Wedding game “Distribution of family responsibilities”

Wedding competitions for the bride and groom are comic tests for young people in preparation for family life.
Tasks are carried out in the form of fun games. The newlyweds must show their skills, which will be useful in everyday life, establish leadership in the family, demonstrate caring attitude and love for each other. Wedding competitions can be romantic, extravagant, funny and lyrical. Let's look at examples of interesting competitions for weddings.

Dear my readers!

The site provides only informational information for creating an original and beautiful wedding celebration. I'm not selling anything

Where to buy? You can find and purchase the celebration accessories described in the articles in Special online stores where delivery is available throughout Russia

Testing the skills of the bride and groom

The purpose of this group of competitions is to find out the skills of the bride and groom.
Very often, thanks to various tasks, you can find out a lot of new things about the bride and groom. The newlywed demonstrates her skills in sewing, knitting, cooking, and caring for her husband and children.

The young spouse shows the ability to perform purely male duties around the house: repairing, making something, chopping wood, lighting the fireplace, etc. You can also find out whether the future dad will be able to swaddle the baby, get the child ready for school, kindergarten or for a walk, braid his daughter’s hair or tie a bow, etc.

The newlyweds can demonstrate the coherence and compatibility of the couple in such tasks as: lighting a family hearth together, putting out the first quarrel (a candle, a torch that is set on fire at the right moment and with the right words). In addition, the newlyweds will have to be resourceful in order to pay it off faster.

Traditional wedding scenario

The wedding ceremony script is drawn up in such a way that the participants of the celebration do not have to get bored. But every entertainment necessarily has a corresponding meaning. Any game at a wedding event helps prepare for family life. In marriage, young people expect not only joy, but also various difficulties. In a playful way, they are encouraged to resolve difficulties that may come their way.

For example, already at the celebration, the participants of the holiday try to determine which of the newlyweds will take the leading position in the family. Sometimes these are just funny fortune telling, like the ritual with a loaf.

Often at weddings, traditional ceremonies of ancestors are held, which demonstrate the readiness of the newlyweds for a family life, which assumes that the husband will play the main role in the family. There are also funnier versions of games that invite newlyweds to share family responsibilities.

IMPORTANT TO KNOW: Ideas for a bachelorette party: how to celebrate so that there is something to remember

Distribution of responsibilities in the family

With the help of the following selection of games, newlyweds will be able to distribute their responsibilities in family life.

Family responsibilities. Option 1.

The host brings pieces of paper with responsibilities written on them that may fall to the bride or groom.
Each piece of paper is folded so that what is written is not visible to anyone, and placed on a tray. The young people must take turns taking pieces of paper and reading out what fate is in store for them. Moreover, each duty is accompanied by the words: “I will...”, and what is written will become a continuation of the phrase.

Responsibilities may include:

• wash the dishes,
• taking out the trash,
• Earn Money,
• lying on the sofa,
• mend clothes,
• go on picnics
• wash diapers,
• chat on the phone
• go to restaurants and cafes,
• prepare delicious dishes,
• go to the beach,
• wash,
• iron,
• give birth to children,
• To do nothing,
• babysit children
• watch TV,
• vacuum,
• watch M-TV,
• raise children
• do shopping,
• to drink beer,
• teach a child to read,
• wipe off the dust
• knit socks,
• do makeovers.

My dear readers! To save your time on organizing the holiday, we invite you to use our works. In our archive you will find cards for this competition.

Cards for the competition: “Responsibilities of the bride and groom”:

• 22 high quality author's cards ~(2453x574px) 72dpi
• the pictures are made in the same style
• optimized for printing on A5,10×15,13×18,15×21 formats

Download Cards “Responsibilities of the Bride and Groom”

Examples of pictures from the archive (reduced):

Wedding game - Chamomile, duties of husband and wife (19 RUR)

Family responsibilities. Option 2.

Various things are hung on a rope to symbolize different responsibilities.
For example:

• frying pan - who will have to cook food;
• empty beer bottle - who should drink beer;
• iron - who will do the ironing;
• a pack of washing powder - who will do the laundry;
• children's book - who will raise the children;
• wallet - who will become the money earner;
• skewer - who will go to the barbecue;
• spool of thread - who will mend clothes and darn socks, etc.

The bride and groom are blindfolded, after which the presenter explains that each of them will need to remove six items.
After this is done, the bride and groom are untied. The presenter, taking each of the removed objects in his hands in turn, explains their meaning, starting with the words: “The husband will…”, “The wife will…”.

Family responsibilities. Option 3.

The toastmaster says to the bride and groom:

Dear newlyweds! In life you will have to perform many household responsibilities, and let fate now distribute them among you. Magic balls will help us in this competition.

