Wedding accessories
- What a boutonniere should look like: simple rules
- Types of boutonnieres
A wedding celebration is an exciting and charming event, which is generously decorated with flowers. Among other floral attributes: a bridal bouquet, a flower arch, arrangements for a car, small bouquets for a table, great importance is attached to such an accessory as a boutonniere.
What a boutonniere should look like: simple rules
What is a boutonniere for a wedding? This is a flower on the lapel of the groom’s jacket - a single flower or a laconic composition of small inflorescences. Translated from French, the term means “flower in the buttonhole”; initially it was customary to wear just one flower. Modern creative designers, along with the classic version, also offer beautiful wedding boutonnieres in the form of small bouquets or one large flower framed by small ones. The boutonniere brooch looks very elegant and self-sufficient, without requiring additional accessories in the suit.
Photo of a wedding boutonniere
A man's boutonniere must be in harmony with the cut and color of his suit or shirt, as well as accessories, in particular a tie. It stands out against the background of a jacket or on a shirt, complementing the image, but at the same time, you should not choose an option that is too flashy, which will distract complete attention.
Let us remind you that this is a mini bouquet, therefore, do not oversaturate it with decor and do not make it too massive, otherwise you will achieve not elegance, but a “clumsiness” look
Nowadays, the wedding boutonniere is acquiring a broader concept - with such small bouquets it is customary to complement the interior, wedding table, attach to the handles of cars, and also decorate guests’ outfits . A women's boutonniere as a bracelet looks sophisticated and festive on the wrist of the bride and bridesmaids. Boutonnieres for bridesmaids should be less flashy, but certainly in the same style. You can also make a hoop boutonniere - with such compositions you can decorate your hair or dress.
Types of boutonnieres
Boutonnieres made from fresh flowers look luxurious and rich . And although such compositions have the disadvantage that lies in their fragility and fragility of pristine beauty, they look very romantic and elegant. To extend the life of flowers, their stems are placed in a small capsule with a moisture-retaining solution.
Very often young people prefer to create bouquets using artificial materials. They can be made of polymer clay, satin ribbons, fabrics, foamiran, and complemented with beads, rhinestones and seed beads. You can find completely creative boutonnieres, where in addition to flowers, berries, cones, pine needles, feathers, and even small Lego elements are used.
Photo of a wedding boutonniere made of satin ribbons
In modern wedding decorations, it is common to follow different styles: classic, vintage, eco , etc. Of course, the boutonniere is made in accordance with the chosen theme. For example, for weddings in rustic or country style, simple wildflowers, ears of corn, berries, and pine cones are used, which are played with natural materials: wood, burlap. Lovers of glamor and creativity can make a boutonniere of completely unexpected abstract designs using feathers, rhinestones, original rare inflorescences and herbs.
The boutonniere can be decorated for a certain season of the year. For example, an autumn boutonniere can be made in bright orange-yellow tones with a combination of dry herbarium leaves, tea roses and chamelacium, or using rowan berries. The winter one can be made from a sprig of spruce or thuja with a large white rose in the center of the composition, or recreated from large transparent and white crystals, a white bow, decorated with beads, pearls and sparkles.
Photo of an autumn wedding boutonniere
Order or create it yourself? That is the question
You can order boutonnieres from the masters. Usually such work is not cheap, especially if a large number of them are expected. But if you don’t care how much production costs, and you just want to save time, place your order as early as possible.
And if possible, show your talents, imagination and tastes by creating masterpieces with your own hands, together with your friends and relatives.
After all, the process of creativity itself and the soul invested in the work will leave for a long time pleasant memories of the happy days of preparation for the greatest event of life
Wedding boutonniere for the groom
People often wonder whether a boutonniere is necessary on a wedding suit? This accessory symbolizes that a man’s heart is given to his beloved. Therefore, to the question on which side the groom has his boutonniere, you can give a clear answer - on the left, where the heart is. The presence of this accessory is considered a sign of refined taste and aristocracy of secular gentlemen, giving a festive and elegant look. Perhaps this is the only flower decoration that is appropriate for a man.
