Option I
Good afternoon, dear guests!
We are glad to welcome you all and thank you for being here to share with (name of the groom) and (name of the bride) the happy moment of their lives, the birth of their family. Before we meet the main heroes of the occasion, I would like to invite
For moral reasons, I hope it will do without the physical support of friends of the bride and groom!
Thank you all, now everything is ready to welcome those for whom we have gathered here today! Let's welcome the bride and groom!
Our dear and beloved (name of the bride) and (name of the groom)! I want to tell you that you are lucky, you met each other on the path of life and found what millions of people are looking for. Love! And this is the most important thing. Now everything depends on you, in your power to preserve and increase this feeling, not to lose it over the years amid the bustle and disorder of life. In any situation, you need to remember that you are a family, a single whole, you are the force that can cope with any difficulty as long as you are together, and, of course, you need to be able to live for the happiness of your loved one, and this, excuse me, is an entire art! Fortunately, you have a whole life ahead of you to comprehend it - indulge yourself :))
Today, standing here hand in hand, you are worried. But believe me, the people who gave you life - your parents - are worried no less than you, and perhaps even more. Years will pass, and you will stand in their place, and your children will stand here. And just as they worry and rejoice today, you will rejoice. And cry when you hear words of gratitude from your children. And be proud of them just as they are proud of you today. And, no matter how eventful your life is, we believe that you will always have time to listen to the wise advice of your parents. And then, pride and respect in the family will last for many generations of your family. Today is the most wonderful and unforgettable event in your life, which you and we, to be honest, have been so anxiously awaiting!
(name of the groom), (name of the bride)! If you have something to say to each other, please say it now.
Having exchanged vows, you announced your firm intention to live together in love and harmony throughout all the days given to you by fate. Now you can exchange rings as a sign of fidelity, which will now adorn your fingers and become a symbol of your endless love.
Well, that's all! With pleasure and a light heart, I declare you husband and wife and congratulate you from the bottom of my heart! Take care of your parents, give birth and raise children and, of course, BE HAPPY! Groom, kiss your bride quickly! Hooray! Next, the presenter: dear guests! Join us in congratulations
Option II
- Dear friends! On behalf of the Bride and Groom, I am glad to welcome you all and thank you for being here to share this happy moment with them. Here and now you will witness a real miracle - the Miracle of the Union of two wonderful young people, two hearts, two destinies, two lives! The Miracle of the Birth of a Family! When a man finds a woman, he is ready to change the world for the sake of her smile, to perform a miracle. And this is not at all difficult for him, because she becomes part of his soul and heart. Fills his life with extraordinary light and joy. And only with her can he be truly happy. here today - for the sake of one - the only girl whom he is ready to call his wife today! This is a very serious, important and masculine act. And this will happen before your eyes, here, under the wedding arch. Therefore, meet the heroes of this action: - Dear newlyweds, you have what millions are looking for, but only a select few find - this is Love! It is she who connects hearts and destinies, thoughts and aspirations on the way to achieving the great art of married life - living for the happiness of a loved one. It is Love that can work miracles and make possible what sometimes seems incredible to us. And we suddenly realize that there are no coincidences. And two different people are not strangers to each other at all, but parts of one whole, the meeting of which is destined by fate. An important moment has come in your life! Today is your family's birthday. You managed to find each other in our rather harsh world and decided to unite your destinies with sacred family ties. Family life is a responsible time when you will equally share joys and sorrows, good fortune and adversity, but there will be a person nearby who will always understand correctly, a heart that will judge correctly. And therefore, marriage cannot be concluded under duress, through thoughtlessness or recklessness, but with reverence, thoughtfully and consciously. In marriage, people should be united by mutual love, affection, respect, the desire to protect each other and the desire to live together all their lives. In the presence of your witnesses, family and friends, I ask