How to organize a wedding yourself in Moscow

In the modern world, many concepts and traditions are losing their meaning. Unfortunately, the ancient, true essence of the wedding was also among them. The attitude towards the ancient sacrament became careless and superficial. People get married and divorced without bothering to realize the seriousness of this step. They leave their own children without parental support, shifting responsibility for their care to the state. Meanwhile, the very concept of “wedding” has a deep spiritual meaning. And the opportunity to eat deliciously and have fun is far from the most important thing on this significant, fateful day.

The meaning of the word "wedding"

By looking in any explanatory dictionary, you can find out the meaning of the word “wedding”. According to printed sources, the meaning of a wedding is the marriage ceremony performed, in compliance with the traditions and customs accepted in a given ethnic community.

If we consider the word from the point of view of etymology, a slightly different, interesting picture opens up. What is characteristic is that in almost all languages with Slavic roots, it sounds recognizable:

“wedding” in Church Slavonic, Czech and Bulgarian;
"swadźba" in Polish;
"svadba" in Slovak and Macedonian.

Usually the origin of the word is derived from the root “matchmaker”, “one’s own”, that is, a person who is accepted into the inner circle is made close, dear, an ally. However, there is another, more complex version. According to research by scientists, the word “wedding” in Old Church Slavonic languages is easily divided into three syllable concepts:

“sva”, denoting enlightenment, spiritual growth, heavenly grace;
“d”, meaning good;
“ba”, which translates as respect, veneration.

That is, the ancient Slavic meaning of this familiar word is a blessing for the young for a prosperous family life.

Parental blessing

Blessing the newlyweds for family life is one of the most important stages of an ancient wedding. In the old days, it was unthinkable to get married without the approval of older relatives. It was believed that without parental approval, young people would not see happiness and prosperity in family life. The blessing was given by the parents of the young, or their godparents, and in case of their absence or death, by the most respected senior relatives and guardians. The ritual is divided into two stages.

First blessing

The newlyweds receive it from the bride's parents on the morning of the wedding day. That is, immediately before visiting the registry office or the sacrament of wedding in the church. In the old days, this ritual was performed long before the wedding, on the day when the groom’s matchmakers received the consent of the bride’s parents for the marriage. But today the tradition of matchmaking is practically no longer used. How does the ritual work?

The young people ask for a blessing from the bride's parents after the groom has paid the ransom for his beloved, passed all the tests that the relatives and bridesmaids could think of, and handed her a bouquet.
During the entire ceremony, the girl is forbidden to cross the threshold of the house or go outside. It is believed that beyond the threshold the bride no longer belongs to her family, she begins a new life.
They bless in different ways. An ancient custom prescribes spreading out an embroidered towel, on which the young people kneel. And the parents are holding in their hands an old, prayed-up icon, with which they baptize the newlyweds, saying kind parting words.
Today you can get by with just good wishes and mutual hugs: parental approval is very important for children, even if they are already quite adults.

By blessing, the parents fully accept their daughter’s chosen one into their family and approve of her choice.

Second blessing

It is given to the young family by the groom's parents. According to established traditions, newlyweds must acquire the official status of a new family by going through the marriage procedure at the registry office, or by getting married in a temple (depending on national and family traditions). Previously, the ritual was performed on the threshold of the groom's house, where he brought his young wife. The action itself almost completely copied the morning blessing, except that the parents chose their own words. Today it is permissible to hold a ceremony at the site of the festive feast - in front of the entrance to a banquet hall, bar or cafe, in a forest clearing or on the shore of the sea, lake, or on board a ship.

Newlyweds who do not want to follow the old canons can include blessing ceremonies in the banquet script. Under the guise of one of the first toasts, parents will talk about the wonderful qualities of their children entering a new life, wishing love and harmony in family relationships, prosperity and prosperity. You can arrange the blessing in poetic form or even put on a small performance, showing children's photos and videos, the story of the newlyweds' acquaintance and love.

What are weddings like?

In modern society, little limited by traditions and beliefs, there are different types of weddings. They differ in the degree of officialdom, scenarios and style. Newlyweds choose the format that they like best and that suits their worldview and aspirations. What types of weddings are there?

Traditional wedding

Wanting to have a wedding according to all the rules, with rituals that have come from time immemorial, newlyweds choose a traditional format. It could be:

celebration in the national style - Russian folk, Chuvash, Mordovian, Yakut, etc.;
wedding with a wedding in a church;
a solemn ceremony in the Wedding Palace or the registry office.