10 balls and 2 pins are brought out.
The bride and groom take turns choosing and popping balloons, and reading out the responsibilities that fall to them.

Before reading the text of the card, it is advisable for the bride and groom to say the following: To the groom:

My only one! For the sake of your smile I am ready...

To the bride:

My dear! I love you so much that I agree...

Phrases for cards:

• Making money - I can do that.
• Cook cabbage soup, or maybe borscht - I’m not averse to doing this.
• Playing sports in the morning - This suits me, brothers.
• My job is to relax, lying on the ottoman to read.
• Play in the casino until nightfall - I love this job very much.
• I will go shopping, so be it.
• I will wash, and do laundry, and clean the apartment.
• Mushrooms, fishing and hunting - That, friends, is my job.
• I will bake pies only on holidays.
• There is no more beautiful job - making compotes for the winter.
• I will take the children to the circus, to the cinema, to the theater, to the museum.
• I say in front of everyone, friends, I will tinker with the children.
• Digging a garden at the dacha I will, but how else?
• I'll serve you coffee in the morning in your bed.
• Pouring yourself in a bathhouse with sweat - This is a wonderful job.
• I will eat the harvest in the garden, everything is fine here.
• I'm not too lazy to make my bed in the morning, even every day.
• Throwing trash out of the house - I am familiar with this matter.
• Giving gifts and flowers You will be in our house.
• I can fix the bell or the door, believe me.
• I can nail a shelf to the wall. I can do that quite well.
• I’ll go on vacation at the seaside, no need to argue.
• Dressing only according to fashion is something I can do, I think.
• Repairing the car in the garage - I will, of course.
• Travel the world - I will, how sweet it is.
• Renovating an apartment - I will be wonderfully different.

At the end the presenter says:

Family responsibilities are distributed, but I am sure that you will help each other in difficult family work.

Dolls

Props:

• 1. Dolls (Ken and Barbie) - 2 pairs.

The bride and groom stand with their backs to each other, each holding a pair of dolls that symbolize the bride and groom.
The presenter names different family responsibilities. The newlyweds raise those dolls that should do this. The competition is very interesting not only for the guests, but, first of all, for the bride and groom.

Examples of family responsibilities:

• I will ask my parents for money.
• I will earn money.
• I will spend money.
• I will be involved in raising our children.
• I will give birth to children.
• I will drink beer with friends.
• I'll serve coffee in bed in the morning.
• I will go to the dressmaker.
• I'll take out the trash.
• I will cook and eat.
• I will lie on the couch and watch TV.
• I will clean the apartment.
• I'll hand over the bottles.
• I will wash the baby's diapers.
• I will go to football.
• I will go to the theater.
• I will walk with the child.
• I'll wash the dishes.
• I will drive the car your parents give you as a gift.
• I will be repairing our car.
• I will go fishing.
• I will go to the resorts.
• I'll play on the computer.
• I'll wash my socks.
• I will embroider and knit in the evenings.
• I will carry my wife in my arms.

Essence and props

The main idea of ​​this competition is to distribute responsibilities within a young family, so that it is fun and interesting for both the newlyweds and guests. There are several options for carrying it out. Depending on which option the presenter offers, the newlyweds either determine their responsibilities in the family themselves, or chance does it for them.
The competition will fit perfectly into the entertainment program for a small wedding.
To conduct this you may need one or another props. You will also have to prepare a text for the presenter and select music. Important! You should not completely rely on the tastes of the host or DJ in choosing wedding music, as their preferences may not coincide with yours.
Props for the competition “Distribution of family responsibilities”:

• balls with pieces of paper on which responsibilities are written, and needles;
• objects symbolizing some kind of duty (for example, a frying pan or a hammer), and a rope;
• cards with text, tray or jar;
• homemade chamomile;
• spinning top with an arrow, envelopes with questions.

Wedding competition: Get to know me, darling

Bride's Leg

Props:

• 1. Scarf for eyes.
• 2. Stockings.

The ladies, including the bride, sit on the chairs, 4-5 people. They show the groom that his wife is sitting among them. The groom is blindfolded. At this moment, all the women change seats, and among them (for color) 1-2 men sit down. At this time, the bride is replaced by another girl. Everyone bares one leg (just above the knees) and lets the groom in with a bandage. He is squatting, touching everyone's bare leg with his hands in turn, and must recognize his wife. Men can wear stockings to hide hairiness. There are many options.

Bride's hand

Several women come out, preferably of different ages, from girls to grandmothers. They remove all the jewelry from the hand. The groom must guess his betrothed while blindfolded.

Kiss the Bride

Recognize the bride by a kiss (the groom is seated on a chair, three girls are called, he is blindfolded; only the bride always kisses).

