The best dates for a wedding in 2021 according to the wedding calendar

Since ancient times, our ancestors did not begin important matters without consulting an astrologer, shaman, fortune teller or clairvoyant. Even in the age of technological progress, when the world is increasingly beginning to resemble a picture from a science-fiction film, gadgets have settled in every home, and man is not only conquering the Earth, but also entering outer space, we often check the horoscope before planning a significant event in our life. life.

It is perhaps difficult to find a more superstitious person than a girl who is about to get married. Even the most self-confident businesswoman, skeptical of astrological forecasts, signs and fortune-telling, with special care chooses not only flowers for the wedding bouquet, formal attire, hall, musicians and photographer, but also the date of the wedding celebration.

Newlyweds choose their wedding date based on their beliefs

It is not without reason that it is believed that it is on this day that the stone of fate is laid for the newly created family unit. She can become happy, and the partners will love each other all their lives, or, conversely, unhappy, and family life will be accompanied by quarrels and discord. You can plan a favorable date for your wedding based on several criteria.

Favorable days for a wedding according to the lunar calendar

Representatives of astrological science believe that the correctly chosen date of celebration has a key impact not just on the family, but also on each of the spouses. When choosing a date, consider these recommendations:

• the waxing moon will ensure the marriage develops in a positive direction;
• avoid days when the planet of love Venus begins its reverse course in the sky;
• Do not plan wedding celebrations on days when there will be a new moon, lunar or solar eclipse. From the point of view of astrological science, the Moon is a symbol of the feminine principle, and the Sun is a symbol of the masculine principle, therefore a wedding during periods when they do not “get along” with each other will lead to conflicts in the future lives of the young people;
• it is better not to schedule a wedding on days when Venus enters the constellation Aries, Scorpio or Virgo - these signs of the zodiac circle do not contribute to a harmonious marriage;
• if you choose a month for a wedding, then astrology recommends those that are the fourth, fifth, seventh, tenth and eleventh from the month of your birth. It is believed that this will contribute to a successful marriage.

The lunar calendar will help you decide on your wedding day.
If you take a closer look at the calendar, favorable days for a wedding in 2021 will look like this:

• In January, astrologers highlight January 1, 2018 and the entire third ten days of the month as favorable days, especially January 21, 2018 and January 26, 2018, when the rise of the moon will ensure happiness for the young family. No celebrations should be scheduled for the first third of January;
• in February, the most favorable date is 02/25/2018. If it is not possible to hold a celebration on this date, you can choose from 02/17/2018, 02/18/2018, 02/21/2018 or 02/26/2018 - they are less favorable, but still better than other days of the month;
• in March it is worth stopping at 03/23/2018. As a last resort, set one of the following dates as the day of celebration: 03/19/2018 or 03/25/2018;
• in April, the most favorable days are 04/20/2018, 04/27/2018 and 04/29/2018;
• in May it is better to enter into an alliance on 05/20/2018, 05/25/2018 and 05/27/2018;
• June dates conducive to a long and happy marriage will be 06/15/2018 and 06/25/2018. If for some reason these days do not suit you, you can plan a celebration for 06/17/2018, 06/22/2018 or 06/26/27/2018 - they will not be as happy, but they also do not have negative energy;
• in July, plan a celebration for 07/15/2018, 07/20/2018 and 07/23/2018;
• in August, favorable days will be 08/17/2018, 08/24/2018 and 08/26/2018;
• Astrologers call 09/16/2018, 09/21/2018 and 09/23/2018 September days suitable for a wedding;
• in October, schedule a wedding for 10/14/2018, 10/19/2018 and 10/21/2018;
• for November weddings, the best days are November 9, 2018, November 14, 2018, or November 18, 2018;
• In December, astrologers identified 12/14/2018 and 12/21/2018 as the happiest dates. You can also set one of the following dates as your wedding day: 12/17/2018, 12/19/2018 and 12/20/2018.

Is debunking acceptable in Orthodox traditions?

Orthodoxy also conducts a rite of debunking , which can be carried out in 2021. It is not necessary to select a date for this procedure. It is worth talking to the priest and explaining the situation.

Father will allow debunking only if:

1. Your spouse has cheated.
2. The other half adopted a different faith.
3. Infertility of one of the halves.
4. Attempted murder.
5. Serious illness.
6. Bigamy.
7. Abortion.
8. Addiction.
9. Alcoholism.

The Church always advocates for the preservation of the family. However, there are situations when both people are extremely unhappy in the current relationship. Then, in order not to torment each other, it is worth leaving amicably.

A church wedding ceremony is one of the most beautiful and memorable. On this day, you should take the procedures carried out with full responsibility. In addition to choosing a date for the wedding, you should also carefully prepare mentally and spiritually.

Wedding day 2018 according to Feng Shui

Feng Shui specialists will determine favorable hours for a wedding
Determining a wedding day using Feng Shui is much more difficult than using the lunar calendar. It is better to contact a specialist who will indicate not only the day, but also the hours favorable for concluding a happy and lasting marriage. It is better to start a family on those dates that will be days of Balance, Good Luck, Establishment, Stability and Discovery for you.

Days that should definitely be avoided are “Sha” days - they make partners overly wasteful, quarrelsome and prone to constantly being late. Which days in 2021 will be favorable or unlucky? You can find out by making a personal calculation for partners.

When can I get married?

Wedding days - how to choose? In order to determine the correct date, you need to refer to the Orthodox calendar. Every year, it is issued taking into account all church holidays and fasts. Based on these data, you can determine the most successful period.