The usual attributes of such holidays are the beautiful outfits of the bride and groom, a ceremony consecrated for centuries and decades, which must be strictly observed. A parade train is made up of decorated cars or floats, witnesses, matchmakers, boyfriends and girlfriends, and wedding managers are appointed. Such wedding celebrations look very impressive, are widespread and are remembered for many years.

Wedding for two

Recently, weddings for only two lovers have been gaining popularity. In the modern world, with its everyday bustle, abundance of information and communication, sometimes you want to take a break from everyone in a calm, cozy environment. Therefore, many newlyweds arrange a wedding without inviting guests and relatives. The way they want, without regard to other people's opinions and traditions.

A wedding for two has many advantages:

there is no need to devote time to guests, to break up drunken conflicts;
much less pre-wedding fuss with its preparation, spending money, guest lists and decorating the banquet hall;
you can leave the restaurant at any time or completely abandon the feast in the usual format, and have, for example, a picnic in nature;
You can spend the savings set aside for the wedding not on a mountain of food and staff, but on a truly exciting, romantic trip.

Symbolic wedding

This wedding is a kind of celebration for two. With the difference that a celebration for family and friends is still held, but after the official marriage. Typically, this format is offered if the event will be held at sea, abroad, far from your place of residence.

In addition, such a wedding can be arranged at the height of family life, at any age, to remember those feelings that once connected two hearts.

Wedding anniversaries

The wedding anniversary is another tradition that is remembered quite often. Not all families celebrate it every year, but round dates are usually not missed. You can celebrate it modestly, only with your closest relatives. Or have a big celebration with a lot of guests. Here is their list:

Green wedding is a wedding day
Calico wedding - 1 year of marriage.
Paper wedding - 2 years of marriage.
Leather wedding - 3 years of marriage.
Linen wedding - 4 years of marriage.
Wooden wedding - 5 years of marriage.
Cast iron wedding - 6 years of marriage.
Copper wedding - 7 years of marriage.
Tin wedding - 8 years of marriage.
Faience wedding - 9 years of marriage.
Tin wedding - 10 years of marriage.
Steel wedding - 11 years of marriage.
Nickel wedding - 12 years of marriage.
Lily of the valley wedding - 13 years of marriage.
Agate wedding - 14 years of marriage.
Crystal wedding - 15 years of marriage.
Topaz wedding - 16 years of marriage.
Pink wedding - 17 years of marriage.
Turquoise wedding - 18 years.
Pomegranate wedding - 19 years of marriage.
Porcelain wedding - 20 years of marriage.
Opal wedding - 21 years of marriage.
Bronze wedding - 22 years of marriage.
Beryl wedding - 23 years of marriage.
Satin wedding - 24 years of marriage.
Silver wedding - 25 years of marriage.
Jade wedding - 26 years of marriage.
Mahogany - 27 years of marriage.
Nickel wedding - 28 years of marriage.
Velvet wedding - 29 years of marriage.
Pearl wedding - 30 years of marriage.
Sunny wedding - 31 years of marriage.
Copper wedding - 32 years of marriage.
Stone wedding - 33 years of marriage.
Amber wedding - 34 years of marriage.
Coral wedding - 35 years of marriage.
Bone china - 36 years of marriage.
Muslin wedding - 37 years of marriage.
Mercury wedding - 38 years of marriage.
Crepe wedding - 39 years of marriage.
Ruby wedding - 40 years of marriage.
Iron wedding - 41 years of marriage.
Mother of pearl wedding - 42 years of marriage.
Flannel wedding - 43 years of marriage.
Topaz wedding - 44 years of marriage.
Sapphire wedding - 45 years of marriage.
Lavender wedding - 46 years of marriage.
Cashmere wedding - 47 years of marriage.
Amethyst wedding - 48 years of marriage.
Cedar wedding - 49 years of marriage.
Golden wedding - 50 years of marriage.
Emerald wedding - 55 years.
Diamond wedding - 60 years.
Iron wedding - 65 years.
Wedding of grace - 70 years.
Crown wedding - 75 years.
Oak wedding - 80 years.
Red Wedding – 100 years.

Wedding preparations and comic documents

All organizational aspects for the wedding, including various little things like car decoration, wedding cake design, and cultural program for guests should be thought out in advance. In addition, the importance and solemnity of such an event in a person’s life as a wedding will help to emphasize comic documents and awards specially prepared for the occasion. After all, the sooner you decide what exactly you want to see at your wedding, the more likely it is that you will be able to make your dreams come true. Of course, it is impossible to foresee everything, but you need to pay special attention to the main points in preparing a wedding.