Funny competition - questions for newlyweds

This wedding competition for the bride and groom is held at the table. The presenter prepares two jars in advance. In one he puts funny questions for newlyweds, and in the other - answers. The bride and groom take turns taking out questions and answers.

Questions:

• Will you often go to visit your wife's (husband's) parents?
• Will you be taking your significant other to Paris on holiday?
• Will you give your spouse an expensive watch (jewelry with diamonds) for his birthday?
• Will you get 10 cats?
• Do you want many children?
• Would you like your guests to give you the Kama Sutra?
• Will you take food home from the banquet?
• Will you be preparing dinner for your loved one?
• Will you wash your socks?
• Will you carry your significant other in your arms?

Sample answers:

• This is all I dream about.
• You don't need to know this.
• I'll be delighted with this.
• Your question scares me
• It depends on how much I drink.
• Maybe I can sing better?
• Maybe not?
• This is a very responsible decision. I need to think this through carefully.
• I think everyone should do this.
• This is confidential information.

This fun wedding competition for the bride and groom is perfect for the table part of the holiday.

Wedding competition: Guess me, my love!

Groom's ear

The bride is blindfolded. You need to recognize the groom by his earlobe or nose (five men).

Find out by voice

Props:

• 1. Balloon filled with helium.

Take a balloon filled with helium. First, the bride is blindfolded or turns away. Then several men should come out and take turns saying “I love you” to the bride, changing their voice with a balloon. Among these men is her husband. The bride must guess the voice of her lover.

Wedding competition: Choosing the head of the family

• The newlyweds must break the bagel. Whose half is larger is the head of the family.
• The two of you break a loaf of bread. Whose half is greater is the head of the family.
• There is a coin hidden in a loaf of bread, whoever finds it first is the master of the house.
• Two glasses, one filled with vodka, the other with water. Whoever chooses a glass of vodka will be the head.
• A strip of paper with a penny stuck in the middle. The newlyweds take the strip by the edges and, at the command of the host, tear it. Whoever has a coin left on the piece of paper will earn money for the family.

Wedding fortune telling for a boy-girl

Cabbage

Props:

• 1. Cabbage.
• 2. Coin.

There is a coin hidden in the cabbage. Who will find her first? If the groom is a boy, if the bride is a girl.

Kindergarten

Props:

• 1.Children's toys.
• 2. Scarf for eyes.

Children's toys are laid out on a tray - those that belong to girls - a doll, knitting needles, some kind of decoration, and those that belong to boys - cars, pistols, etc.
The groom is blindfolded and asked to take a toy at random from the tray. On this subject they wonder who will be first. You can let the bride take part in fortune telling. Then the newlyweds, blindfolded, take turns sorting out the toys and, based on the last toy, determine who will be the first to be born in the young family.

Compliments

A delicious compliment

The host asks the bride the names of the dishes that she will prepare for her beloved for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

For each dish, the groom must tell his wife an affectionate word beginning with the same letter as the dish:
Potatoes are my beauty, cutlets are my kitten, salad is my sexy...

Wedding game - Compliment (19 RUR)

Affectionate hedgehog

Props:

• 1.Apple.
• 2.Toothpicks.

Stick more matches into a big beautiful apple. The newlyweds should take turns pulling out these matches and saying sweet words. Whoever has the most matches wins.

I am always with you

Props:

• 1. Sheets of paper with inscriptions.

This game involves the bride and groom.
Its essence is that on a large sheet of paper the sentence “I am always with you, beloved” is written in a line. The paper is cut into strips, each of which corresponds to one of the letters of the inscription. The bride and groom take turns tearing off strips of paper and choosing affectionate words for each other that begin with the letters that make up the phrase.

Tests at a wedding for everyone present: first acquaintance

At first, cool competitions for newlyweds at a wedding with the participation of guests are designed to introduce everyone present and defuse the situation . Therefore, they begin immediately after the invitees have sat down at the table and had a little snack. To begin with, you can divide the guests among the tables and invite each team to come up with as many different congratulations as possible for the newlyweds. After the first wishes, you can complicate the process, for example, ask to depict your feelings and words using pantomime or song.

Whose congratulations are more original or there are more of them, that team will win as a result

Wedding competition: "Darts"

Props:

• 1. Game "Darts".
• 2. Inscriptions on paper.

Test for the groom. You need to prepare the game “Darts” in advance. Glue strips on the field with the names of the benefits that he can present to the bride in the first year of marriage - “trip around the world”, “car”, “dacha”, etc.

Well, groom, tell everyone, Show me in the test - What the first year of life will bring to your bride. There is a lot on the target that you can present to it. Gather your strength, come on, direct your arrows accurately.