you to answer, do you agree to take her as a wife, love, respect and care for her until the end of your days? - Yes, I agree. - Do you agree to take him as your husband, love, respect and take care of him until the end of your days? - Yes, I agree. — People say that newlyweds stand on a white wedding towel as if on a white cloud, receiving the blessing of heaven, for there the blessing of their love takes place. Please spread out the wedding towel for the newlyweds. I invite young people to stand on the towel of consent. — In cinema, you can shoot several takes if something doesn’t work out. But life is such a thing that you can only play it once. And there is no way to rewind the film and replay something in life again. Now we are ready to shoot the main shots of your destiny. Those shots when you, in the presence of your guests and family, are ready to say to each other the most important, most cherished words for which people are born into this world. And today your hands will be decorated with wedding rings - an ancient sacred symbol of love and devotion, deep and pure feelings. Let them remind you that your love is endless and forever remain a memory of today's exciting event. Exchange rings! Exchange of rings. — I ask you to seal your family union with signatures. The newlyweds sign. — They say that marriages are made in heaven. And today the will of heaven on earth is supported by your signatures. Accept your marriage certificate as the most precious and memorable document of your family, recognized by the state. (The registrar gives the marriage certificate to the newlyweds). From now on you are husband and wife! The mutual manifestation of the will of the spouses to bear a common surname is affirmed - - I sincerely congratulate you on the birth of your family! True love is tested by time - you have your whole life ahead of you. I wish you that the fire of love never fades in your hearts. - Our life consists of moments! Sometimes - cheerful and joyful, sometimes - sad and sorrowful. And sometimes you are so happy that it takes your breath away and the whole world stops! And only what happens here and now becomes important! These moments cannot be repeated or experienced again. And only in our hearts do they remain forever. Remember this joyful, solemn moment! Nothing changed. Everything is the same as always - you two, loving each other, your family and friends nearby. But today you are opening a new page - this is the family page of your life.
Option III
Dear guests, I ask you to take your seats in the hall. (music plays) _____ and _______! Today is the most wonderful and unforgettable event in your life. Creating a family is the beginning of a good union of two loving hearts. From this day on, you will go through life hand in hand, experiencing the joy of happy days and sorrows together. How difficult it is in our complex and huge world to meet a person who will love and appreciate, accept your shortcomings and admire your virtues, who will always understand and forgive. Fate gave you happiness by meeting such a person! Observing the solemn ceremony before the state registration of marriage, in the presence of your family and friends, I ask you to answer whether your desire to become spouses is free, mutual and sincere, are you ready to share this happiness and this responsibility, support and love each other in sorrow and in joy? Please answer, _____. -Yes. Your answer, ______: -Yes. With your mutual consent, good will and in accordance with the Family Code of the Russian Federation, your marriage is registered. I ask you to sign the marriage record. You, ______! You, _____! (The Bride and Groom sign the magazine, which is on the table) (The registrar shows the place where signatures need to be placed). (Music sounds). As a sign of fidelity and continuity of the marriage union, as a sign of love and devotion to each other, I ask you to exchange wedding rings, which since ancient times symbolize the sanctity of marriage, and let them remind you that your hearts will always be close.
(The bride and groom exchange rings, which are handed into the “saucer” by the registrar) (music plays) From that moment on, you became even closer to each other, you became a real family. I pronounce you husband and wife. And now the groom can kiss the bride. (Kiss) Remember, your home is your fortress, and your family is the foundation on which this fortress will rest, and as long as you are together and love each other, your fortress will not be afraid of any storms and trials. Love, take care and respect each other! Today you are being presented with your first family document - a marriage certificate, I hand it over to the head of the family, take care of it and may your life never be a boring performance, but be a real holiday where joy and mutual understanding reign.
(The registrar hands over the certificate to the newlyweds, which lies on the table).