The date should not fall on a weekend at all. Father will be able to get married on weekdays. The wedding does not imply further celebration, so you can only come to the church procession with a narrow circle of relatives or close people.

When deciding on the final decision, you can consult with the priest who will conduct the ceremony. He will be the one who will be able to tell you whether you have chosen the date correctly.

The first Sunday after Easter, called Krasnaya Gorka, has long been considered the ideal time for a wedding. On this day, the largest number of newlyweds still sign at the registry office.

Wedding in 2021

Despite the fact that we live in an age of high technology, a huge number of young people want to seal their union with the help of the sacrament of wedding. Orthodox Christians who regularly attend church know all the days on which they can get married. Well, for the rest, we will tell you what you need to focus on when choosing a suitable date in 2021.

The best day for a wedding in 2021 is April 15

In general, the dates on which it is allowed or prohibited to get married in a church are limited by whether they fall on fasts, church celebrations, or certain days of the week. Let’s say right away that you will not be able to get married on one of the following days:

• on Wednesdays and Fridays, since they are considered fast, as well as on Saturdays, which, according to church canons, precede “Little Easter” (Sunday);
• on Easter falling on 04/08/2018;
• on the twelve feasts, such as the Entry of the Lord into Jerusalem, the Nativity of Christ, the Entry into the Temple of the Virgin Mary, the Exaltation of the Cross of the Lord, Baptism, the Ascension and Transfiguration of the Lord;
• on the days of important church fasts, which are considered Great Lent (from 02/19/2018 to 04/7/2018), Peter's Fast (from 06/4/2018 to 07/11/2018), Dormition Fast (from 08/14/2018 to 08/27/2018), Nativity Fast ( from November 28, 2018 to the end of 2021);
• during five weeks, which fall on the periods from 01/7/2018 to 01/18/2018, 01/29/2018 to 02/03/2018, 02/12/2018 to 02/17/2018, 04/9/2018 to 04/14/2018, 05/28/2018 to 02/02. 06.2018.

On any other day, you can have a wedding in agreement with the priest from the chosen church (each of them has its own celebrations on which the ceremony is not held). By the way, the most favorable days for concluding a family union are Krasnaya Gorka, which falls on April 15 in 2021, as well as the day of the Kazan Icon of the Mother of God (11/04/2018).

If it is not possible to hold both a wedding and a social celebration on the same day, do not worry. Simply agree on two separate dates for the most important event in your lives together.

The sacrament of weddings is impossible on days of fasting and church holidays

Who can be denied a wedding?

Fasting and holidays are not the only prohibition for weddings; there are also a number of conditions that do not allow this sacramental rite to be performed. Such restrictions are enshrined both in church charter and for moral reasons. And so, the wedding ceremony is prohibited if:

One of the spouses is an atheist;

• If the person is not baptized (this sacrament can be performed before the wedding);
• A person has taken holy orders, such as a monk or nun;
• If this is the second registered marriage, but the wedding is not held if the first marriage is still valid;
• If the persons are in a blood or spiritual relationship, the wedding is strictly prohibited;
• If a person breaks up a married family;
• The marriage is registered for the fourth time;
• Not for adults, as well as for men after 70 years of age, but for women after 60 years of age.

But there are exceptions to these rules. They can be circumvented if before the wedding you have a conversation with the ruling bishop, explain to him the whole situation and wait for his approval. The bishop will weigh all your statements and make a decision that will not violate church canons

Today there is such a thing as “debunking a marriage.” This happens very rarely in practice, but it still happens. Priests do not independently make decisions regarding the dissolution of a marriage; regarding this, you need to contact the diocese.

Only there can they make a decision based on a general and lengthy conversation with the spouses, and if there is a good reason, they can approve it. The debunking of a marriage is carried out so that a wedding ceremony can be performed with another person. There are a number of reasons why debunking may take place:

1. Adultery – if a married person starts a new relationship;
2. If one of the spouses decides to change faith;
3. If there is drug addiction or alcoholism in the family;
4. Concluding several marriages at the same time;
5. If one of the spouses attempted to kill family members;
6. If a person is considered missing, or has been absent from marriage for more than 5 years;
7. A family cannot have children in common;
8. If a woman has an abortion without her husband's consent.

The Church does not approve of such debunking. Priests always say that the family must be preserved in any case. But there are situations when a couple in a marriage is unhappy, they create a burden for each other, such a marriage cannot be called Christian. In such individual cases, priests agree to conduct a debunking ceremony so that people can still find their happiness in life and be happy.

As you can see, a wedding is not only an important process according to the canons of the church, but a very important and responsible step for future spouses. And if you nevertheless decide to hold it immediately after registering your marriage, then you must be completely confident in the correct choice of your soul mate.

After all, you are creating a family forever, and you must understand what responsibility you place on your shoulders. Only a family that is built on love and respect will be able to confidently go through the entire difficult path of life together.

What do folk signs say?

The Slavs have long endowed some months with features conducive to strong and happy marriages. It was assumed that if the wedding was in February, then the newlyweds would live their lives without quarrels, in June - life would be a honeymoon, in August - there would be partners and lovers and friends, in September - expect a quiet and comfortable life, in November - the couple would be rich , in December - love will only flare up with time.

May was considered an unfavorable period for weddings, but now this sign can be neglected. For our ancestors, this month was difficult, because agricultural work began in May, people plowed and sowed all day - what a celebration! Well, the most favorable days for weddings, engagements and matchmaking were considered odd dates - for example, 3, 9, 17, 25.