The great ancient Greek philosopher Heraclides once said: “Everything flows, everything changes.” Today there are practically no exclusively female or male professions. The girls easily mastered repair work, driving, programming and much more. And men go on maternity leave instead of their wives after the birth of a child. And all these situations became absolutely normal.
In this regard, girls who want to bring their relationship to a logical conclusion have a question: “How to propose to a man?” After all, a marriage proposal from a guy is an absolutely organic process, but a girl needs to do it in an unusual and dignified way. The Svadebka.ws portal will tell you more about this.
Say it straight in a romantic setting
You definitely know the man well, since you decided to make him an offer to live happily ever after after the stamp in your passport. It is much easier to surprise a romantic man than a skeptic, and the chances that he will answer “Yes” are much greater. So feel free to book a table at your favorite restaurant or cook a delicious dinner at home. Light the candles and don’t forget to wear a dress that will transform you into a stunning beauty. You don’t need to get down on your knees and give a ring! Just at the right moment, tell him how much you love him and offer to legitimize the relationship.
But just in case, between the declaration of love and the proposal itself, do not forget to focus on the fact that you cannot live without each other, backing this up with specific examples from life. We think that after this no loving man can resist.
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How to hint to a man about marriage if you have been dating for a long time or already live together
When you have been together for quite a long time and even share everyday life, it is more difficult to persuade a man to get married. Usually, if there is no marriage proposal in the first year, it means something is going wrong. Either the relationship is developing too slowly, or you are making mistakes.
Why girls are most often not married, and how to become an ideal bride, I have already written. In the section “Ideal love relationships” you will find other useful articles on the topic of serious relationships. But let's get back to the main thing. What to do? How to hint to a man that it’s time to get married if he’s happy with everything without a stamp.
Girls, the “bunny” technology will also suit you: run away, tease, stop being available. Just change your tactics a little: go to another room, behave unexpectedly. And yes, even if everything was different before, it’s never too late to review the rules. What else?
If you don't live together yet, so much the better:
- find a new hobby;
- meet with your friends more often;
- take care of yourself;
- Flirt more, become a mystery.
You don't need to spend 24 hours every day with a man. If you are usually together all weekend, break the tradition and change your plans. Let him feel: you are not 100% his, someone else may encroach on you. Jealousy is a strong feeling that can be used skillfully. Just be careful, otherwise playing with fire may end badly!
Cunning
You can propose marriage using tricks and feminine tricks that are stored in the arsenal of every girl. For example, after great sex you can say: “Darling, why don’t we get married? Be my husband" or "We are such a cool couple, let's get married." Or even pretend to be very upset and say: “Everyone at work is already laughing because I’m the only one who’s not married. Let’s finally spare my employees the pleasure of washing my bones - are you ready to become my lawful husband?”
You know, there are even more options here than in the previous method. The main thing is to correctly develop a strategy and create an action plan in your head. We also advise you to say that after marriage, life together becomes even better or something like that.
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How to propose marriage to a guy without getting into trouble?
What should you do if your relationship with a guy has been going on for quite a long time, but he doesn’t even think about getting married? After all, couples usually start living together long before the wedding. And how can you tell if a guy really has serious intentions for a girl?
So, if such a situation occurs, then you need to act without delaying the issue. After all, there are cases when a guy lives with a girl for several years, they even have children together, but he never thinks about getting married. And young ladies usually discreetly keep silent about this, believing that the first step in this matter must be taken by a man. Of course, this is true, but what if you try to take the initiative into your own hands and think about how to propose marriage to a guy. (By
Give an ultimatum
We can say that you actually don’t have to get up early in the morning and instead of soaking up under a warm blanket for an extra half hour, you cook cheesecakes or soup. And to end all this by posing the question bluntly: either we go to the registry office or I won’t cook/go to Sunday lunches with YOUR mother/welcome YOUR friends to visit/live with you in the same territory... This, of course, is blackmail, but what can you do? , if your loved one is such a slow-witted person?
In the end, you can use heavy artillery: “You want children so much, but I’m not ready to go from the status of an enviable bride to the status of a single mother, so let’s get married.”
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Is the man ready?
If you do not fall into these categories, then things are serious between you and your potential husband. Now you need to understand whether your man is ready for a serious decision. Talk to him about family, life values, children. Notice how he talks about the future. He uses “we”, “us”. Or does the self-confident “I” appear everywhere? Psychologists say that men mature towards marriage closer to 30 years of age. They had a blast and settled down. There is a need for consistency, home comfort, and a reassessment of values occurs. If your man took the conversation seriously enough and looks confidently into the future, get down to business.
