Most wedding superstitions have a negative connotation: if the newlyweds do this and not otherwise, then their marriage will be unhappy, there will be infidelity, scandals, poverty and other troubles. There are not many beliefs that would predict a prosperous future for the bride and groom together. Let's consider whether, from the point of view of folk signs, the wedding on the veil will be happy.
Planning a wedding on Pokrov is one of those good omens that promise the newlyweds peace and love in their life together.
The essence of superstitions
In ancient times, religion formed the basis of human life. Everyone acted as folk wisdom dictated, so as not to bring misfortune on themselves and their loved ones. Most of the signs concerned the wedding, since this event was one of the most grandiose in people’s lives, and it was important to do everything in such a way as to protect the newly formed family spiritually.
The young man and the girl literally could not take a step without wondering whether they were doing it correctly from the point of view of superstition. The entire wedding scenario was planned down to the smallest detail so that the newlyweds could not do anything that the higher powers would not approve of. Over time, there were so many signs that it became impossible to remember them all.
Gradually, religious enthusiasm subsided, some beliefs were forgotten, and modern newlyweds no longer attach much importance to them. Most people do not consider signs to be something important, but if possible they try to follow them to make them feel calmer. This can also be influenced by relatives who will not fail to characterize any event at the wedding as a bad or good omen.
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What not to do on October 14
In Rus', work on Pokrov was prohibited; it was especially strictly forbidden to disturb the earth using shovels and other metal equipment. Women's handicrafts were also sanctioned, so as not to accidentally “prick” the Mother of God.
Girls were not allowed to go bare-haired, lie in bed, or sit at home and be bored: otherwise they would not get married.
Quarrels, and especially foul language, were categorically forbidden; the Mother of God could severely punish for this, even to the point of muteness.
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Origin of the holiday
Intercession is a religious holiday among Orthodox Christians, which is celebrated on October 14 every year. This event has its roots in 910. Prosperous Constantinople was besieged, and its inhabitants lost all hope of salvation. In what they believed was their dying impulse, they decided to turn to the Lord and went to the temple to pray.
When it was in full swing, people saw the savior heading towards them, surrounded by angels - it was the Virgin Mary. She joined the inhabitants of the besieged city in prayer, took off her veil and covered all the people in the temple with it with the intention of saving them. After this, the invaders turned around and left Constantinople forever.
Since then, October 14 has been considered perhaps the most favorable day for marriage. People believe that the Mother of God herself will protect him from all troubles and troubles, just as she saved the inhabitants of the besieged city. If the newlyweds themselves make an effort to make their marriage happy, then the savior will protect their union from disintegration.
It is noteworthy that even before the establishment of Christianity, when paganism flourished among the Slavs, the so-called wedding season began on October 14.
At this time, the first snow had already fallen, sowing work was ending, people were putting away tools and driving livestock into stalls. From then on, young men and women wondered about their other half, followed the signs, or got married if they had already managed to find a partner. At the same time, you could not worry about sowing until spring and calmly build your family.
Interesting! The bride's veil is associated with the veil of the Virgin Mary, which further strengthens the belief that this holiday favors the newlyweds.
Unlike many other Christian holidays, Intercession is suitable for both fun and marriage itself, which is what believers take advantage of. Many consider it a good sign not only that the Mother of God will act as the patroness of the family, but also that the wedding date will coincide with a religious holiday, which will charge her with special energy.
Is it possible to get married on Pokrov?
Have you decided to get married in accordance with established traditions and want to know if it is possible to have a wedding on Pokrov on October 14, 2021?
Prohibited and permitted days for weddings in Orthodox churches are determined by the church calendar. This ritual is not performed on fasting days, church holidays, Christmastide, Maslenitsa week and Bright Week after Easter, as well as on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays.
Although there are no legislative provisions in this regard, and the registry office will sign you up these days, many people try not to violate the old rules. After all, among the friends and relatives invited to the wedding there may be people for whom attending such a celebration during Lent and some other days is a great sin.
Is it possible to have a wedding on the Intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary?
In the old days, a significant part of weddings took place in the autumn, because at this time the bulk of agricultural work was already completed and the harvest was harvested. Many customs and superstitions were associated with the Feast of the Intercession, which does not involve fasting. Starting from this day it was possible to get married and play weddings.
It was believed that the girl who comes first to church in the morning, puts a candle to the icon and reads prayers for marriage, will soon meet her betrothed. The girls read the spells: “Pokrov-Father, cover the earth with snow, and me with a groom” or “Pokrov-Mother, cover the earth with snow, and me, young, with a scarf.”
These words were pronounced while decorating the icon of the Mother of God in the house with embroidered scarves or a towel. Before going to bed, the girls made dreams about their grooms; Such dreams foreshadowed an imminent wedding. In the old days they said: “If you spend the Intercession joyfully, you will definitely find a dear friend.”
According to legend, in order to marry her beloved, a girl had to present him with bread baked on Intercession, adding a piece of thread from her scarf to the dough. And if a guy on Pokrov courted a girl, they said that he should be her fiancé.
Signs associated with this day
The bride and groom usually cannot decide on the date of their wedding for a long time. The Valentine's Day that came from the West (February 14), the extravagant February 29, the date of the first kiss, etc. are taken into account, but not everyone pays attention to religious holidays and folk signs. A wedding on Pokrov on October 14 will be the best solution if the bride and groom are believers and such an opportunity allows.