Wedding boutonniere for the groom
According to the rules, it should be combined with the bride’s wedding bouquet, but look more laconic. This mandatory condition is associated not only with aesthetics, but also with long-standing traditions, when the bride attached a flower from her bouquet to the shirt or jacket of her chosen one as a sign of love and fidelity. Therefore, girls try to make a boutonniere for the groom with their own hands, putting all their love, tenderness and effort into it.
Please note that modern models of men's suits and shirts have a buttonhole on the left. But if you don't have one, you can simply place the bouquet or flower in your pocket, although etiquette requires that the stem of the mini-bouquet be visible on the lapel.
How to choose flowers for a wedding boutonniere?
If we follow traditions, then the boutonniere should contain the same flowers that will be used in the bride’s bouquet and harmonize with the bouquet in style. You can also choose a flower with a special meaning for your boutonniere - it can consist of the flowers that were given on the first date, or in accordance with the “language of flowers”.
Boutonniere for wedding witnesses
Does a witness need a boutonniere? This is the question asked by young people invited as such an important person after the groom. This accessory is not mandatory, but will emphasize the status of the witness at the wedding and add solemnity to the event. The only limitation is that the witness’s boutonniere must match the style, but not the groom’s decoration itself, and be more modest.
Photo of a wedding boutonniere for a witness
Festive boutonnieres decorate not only the clothes of the newlyweds. You definitely need to take care of similar bouquets for guests. Boutonnieres for guests, made in the same style, are a kind of calling card of the celebration. These small, very laconic compositions can be attached to shirts or jackets by the groom's friends, relatives and other invitees. You can prepare beautiful boutonniere bracelets for the bridesmaids.
Should the boutonnieres of the groom and guests be different?
There are no special requirements for what kind of wedding boutonnieres should be. But, of course, it is better to highlight the groom and choose smaller and more modest boutonnieres for the guests. You can also order ones consisting of the same flowers as the groom’s, but in different shades. You can choose it for the witness to match the color of the witness’s dress/bouquet. At some weddings, in order to save money, they buy boutonnieres made of artificial flowers for witnesses.
How to attach a boutonniere to a jacket?
If you purchase a ready-made boutonniere, you can attach it using the fastener provided in the design. A homemade boutonniere brooch can be pinned using a safety pin, with the clasp downwards, trying to make the fastening as less noticeable as possible.
Photo of how a boutonniere is attached to a jacket
The boutonniere must be put on correctly - according to tradition, this should be done by the bride as a sign of her only true and reliable life partner. This is usually done after the bride's ransom ceremony. The groom should wear it on the left side, attached at heart level. The boutonniere must be hung up, secured to clothing, and not put in a pocket, otherwise there is a risk of simply losing it in the process of dynamic events and hugs.
In addition, the stem of the bouquet should not be hidden - this way the composition looks graceful and complete
Wedding boutonnieres for the groom using fresh flowers
Many couples choose fresh flowers After all, natural plants look natural, create a natural halo of fragrance and personify spiritual unity with nature.
When choosing fresh flowers for a jacket as a boutonniere, you must adhere to the rule that the bouquet should not be bulky. This means that you should use either one large flower framed by small decorations or inflorescences, or make a composition of small ones in an amount of no more than three.
Photo of a boutonniere for the groom made from fresh flowers
Main materials of manufacture
The groom's boutonniere is made from the following materials:
- Made from fresh flowers - such an accessory looks natural and natural, but loses its original freshness long before the end of the wedding. Therefore, when choosing this option, florists recommend stocking up on a second copy, which can be worn if the first one fades.
- Artificial flowers are a more practical option, which is preferred at weddings in the cold season. Such decoration will not stain the suit, will not turn black, and will delight the eye with its fresh appearance throughout the entire celebration.
- Made from foamiran - a soft material used to create various flower arrangements. These boutonnieres look quite natural, gentle, and elegant.
- From multi-colored ribbons - using the kanzashi technique, you can make a variety of floral accessories from ribbons. Satin roses, chrysanthemums, daisies, peonies will become a bright detail on the groom's suit. You just need to choose a good color combination, not to overdo it with the brightness of colors or originality of shapes.
- From organza and mesh - from floral material, light original boutonnieres are obtained, which are additionally decorated with a special mesh along the edges. If desired, the mesh is decorated with berries, rhinestones, beads or feathers.