I would like to say words of gratitude to your parents and grandparents. Dear parents, you have been giving your children love and tenderness all your life, now they are ready to build their own family, in which they will take the best from you, you will always remain for them that beacon that illuminates the path of life. Please, congratulate your children first. (Parents are the first to approach and congratulate the newlyweds) (music plays) Dear guests, please join us in our congratulations (the guests present congratulate the newlyweds) (music plays).
Wedding vow of the bride and groom
Wedding vows between the bride and groom have long been a traditional occurrence at many European weddings. Sometimes the most important question in the lives of young people, “Will you take this woman (this man) as your wife (husband)?” answering “yes” is not enough. The tradition of a wedding vow in our country is a new and rare phenomenon, so let's look at this issue in more detail.
Let's start with the fact that each country has its own characteristics when pronouncing wedding vows. For example, among Europeans, oaths written in one’s own hand are most often practiced. In the land of the rising sun of Japan, when the newlyweds exchange vows, not only a couple in love, but two clans stand face to face. So, keeping the promises made at the altar is not only the responsibility of the couple, but also their families. In Pakistan, wedding promises are not made before the 3rd day of the celebration. For Jews, only the groom takes the wedding vow, but the bride does not take vows. For Muslims, vows are not a tradition at all; instead, the couple listens carefully to the clergyman, he tells them about their duties in marriage and responsibility before God and people. But in Hinduism there are so-called “7 steps”. Taking one step forward, the couple makes a promise - to be faithful, to love their chosen one or chosen one, to respect each other, to give healthy children, and so on.
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#THE MOST #MOST NECESSARY #SPEECH OF A #PRIEST IN THE ENTIRE #HISTORY OF THE #ROC! He called the modern #Orthodox #wedding #ceremony a very important word - SHIT! ) He is categorically #against #abortion and prohibits Orthodox Christians from sleeping with each other before marriage! p/s HE SPEAKS THE TRUTH! After all, many families suffer a “shipwreck” and this #canonized man awakens ALL #Russia from spiritual sleep and gives a wonderful opportunity, both Orthodox and others, to think and count all the priests, as he puts it - #villains!> Archpriest Andrei Tkachev " If during his life a priest married 100 couples, and then it turned out that out of 100 couples, 85 couples got divorced, then the priest is #VILLAIN!...a> if you allow yourself to come to me with a question - HOW DO WE GET DIVORCEED? - I'll #shoot you both with a double-barreled shotgun! > Don't you dare appear with such questions..... [I'm not a VILLAIN! ] I DON ' T BELIEVE IN SUPER " # SPIRITUALITY "!!! p/s So how many VILLAINS - PRIESTS are there in Russia? ………………………………….………………………………….…………………. You can listen to Andrey's full speech at the following link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84bNC... > Why are divorces more common in #Russia than in any other country? According to the UN, Russia ranks #first in the #world in terms of #divorce rate.> In second position is #Belarus.> Experts highlight a number of reasons why divorces are #frequent in post-Soviet countries. Experts> interviewed by DW named several reasons why marriages in Russia, as well as in Belarus and Ukraine, are so fragile. They also analyzed the resulting consequences for society. In Russia in 2011, almost 670 thousand marriages broke up
Russians get divorced more often than residents of any other country. According to a UN study for 2011, there are 4.7 divorces per thousand Russian citizens, and in total in 2011, almost 670 thousand marriages (669,421 thousand) were dissolved in the country. It is followed by Belarus (38,584 thousand), where the divorce rate (the number of divorces per 1000 population - Ed.) is 4.1.
Next are Latvia (4), Lithuania (3, 2) and Moldova (3, 1). In Ukraine (data for 2010), just over 126 thousand marriages broke up - this does not take into account those that were dissolved in court. Thus, the divorce rate in this country was 2.8. For comparison: in Germany (data for 2010) it is slightly lower - 2.3. The family is noticeably stronger, as follows from a UN study, in #Armenia (the divorce rate there is 1), Macedonia and Montenegro (0.8 each), as well as Jamaica (0.7). The world's least common breeding site is Malta (0, 1).