There are several signs associated with the weather on the wedding day on Pokrov:
- If the weather is warm, the sky is cloudless, and the sun is shining brightly, then the life of the newlyweds will be carefree, bright and happy. This does not mean that spouses can relax and hope that the Mother of God will make their marriage successful without their participation - they must make their own efforts.
- If it rains on Pokrov , then this is also regarded as a good sign. Some people are upset when the weather suddenly presents a surprise in the form of precipitation on their wedding day, but in fact this is a good omen on any day. Previously, rain ensured a good harvest, so it was loved and enjoyed. Precipitation on the Intercession on the wedding day symbolizes that the Mother of God blesses the couple for a happy marriage.
- If the weather is frosty and snowing on October 14, then this means trials that await the newlyweds on their journey together. This is by no means a bad thing, since these troubles will only unite the spouses, their family will become strong, and they will not be afraid of any troubles. In addition, the patroness will help you overcome all trials.
Thus, no matter what the weather is on the wedding day on Pokrov, the signs claim that the newlyweds will have a prosperous life together. Higher powers will help you overcome all trials, protect you from the evil eye, help you give birth to healthy and strong children, and generally send your blessings down on your spouses.
Even if you do not take into account the Orthodox holiday itself, October is generally considered a favorable time for a wedding. From those times when people prioritized agricultural work, and they preferred to organize holidays after the harvest, to our time, this is one of the best months for marriages. It is believed that couples who start a family during this period will not know the need, but for this they will have to work hard, although fate will provide all possible assistance in this.
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Wedding on the Intercession of the Virgin Mary: signs
The Intercession of the Virgin Mary is one of the great holidays. They say that the Lord blesses marriages on this important day. In this regard, there are a lot of signs associated with “Pokrovsky” weddings.
If you are not getting married on October 14, then on this day you should definitely read prayers for love, marriage and children. This is a holiday dedicated to family, home and mothers who love their husbands and children.
Additional Tips
Intercession Day is a favorable date for a wedding, but only for those people who believe in the Christian God. If the bride and groom are superstitious and, most importantly, believers, then they can safely choose this day for their wedding. It will be even better if the couple decides to undergo not only an official painting, but also a wedding ceremony. For other people who either do not belong to the Christian religion or do not believe in it too much, there is no point in scheduling their celebration on this holiday.
Wedding blessed by the Mother of God on Intercession: signs and superstitions
Most wedding superstitions have a negative connotation: if the newlyweds do this and not otherwise, then their marriage will be unhappy, there will be infidelity, scandals, poverty and other troubles.
There are not many beliefs that would predict a prosperous future for the bride and groom together. Let's consider whether, from the point of view of folk signs, the wedding on the veil will be happy. Planning a wedding on Pokrov is one of those good omens that promise the newlyweds peace and love in their life together.
Summary
It is difficult for believers to choose a day for their wedding, since Christian holidays often fall on suitable dates.
With all this, future newlyweds need to think about whether they really believe that higher powers will protect their marriage, since otherwise all efforts to schedule a wedding on this date will be pointless.
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Veil in folk tradition
According to popular beliefs, the omophorion cover with which the Mother of God covered the worshipers is the first snow with which she covers the earth to give it rest. It is traditionally believed that on Pokrov autumn meets winter; in Rus' this meant the beginning of a time of relative freedom for rural residents. The harvest has been harvested, the zealous, hard-working and sober owners have full bins, the surplus has been sold, which means they have money. The spring famine time is still far away, so it's time to think about weddings.
“Pokrov is the end of round dances, the beginning of gatherings”
Traditional youth meetings in the village of Keba, Arkhangelsk region . Gatherings and choruses at parties performed by a folk ensemble
Preparing their homes for winter, when lighting the stove, the housewives said: “Father-Pokrov, heat our hut without firewood.” According to legend, if you heat the hut with apple tree branches on this day, the house will be warm all winter.
The peasants believed that the brownie went into hibernation on Pokrov. Wanting to keep warm until spring, the ritual of “baking the corners” was performed in a caulked and heated house. The eldest woman in the family cooked small pancakes. She divided the first pancake into four parts and placed it in the corners of the room to appease the brownie. In order to survive the hungry winter, housewives “fed” their domestic animals in the barn with the last sheaf harvested from the oat field. In the courtyard they called upon the spirit of the stable, asking him to take care of the cattle. For the festive treat, honey and mash were boiled, and dishes were prepared from the fruits of the new harvest.
On the eve of the holiday, girls began to tell fortunes and perform ritual actions. With the onset of cold weather, youth festivities were moved from the street to the hut. The girls got together in a big house, dressed up in their best clothes and had fun until they dropped. They believed: “If you have fun during the Intercession, you will find a sweet friend.” At the first autumn gatherings, the girls put a bread shovel out the “outlet” window, stood along it and sang “long” lyrical songs. While singing, they swung the shovel so that it could be “heard far away” - in neighboring villages. At a joint meal they enjoyed porridge and pancakes.
In the evening, the girls were joined by young people who brought treats: gingerbread, candy, nuts. As a sign of attention, the guy gave the girl he liked a small gift. At such viewing parties, young people looked for a suitable match. They gathered at gatherings every evening from October to March.
“The veil is red of the fair”
Girls gathering for needlework
Pokrovsky festivities. Photo: A. Krasnov / photobank “Lori”