Decide on the wedding date and budget.
Make a guest list.
Choose and buy wedding rings.
Choose a wedding venue and reserve it.
Choose and order a wedding dress and accessories, as well as a suit and accessories for the groom.
Send out wedding invitations. We recommend that you notify guests about your wedding in advance so that everyone is free on the day.
Make an appointment with a wedding planner, who will select a team of specialists and help you decide on the concept of the wedding.

There are still many questions related to the wedding. Therefore, it is necessary to start a diary. After all, when you don’t write things down, but keep them in your head, you get tired, forget a lot, and you get the feeling that you need to do much more than you actually have. With a diary, you can clearly see how much work you actually have, and by correctly systematizing and combining tasks, you will solve them more effectively. Remember that wedding preparations are only part of your life. Don't forget to give yourself a break and distract yourself with something else, whether it's a hobby or hanging out with friends. Then this time will not be so tiring, and you will begin to feel calmer about any problems.

Talking wedding traditions

Each wedding custom that has come down to us has its own symbolism:

by moving to the groom's house, the bride thereby undertakes to lead a joint life, reunites with her husband, who is the basis that holds the foundation of the new family;
exchanging gifts, strangers until now become closer, establish good relationships;
abundant food and drink, songs and dances drive away evil forces, symbolize the future prosperity of the new family, and express people’s joy at the creation of a new unit of society.

In addition to folk rituals, there are also religious rituals. They have survived to this day almost unchanged. These are Christian weddings, Islamic nikah, and Jewish nisuin. It is believed that the sacrament of marriage seals the marriage with inextricable spiritual bonds.

Throwing the bride's bouquet

In the old days, only the groom was responsible for making a bouquet for his chosen one. After all, these flowers symbolized the strength of his feelings. He could get the rarest, most unusual flower for his beloved, from the tops of the mountains or from the depths of the forest, pick a bouquet of field daisies and cornflowers, or ask/buy luxurious garden flowers. Today this custom is practically not used: the bride chooses a bouquet to match her dress. And, as you know, the groom is strictly forbidden to see his wedding attire until the “X” day.

The most enduring, romantic traditions of Russian weddings are associated with the bouquet and boutonniere:

the final part of the “bride price”, when, having gone through fire and water, heroically overcoming the obstacles that stand in the way, the groom finally gets to the coveted reward in the person of his chosen one. It is then that he gives her a luxurious wedding bouquet. If a girl accepts the gift, it means she agrees to get married;
Previously, the beloved would take a flower from the bouquet given to her and give it to the groom as a sign of her favor. The happy chosen one pinned the plant to his suit, demonstrating to the whole world that the bride was going down the aisle of her own free will. Today, it is not customary to violate a perfectly calibrated composition compiled by the best florists. Therefore, the boutonniere is ordered along with the wedding bouquet in advance. But, if you wish, you can observe this beautiful, touching custom;
Throwing the bride's bouquet into a flock of unmarried bridesmaids is another sacredly observed custom. Rarely is a wedding complete without funny attempts by girls to race to catch thrown flowers. With this gesture, the bride shares her good fortune with her unmarried friends. It is believed that the smartest and fastest lucky woman will get married before the end of the year, and the marriage will be favorable.

At modern weddings, the bride's garter is often thrown along with the bouquet. This custom came to us from Medieval Europe. The groom solemnly and beautifully removes the garter from the bride's leg and throws it to his single friends. The bride must dance with the lucky person who caught her wardrobe item. There is also a sign that this guy will soon be married.

The essence of the wedding

What wedding rituals that are familiar to us have ancient roots and ritual significance?

The kidnapping of a bride means her leaving her parental family. And the ransom is proof of the love and financial viability of the groom, as well as compensation to the bride’s family for their beautiful and smart daughter.
The bridesmaids, dressed in the same outfits as her, confused the evil spirits who could not find the newlywed and cause damage. And later, when robbers began to kidnap brides, such a masquerade made it possible to deliver a valuable maiden to the groom safe and sound.
A ring placed on a finger is an oath of allegiance.
Showering coins and grains is a wish for prosperity, fertility and prosperity to the newlyweds.

It was very important to receive parental blessing for marriage. A couple who did not receive good parting words was considered cursed and outcast.