- Silk is a delicate, thin material that successfully imitates the shape of buds, leaves, and flower inflorescences.
- From polymer clay, you can make such a boutonniere yourself, since it does not need to be baked. It is enough to give the polymer clay the desired shape, and it will harden itself within a day. Wire pre-wrapped in green tape is used as stems for clay buds.
To keep a bouquet of fresh flowers fresh for a long time, you first need to cut each flower stem obliquely and then dip it in wax.
Natural flowers
Ribbons
Artificial flowers
Polymer clay
Foamiran
How to prolong the freshness of fresh flowers?
Living boutonnieres, of course, are not as durable as artificial flowers. But florists know many ways to maximize their unfading appearance. To do this, special solutions are used in which flowers are previously placed, correct cropping of the stem at an angle , immersion in capsules or wrapping with a tampon with moisture-retaining liquid.
Finally, you can simply make two identical boutonnieres and replace the one that is losing its freshness with one that is stored in a cool, damp place, waiting for its finest hour
However, there is one drawback - you will not be able to preserve these beautiful fresh flowers forever, leaving them as a reminder of the main event of life.
Wedding boutonniere made of fresh flowers
Choosing between artificial decoration and fresh flowers
This accessory is very important for the bride and groom as well. Such decoration makes a man’s outfit more solemn. But to achieve the ideal result, you need to know how to choose the right boutonniere.
First, you should think carefully and decide which flowers you want to use, real or artificial. It is also worth considering the color and actual size of the bouquet.
As for the rest, you should know the following points:
- What is a boutonniere for the groom? The groom's suit should be harmoniously combined with such an accessory. At the same time, the boutonniere and the bride's bouquet simply must be decorated in the same style .
- This decoration should be purchased together with the one that will be intended for witnesses and children. After all, they are the ones who most often hang such an accessory.
- You should not buy the same boutonnieres for your beloved man and witness. Such decorations should be different. After all, the groom, like the bride, is the center of attention on this day.
- It is recommended to use only artificial flowers, because they definitely will not disappear and will not spoil the groom’s image.
- The decoration should be made of small flowers. After all, large plants will only spoil the image.
- Rarely do representatives of the fair sex manage to choose such an accessory on their own. Therefore, it is recommended to contact an experienced florist for help. He will tell you which flowers are best to combine.
Based on these tips, you can choose a worthy decoration for your loved one. If you still decide to settle on a boutonniere with fresh flowers, then it is better to order a couple more to replace them throughout the day. Thanks to this little trick, a representative of the stronger sex will be able to sparkle with his finished look all day long.
What flowers are used in boutonnieres?
Cloves are one of the most popular options. Red or white symbolize leadership and success. Combined with greenery and small contrasting inflorescences.
Orchid - associated with chic. By itself, it is complete and does not need additional decor.
Calla lilies are very elegant and . They can be decorated with satin bows or loops, and you can also add some long green grasses or leaves.
Roses are one of the most favorite flowers at a wedding. They are romantic and represent love and passion.
Lilies are a symbol of prosperity and hope. Their bright aroma does not need any additions, except with herbs.
Peonies will create a pleasant composition if their buds are placed on a boutonniere. If desired, you can dilute with small stems of lilies of the valley or lilac. And an open shaggy peony will add enthusiasm and ease.
Photo of a wedding boutonniere made of peonies
Gerberas, hydrangeas and dahlias look very unusual . These flowers are used in a single key version with small decoration.
Features of decorations made from fresh flowers
Each plant and its color has its own meaning. Therefore, before creating a decoration for your loved one, you should take this into account. also plays an important role .
One flower most often indicates that the beloved woman is the only and beloved one.
Numbers such as 10 and 13 are considered a bad sign. This indicates that the person hates you and wants to do something bad.
Flower meaning
The attitude towards another person can be easily expressed with the help of plants. This also applies to the boutonniere, because by presenting it to the groom, the bride conveys her feelings to him.
Flower boutonnieres.
Therefore, when purchasing or making such decoration, you should know the meaning of each flower.
- Azalea symbolizes feelings such as care, passion and at the same time restraint.