Model a situation that is hopeless for him
Every man has his own weaknesses. Someone is afraid of spiders, someone loves cars, and someone cannot say a bad word in the presence of their or your parents. This is what you need to take advantage of. Just model and create a situation in which the “victim” will be discouraged and accept your conditions, in this situation - the offer.
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What to do if the guy refused your offer to legalize the relationship?
If it turns out that the guy doesn’t plan to marry you, don’t be upset. Many people are arranged on dates. Look at the situation from the other side. You already want to start a family, give birth to a sea of children. If your loved one doesn’t need it, maybe you shouldn’t waste your precious time on him?
A guy may not want to get married not because there is something wrong with you. Men are very afraid of responsibility. They are also very afraid of falling flat on their face because not everyone knows how to do it and is not intimately familiar with the responsibilities.
The guy is very afraid that every day he will have to wash dishes, vacuum carpets, take out trash, go to the store for groceries…. It seems to him that freedom is over, that marriage is boring and scary. He probably just watched enough of all sorts of films, and managed to hear a lot from his friends about what marriage and family life are like.
Don’t insist on going to the registry office if your sweetheart doesn’t need it. Don't humiliate yourself, don't beg and don't cry. He will cry when he understands and realizes what charm he has lost.
You are not the only one who dreams of rings, a dress and a change in marital status. The trouble is that not everything works out for girls. Not everything and not at once, as we would like. Maybe you shouldn't rush to leave him? You will always have time to do this. What if your loved one still needs time? And don’t ask what or why. Don't even ask why. Your question is rhetorical.
Love him, enjoy him and let yourself be enjoyed. And time will tell whether you will stand at the altar.
You can be happy not only in marriage. You can, for starters, hint to him that it wouldn’t be a bad idea to live together for a while. Living together will allow you to get to know each other better and better. Well, if your boyfriend doesn’t agree to this, find out from him why he is so opposed to this option. Perhaps the reason is much more serious than you thought and fantasized.
If your boyfriend says that he is not completely sure of his feelings for you, you have a reason to think it over thoroughly. Many people believe that men who “run away” from any type of marriage do not truly love the one they are dating. A guy who experiences strong and unartificial feelings will most likely respond to an offer to marry or live together: “yes, even now.”
Don't put pressure on the guy, don't insist on your own. You must understand: you can’t drag a guy into the registry office by force. Yes, and this is not necessary. You want everything to be consensual, don't you? Women often ruin everything with their stubbornness and their whims. They need everything at once. And this doesn’t even happen in all fairy tales. In a fairytale life, too, you often need to fight hard for your happiness!
Propose on February 29
February 29th is St. Oswald's Day. It is on this day that once every four years a girl can propose to a guy, and he has no right to refuse. Just imagine, what a coincidence - this year February has not 28, but 29 days. So you hold all the cards. But we want to warn you that your future husband may not know about this custom, so on the numbers 27-28, casually slip in an article about the holiday or tell them that four years ago a friend of your friend took advantage of the situation, and the family will celebrate the third very soon wedding anniversary in love and harmony.
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Yes, take a risk in the end! And even if you hear a negative answer, you will know for sure that this man is not ready to be responsible for the two of you. This means you should part with him immediately. We wish you good luck and hear “Yes” in response!
Why do girls want to get married?
Let's first figure out why you want to get married? Why for this guy and right now? Ask yourself these questions to understand your true motives. Girls often get married thoughtlessly, under the influence of emotions and the opinions of those close to them. To prevent this from happening to you, read the following points.
In what cases should you not rush into marriage:
- To spite the ex. This strategy is never winning. And it is not your ex who will suffer, but you. To get married means to live with a person, endure his shortcomings, take care of him in illness and sorrow. A hasty wedding will result in daily torment for you and, most likely, a quick divorce. Approximately the same fate awaits marriages created with the aim of teaching parents a lesson.
- Be no worse than others. All my friends got married, some gave birth to children. And you are like a black sheep. You are no longer interested in communicating with your friends. But this is not a reason to urgently look for a husband. A man is not a thing. And family is hard work. Perhaps your time to get married has not yet come. Develop professionally, find a hobby.
- Make it to 30 years of age. Does a jar of “30+” cream annoyingly remind you of age and an unfulfilled plan for family happiness? So what if there’s no men’s deodorant next to the jar of cream? Everything has its time. Don't rush at the first person you meet. Rejection from a man can be a serious trauma.
KNOWLEDGE BASE: Why get married?
In any of these cases, the best recipe is to enjoy freedom and develop.