Rituals for wealth and fertility

Everyone knows the custom of showering the young with grain. In Slavic culture, and in most countries of the world, grain is associated with fertility and prosperity. Consequently, by showering the newlyweds with grains after the wedding ceremony, they were wished many years of trouble-free family life, many children, and prosperity in the house.

Nowadays, this spectacular ceremony is held at the exit from the registry office, immediately after the official registration of the marriage, or on the steps of the restaurant, in the presence of all invited guests. If the wedding is held outdoors, the newlyweds walk between two rows of guests to the wedding arch.

What can you shower the newlyweds with?

First of all, these are, of course, various types of grain, symbolizing numerous, healthy offspring. If you can’t find whole grains, cereals will do: wheat, oats, buckwheat, rice, millet.
Small candies in bright candy wrappers promise newlyweds a sweet family life.
Coins are a symbol of prosperity, financial wealth in the house.
Flower petals (as a rule, these are roses of various colors, from burgundy-red to snow-white, but you can choose any other suitable flowers), multi-colored confetti indicate that the family life of the young should be filled with love, romance, strong emotions and impressions, respect for each other.

To make the ceremony look festive, the material for showering is distributed to guests in beautiful wicker baskets, decorated with ribbons, flower buds, appliqué, or in paper bags, decorated in full accordance with the theme of the wedding.

It is considered a favorable sign if, after the wedding, the newlyweds are greeted by as many people as possible, always with the presence of small children. When the wedding cortege leaves, the children race to collect the scattered coins and candies. For children this is a fun game, and for newlyweds it is a bright wish for the speedy birth of their first child.

The essence of a wedding in Rus'

In Rus', the unity of two people was considered sacred. There were reasonable restrictions to help the birth survive:

the groom could get married at 21, and the girl after 16;
there was to be no blood connection, including twinning.

In addition, the groom had to prove himself - to do something significant, to be wealthy by the standards of the ancient Slavs. Also, our ancestors did not welcome marriages against one’s will. It was believed that only lovers who found each other would make a happy, harmonious couple.

With the advent of Christianity in Rus', arranged marriages and arranged marriages spread. The decision on the wedding and the selection of candidates was made by the parents of the bride and groom, they also concluded a “row record”, which became the forerunner of the marriage contract. It necessarily indicated the expenses for the wedding on both sides, the amount of the ransom and the dowry.

If in pagan times a girl could get married while pregnant or having children, then later the virginity of the bride became mandatory. As proof, the morning after the wedding night, a bloody shirt or sheet was shown.

Peter I, having come to power, allowed unequal marriages and alliances with foreigners. Officially banned “row entries” and the ritual of proving the bride’s innocence, and also condemned the practice of forced marriage. But the tradition of parental agreement continued until the revolution.

The tradition of bride price

A significant percentage of newlyweds willingly include such an interesting and exciting game as bride ransom into the wedding scenario. They come up with complex competitions and puzzles, various fun challenges, and comic competitions. The groom must cope with all the tasks, or pay off the picky judges with money, sweets, and small souvenirs. Today, ransom is perceived as another wonderful opportunity to have fun at a wedding and make it truly unforgettable.

But the origins of this custom are not at all funny. In ancient times, there was a kind of property qualification for starting a family: only fairly wealthy young people could get married. A man had to provide his family with housing and livelihood. The ransom paid for the bride confirmed that the chosen one was rich enough to get married and raise children. Moreover, in the countries of the East, the bride price paid by the groom to the bride became her personal property, to which only the spouse had the right. In case of divorce, the bride price also remained with the woman. The Slavic peoples also had a tradition of ransom-veno, when the groom, before the wedding, ensured the future of his wife in the event of his death, transferring part of his property to her.

Modern wedding traditions

In addition to traditional rituals that have come to us from time immemorial, quite modern customs have appeared, touching and spectacular, with their own symbolism:

releasing white doves with blue and pink ribbons tied to their paws. Whichever dove flies the highest, the first-born will be of that gender;
the newlyweds break the glasses from which they took their first sips of champagne at the celebration - for good luck;
It is customary for newlyweds to pour champagne from two different bottles, drinking them completely. Then store the container for a year;
the first dance of the newlyweds is a delightfully tender, soul-stirring spectacle.

To follow ancient customs, or to bring something new and unusual to the special event is a choice that every couple must make on their own. The script should not only be original, but also delight, create an indescribable feeling of something incredible, bright, and solemn. Such a wedding will leave only good memories and will be a great start to your life together.