- Acacia speaks of a person’s chastity.
- Lily says that love is a dangerous feeling.
- Pansies are about innocence.
- Aster is an exquisite flower that is a symbol of love.
- Cloves are a charm.
- Iris is a symbol of faith, hope, love and wisdom.
- Lily of the valley – purity and tenderness.
- Poppy is an eternal dream.
- Daisies symbolize innocence.
- Mint – warm feelings.
- Narcissist is selfish.
- Dandelions are a symbol of fidelity and happiness.
- Peony is best used for a boutonniere, because it is associated with a happy family life.
- Orchid is a sign of love.
- Rose – love and passion.
- Tulip is a symbol of trust.
Based on this, you can create a worthy decoration for your loved one. If you prefer fresh flowers, then it is better to make a boutonniere yourself or with the help of a florist, but only after you confirm the layout.
Color meaning
Each color has its own meaning and symbolizes a particular feeling. Therefore, when creating a boutonniere, it is worth taking this into account. Yellow is separation, pink is love, bright red is passion.
Blue, which is a symbol of devotion, is considered universal and at the same time the best. Purple colors speak of peace and trust in a couple, and black colors speak of death. Therefore, in principle, it is not recommended to use it to create a boutonniere.
Even if the groom’s suit is black, this color goes well with any other shade, for example, a white rose.
Boutonniere for the groom made of satin ribbons
Any girl can master the kanzashi technique - if only she has the desire, time and diligence. From ribbons you can create completely unusual compositions of flowers that do not even exist in nature. Moreover, the technology is not complicated at all. All you need :
- ribbons in colors matching the wedding style;
- a needle and thread for collecting petals into a composition; glue;
- floral and type tape, wire;
- elements of small decor: beads, rhinestones, seed beads, possibly fabrics for recreating leaves.
Boutonniere for the groom made of foamiran
This elastic, pliable and durable material has already become extremely popular among craftswomen. Why? It is easy to work with, elastic and malleable when heated, does not produce torn edges, and is also resistant to all external negatives - primarily moisture. You can cut any blanks from it, using them to create elements of a future product.
If you have imagination and a desire to master the technique from scratch, you can start creativity right away, but if you want to learn the intricacies of the work, take a simple master class. Watch the video: boutonnieres for the groom:
Beaded wedding boutonniere
Bead weaving artists create such masterpieces that you can’t take your eyes off. But if you are new to this business, don’t worry, you will succeed. create a boutonniere from beads , however, this is a painstaking task that requires patience and perseverance.
Take ready-made simple diagrams of a decorative boutonniere with beads or draw them at your own discretion, assigning the design, size and color of the beads, and start working. To do this, you will, of course, need beads of different colors, wire (not threads), perhaps glue to secure the mini-beads, and your imagination.
Photo of a wedding boutonniere made of beads
How to play a boutonniere at a wedding?
The classic ritual of throwing the bride's bouquet to the bridesmaids and the garter to the groom's friends has been preserved. Only now you can use a boutonniere instead of garters. Buy a duplicate of it in advance if it is made of artificial materials and throw it away, since it is better to keep the chest composition. But if these are fresh flowers, feel free to throw them away - the guy who catches this sacred positive attribute will certainly find his happiness.
You can also organize a competition by coming up with tasks, for example, who will dare to dance in front of the public in order to receive a boutonniere and future happiness, or complete a task invented by the bride or groom.
A wedding is a unique celebration where you show your tastes and sense of beauty. The boutonniere, oddly enough, although laconic, is one of the most significant attributes of the celebration. After all, guests, first of all, look at the newlyweds, and only then at all the attributes of the ceremony. Give this outfit accessory maximum attention.
Decoration options for the bride
Groom's boutonniere, photo.
Whether such an accessory is necessary for young people is a rather controversial issue. After all, the bride will have a bouquet, which should match the groom’s decoration . If you still decide to use such a product, then you should choose it correctly.
An accessory in the form of fresh flowers is very popular. It will go perfectly with almost any outfit. Brides also prefer artificial bracelets. They are more durable and practical.
Many young people love boutonnieres made from beads. After all, this is a material that allows you to create absolutely any product. It could be a flower, a butterfly, a bird and much more.
