that there is a place for both bitterness and joy in the life of the newlyweds.
Autumn wedding calendar
Nowadays, wedding traditions and superstitions are not tied to agricultural work, so newlyweds have the right to choose for themselves when it is more convenient for them to get married. Whether to take into account wedding signs by month is a personal matter for everyone.
It is worth starting the wedding calendar in the fall, since this time of year has always been considered the most favorable for newlyweds.
- September combines all the benefits of summer and autumn. It's not hot anymore, but it's still warm enough for the bride to show off in a luxurious dress. Folk wedding signs by month promise newlyweds married in September a long and strong union. True, not particularly passionate: it will be based on trust, friendship, mutual understanding, and common interests.
- October. The first half of October can bring confusion, chaos, and instability into relationships. It was believed that this was a punishment for lovers who did not endure the Intercession, which is now celebrated in mid-October. Therefore, it is better to schedule the painting for the second half: the sign guarantees wealth and prosperity for the family.
- November. Time for those who put financial interests above passion. This means that there is no better time for an arranged marriage. Folk omens promise newlyweds wealth.
Rain for a wedding omens
If it rains on your wedding day, this phenomenon can be interpreted in different ways:
- Some believe that this is a bad omen for the bride - she will shed tears all her life in marriage. However, this interpretation can only be true if it rains all day.
- If it rained with a thunderstorm, and after it the sun and a rainbow appeared, then this is a wonderful sign that the newly-made family will live together happily and for a long time.
Wedding in January
When discussing which month is better to get married, let's start with the first - January. According to popular belief, a woman who decides to unite herself in marriage may become a widow early. Astrologer Emma Litvinova claims that this is a good solution for those who like to start great things from scratch. But he warns that some uncertainty is possible in the lives of newlyweds. If you still decide to get married this month, it is better to do it in its last ten days.
The fact is that the Nativity Fast ends in the first week of January, so noisy events are not recommended. Also this month, the church celebrates several more significant religious holidays.
Therefore, the most acceptable option is the last ten days of the month. Be sure to pay attention to the weather. Young women are advised to go outside on the eve of their wedding and look at the night light. If the Moon is hidden behind the clouds, you will have to worry about the well-being of your family on your own, but if it shines brightly in the sky, Providence will protect your marriage.
On your wedding day, it is important to pay attention to the weather. If the sun is shining brightly and snowflakes are flying in the air, this means material well-being and happiness. If the snow turns into rain or into a real snowstorm, this is not good. In this case, the groom must make sure that his beloved does not get her shoulders wet, otherwise he risks losing her soon after the wedding.
Snow for wedding omens
If the newlyweds have chosen the winter season to celebrate their wedding, then it is likely that it will snow on the wedding day. What does this mean, according to popular interpretation:
- If it is snowing thickly and the weather remains calm outside, it means that the family will live in material prosperity and they will have many healthy children.
- If it rarely snows, this means that the young people will maintain a tender and reverent feeling for each other all their lives.
- If a blizzard begins on the wedding day, this is a sign that the newlyweds will have a stormy and active family life, full of adventures.
Wedding in December
Marriage in December promises young people love until the grave. Such marriages are durable and stable. Love and financial well-being will only grow over the years. Only the 14th and 22nd are unfavorable. Marriages concluded on these dates of the month are short-lived, as astrologers say. The remaining dates are neutral.
At the same time, severe frost promises the couple the imminent birth of a boy, and snowfall promises financial well-being. Unstable weather is a bad omen that promises a roller coaster ride for young people.
Signs associated with a veil at a wedding
A veil for a bride is not just an attribute of decoration, but also a talisman:
- If the bride gets married without a veil, then she will be unhappy in her marriage, because she will have constant scandals, everything will end in divorce.
- The veil protects the bride from evil spirits and evil eyes.
- No one should touch the bride's veil with their own hands, except the girl's mother or an older blood relative.
- Only her husband, and not her mother-in-law, can remove the veil from a girl’s head. If the mother-in-law does this, then everything in the life of the young couple will be decided by her, and not by the newly-made husband. The mother-in-law can only cover the bride's head with a scarf to thus show that she has been accepted into the family.
Pre-wedding signs for the bride
- For a bride to be happy in her marriage, she needs to cry a little on her wedding day.
- In order for a girl to have a successful married life, she needs to place a coin in her shoe.
- The bride can pull the tablecloth a little on the home table if she has unmarried sisters. Thanks to this action, they will find their soul mates faster.
- The bride is not allowed to see herself in the mirror in her wedding attire before the wedding ceremony. You can look only if some element of the outfit is removed, for example, one glove.
Wedding signs for the groom
- To prevent the groom from being jinxed at the wedding, he needs to pin a pin decorated with flowers to his suit.
- To prevent the groom from wanting to cheat on his wife, it is better to wear a tie, not a bow tie, to the wedding.
- The groom's suit should only be black or dark gray. All other colors promise a man problems with health, finances and family happiness.
- If the groom stumbles over the threshold of the house during the ransom, it means that there will soon be another wedding in this house.
- If the groom gets into a puddle during the ransom, then, most likely, family life will turn him into an alcoholic.
- After the ransom, the groom should not leave the house where he took the bride, turning back. Otherwise, his wife will leave him shortly after the wedding.
Summer weddings
Those planning a summer wedding can expect to live happily ever after with their spouse.
Summer marriages promise a pleasant and joyful life together.
June is one of the most suitable periods for celebrations. He promises the couple an eternal honeymoon. In a family formed in June, the spouses will live in perfect harmony; love and harmony will prevail in their relationships.
Those getting married in July will divide everything in half. Spouses who start a family in July will have both sorrows and joys. The family happiness of the spouses will largely depend on how well they can build good relationships.
August
Family life will be based on love
The wedding celebration, held in August, according to signs, promises the newlyweds romance and tenderness in the union. The family life of those who have tied their fate in August will be built on friendship and mutual understanding.
Signs of gifts for a wedding
So that you do not make a fatal mistake and do not bring misfortune to the family with your gift to the newlyweds, we will tell you what you absolutely cannot give them as a gift:
- Knives and forks - they will bring grief and misfortune to the family.
- Antiques - they accumulate negative energy, which prevents a young family from building a life together.
- Handkerchiefs are a gift that will bring tears to the bride's eyes.
- A plant in a pot will take away the health of young people.
- Watches - they will shorten the time the young people live together.
- Hairpins will not allow the bride to feel relaxed and free in marriage.
- Empty vases and other vessels can lead to the couple not having children.
Signs of two weddings in one year
If there are brothers or sisters in a family who are going to tie the knot, then they need to choose different years for their marriage. Popular wisdom says that one of the families, if the weddings take place in the same year, will not live.
Of course, most of the signs listed are superstitions and relics of the past. In fact, for great love there are no barriers or obstacles. Plan your wedding the way you want - after all, this is a celebration of your life, which should be remembered as a happy day.