The essence of a wedding is an ancient ritual that unites two people into a single whole, into one family for the purpose of procreation. From the moment it was held, their lives, souls and destinies are closely connected, which is reflected in all religious rites and canons. Also, a wedding is a symbol of unity and fraternization of two families. In the old days, long-term contracts at the private and public level were often secured in this way. It is customary to celebrate a significant event with a magnificent feast, songs and fun, and expensive gifts.

Wedding scenarios and competitions

The scenario for holding a wedding on the first day turns out to be the most intense. Newlyweds want their wedding guests to be happy and have fun. Therefore, when choosing scenarios and competitions for a wedding, be sure to take into account the tastes and views of not only your own, but also those of your guests. Don't forget that an interesting entertainment program is the key to a successful holiday!

At the very beginning of the celebration, some guests are not yet too relaxed, so with the help of competitions and competitions you can stir them up. But first of all, offer tasks that help guests get to know each other and communicate with each other. Next, when the guests are already sitting at the table, competitions need to be held in between the feast. Start with the simplest ones, gradually creating intrigue. Each new competition should be more interesting than the previous one. To give your guests something to remember, use common sense mixed with humor.

As a rule, wedding competitions and games in the wedding scenario take up the second half of the event and determine its general mood. No wonder they say to have a wedding. The game moment at this celebration of life must certainly be present. It is he who allows you to have a blast and have fun. After such entertainment, it will certainly be pleasant to remember all the moments from the past holiday. The brighter your family life begins, the more beautiful it will be in the future.

Action plan 3 months before the celebration

So, you have already decided on the special date. There are exactly 3 months left before the wedding. On the one hand, there is not much time, but it is quite enough to resolve basic organizational issues.

How to make a budget

No matter what the format of your holiday, you need to make a budget in any case. This will protect you first and foremost.

Let's consider all the details that will require the expenditure of funds:

rent of a banquet hall;
food, drinks for the banquet, plus cake;
wedding dresses and accessories for them.
hairstyle, makeup artist services, manicure, pedicure;
wedding rings;
decoration of the hall (balloons, flower arrangements, arches, decorations, etc.);
transport for the bride and groom, as well as separately for guests;
renting hotel rooms for guests;
expenses for bride price;
photo and video shooting;
payment for the toastmaster;
payment for wedding agency services (if applied);
live music;
marriage registration (state fee, champagne, refreshments for the outdoor ceremony);
wedding, if there is one;
payment for honeymoon;
other small and unforeseen expenses (they will definitely be).

Of course, no one will tell you exact numbers. It all depends on personal needs, situation, number of guests and other details.

As an example, you can take approximate prices for different formats of celebrations. Let's present them in the form of a table.

Economical option	180 thousand rubles.
Average level	400-500 thousand rubles.
Expensive option	More than a million rubles.

Choosing a wedding venue

In the traditional version, marriage is registered in the registry office. But for the sake of originality, couples began to hold the official part more often in more interesting places. To do this, you need to discuss this issue with the registry office employees in advance. Checking in on the seashore will look very romantic.

The atmosphere will be incredibly pleasant for everyone. The beauty of the sea coast will fill your senses with bright colors and give you a good mood. You can organize the whole process even on a boat; this option is no less exciting and romantic.

If you want to get away from the bustle of the city, choose a country house. It is important that the area has good green spaces. If the newlyweds are among the extreme sports enthusiasts, then, as an option, the painting can be planned on the roof of the house. But this option has many limitations, since not all invitees will agree to climb to the heights. However, everything depends on the specific case and situation. The main thing is to follow safety rules.

When choosing a place, young people are primarily guided by their own wishes and level of imagination. But now, when there are 3 months left before the important event, it’s worth taking care of.

Submitting an application to the registry office

It is important to apply early. In this case, you can be sure that the desired date will be free. This formality is perhaps the most important and integral moment of the wedding.

Before you go to write a fateful application, collect all the necessary documents. You will definitely need passports; without them nothing will work. Also, don’t forget to bring your receipt for payment of the state fee.

If one of the spouses (or maybe both) was previously married, then you will have to provide a document on the dissolution of the previous union or a death certificate, if that is the reason for the termination of the relationship. It happens that a marriage is concluded with minors, in which case the parents will need to write written permission for such a marriage. Decide in advance about changing the bride's surname.

The registry office staff will need this information to prepare the document.

Choosing a place for a banquet

Everyone understands perfectly well that a lot at a wedding depends on the location of the celebration. Check out the restaurants in your city and decide what is closer to you and more affordable. After you have chosen something, you should visit the establishment and visually assess its condition and available space.

The main thing to pay attention to is:

Is there enough space to accommodate all guests?
Please pay close attention to convenience issues. For example, look at the condition of the bathroom, whether there are designated smoking areas, whether air conditioning is installed, etc.
Assess the general condition of the room. Immediately think about whether this hall design is suitable for your wedding.
Immediately ask the administrator if you can make your own adjustments to the design.
Talk about the menu. Write down everything in detail per guest. You may be able to purchase some products yourself, thereby saving your budget.
Immediately explain how many people will be present at the celebration. Will there be the required number of service personnel on the specified date?
Be sure to check with the administrator what rules and restrictions exist in this establishment. Maybe you will be able to come to an agreement and the management will change some of the prohibitions, for example, extending the closing time of the restaurant.

If you take into account all these nuances when choosing a place, then there is no doubt that it will be ideal in all respects. Those couples who want to celebrate their wedding in a more extravagant way can organize a banquet outdoors. For this purpose, a tent or canopy is set up, and thematic decorations are placed.
You can combine business with pleasure when choosing a banquet place on the ship. Just imagine how wonderful and romantic this day will be.

A boat trip and fun on deck...what could be better?

Choosing a wedding host

It is very important to make the right choice of host for the wedding, since the success of the celebration largely depends on this person.

The mood and festive atmosphere, entertainment program - all this falls on the shoulders of the toastmaster. You shouldn’t wait until the last day; it’s better to start searching for the right person about 3 months in advance. Be guided by the reviews of people you know and your personal impressions of communication.

Pay attention to speech, manner of communication and volume of voice. You yourself understand that a person who has speech impediments, who cannot normally connect two words, and besides, who speaks quietly, is unlikely to conduct your wedding with dignity. If the toastmaster does not mind, then you can ask to provide video examples of your work. In this case, you can really assess the level of professionalism.

Immediately discuss the appearance of the presenter. This is important because a clown costume or similar would not be appropriate.

If the role of toastmaster will be performed by a woman, ask what she will be wearing. There should not be anything provocative in appearance, since, as you understand, attention will be directed to the main heroes of the occasion.

Immediately discuss the scenario, what competitions and entertainment there will be. Make your own adjustments if necessary. A professional will be able to give you practical advice on any matter.

It’s great if the toastmaster has his own personal equipment. And, of course, check the rates per hour of work. Please note that truly talented people will not waste their energy, strength and time for pennies. But the prices should not be too high.

If both parties agree and come to a common understanding, then “book” the presenter without a doubt.

Design of wedding invitations

The preparatory process for the wedding should begin with the design and distribution of invitations.

There is no need to delay this procedure, because the closer you get to the celebration, the more likely it is that you will simply forget about this important detail. It will be quite difficult to arrange invitations in a hurry, and not all guests will be able to adjust their plans in such a short period to get to your celebration.

It would be best to send out postcards three months before the due date. To do this, you should already have a clear “list” of people who, in your opinion, should be present at the wedding.

You need to design cards in the chosen wedding theme.

The text can be written either manually or printed. The content can be anything you see fit, but it must include the date, place and time.

It is best to address guests by name - this shows respect. For originality, you can record a video invitation, designing it in some style.

For example, make a short film based on your love story. Tell us at the end when you will celebrate the event, at what time and where the collection “point” will be.

You can also download ready-made templates for invitations from the Internet and simply print them and sign them. It all depends on the theme of the wedding.

The wedding night

The sacrament of the first night ends a long, eventful and emotional wedding day. For an innocent girl this is a very important event, and for the groom it is a crucial moment. The wife is carried into the house in their arms like a newborn baby, because for the new family the young wife has just been born.

In order to confuse the evil spirits, a non-standard place for holding the sacrament was chosen, strange from the point of view of a modern person: a hayloft, a haystack, a barn, a cage under the stairs, someone else's house. Hence the widespread custom of renting hotel rooms or apartments, houses at recreation centers for the wedding night, and also spending it in a very special environment - on board an ocean liner, in another country, on the coast of a tropical island.

Traditions at weddings these days change flexibly at the discretion of the young, because the possibilities for creativity and imagination are truly inexhaustible. You can spend this day in the mountains or at the sea, on the roof of a skyscraper or in unrestrained dancing, surrounded by friends and relatives, or in romantic solitude. Only one point of the program remains unchanged - registration of marriage at the registry office. But it can also be postponed to any other day, so as not to overshadow the personal holiday with officialdom.