Double load for women
One of the reasons for frequent divorces in post-Soviet countries, experts in a conversation with DW said that women in marriage are forced to cope without the help of their husbands with a double burden - earning money, as well as taking care of the house and children.
“Many men believe that they should not help around the house,” explains Christopher Swader, an associate professor at the National Research University Higher School of Economics (HSE) in Moscow. “Historically, they had virtually no role in raising children.”
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Read more about the bride and groom's wedding vows
Conventionally, wedding vows can be divided into comic and solemn. The latter also include religious vows and oaths pronounced in the registry office. But in a warm company and at a festive table, you can surprise guests with comic variations. Of course, a vow is something special and intimate, but it is at a wedding that lovers publicly demonstrate their feelings, so why not add another touching and memorable moment to the celebration?
The oath can sound either in prose or in the form of a poem - and it sounds interesting and is more convenient to remember. Of course, it’s easiest to simply copy and retell someone else’s oath, but it’s much better to take on the task of drawing it up yourself. Moreover, no one asks you to write poems or odes - it is enough that the words are sincere and come from the heart, then rhyme will not be needed. Of course, it would be nice to write down your oath on a piece of paper so that you don’t accidentally forget it at the most crucial moment. It is best to compose it together with a partner.
Basically, a wedding vow consists of three parts. The first is essentially a statement of fact, you admit that the person is dear to you, you want to connect your life with him and be legally married. The second part is the embodiment of your feelings for your partner. Try to say it in such a way that not only he, but also those present know about your attitude - it’s enough to simply describe what you are experiencing. And finally, the third part is obligations, because a legal marriage is based not only on passion, but also on mutual understanding and respect, each party must accept certain responsibilities. They can be different - starting with a promise to be together through thick and thin and ending with a humorous appeal not to scold your wife for a broken car or not to nag your husband for delays at work.
Wedding vows for romantics
Tell the secret in the message. The spouses' addresses sound with tenderness and care.
Groom's wedding vow
“The main person in life, I’m with you! Thank you for you, for your smile and my joy. Immediately after our meeting, I realized - my future, the best future, is only with you! I want to be next to you and with you all my life. I take responsibility for you and for our family. I undertake to solve our problems, to be your support in difficult situations, to be your back, you can always rely on me in everything. I assure you, I will love only you alone, my feelings are sincere, faithful to you forever!”
Bride's wedding vow
“Now we will go the same way! You showed me true love, you showed me the meaning of my existence. My dream has come true - you are nearby, I really see you next to me. I am ready to work on myself, listen to you and become the best for you, so that step by step our relationship will only improve. I will try to support our family hearth, I want to become a good mother to our children. I want to remember this moment for the rest of our family life! I am faithful and devoted - yours forever."
In a romantic text, sentences in verse sound more beautiful; newlyweds can write them.
Registrar text
No. 1 Registrar's Speech (with an oath)
Presenter: -Dear bride and groom!
Dear guests! We are pleased to welcome YOU to the official wedding ceremony.
Love is a great treasure given to man. Your life is like an hourglass, two fragile vessels connected by an invisible thread of time. This thread connected you, your destinies. And today your hearts make an alliance to beat side by side inextricably for the rest of your life. Before officially concluding your marriage, I would like to hear whether your desire is free, sincere and mutual, with an open heart, and of your own free will and free will, are you entering into marriage? I ask you to answer the groom: yes I ask you to answer the Bride: yes
In accordance with the family codes of the Russian Federation, your mutual consent gives me the right to register your marriage
I ask you to sign your desire to become spouses
Marriage is a serious matter. Are you ready to easily and without hesitation take an oath of love and fidelity to each other? (here we can tie your hands with ribbon and you put them on the sword)
Presenter: I ask you to support your decision with an oath. Repeat after me.
Groom: I’ll take you, ………………. to be our lawful wives,
Bride: I take you, ………………., to be my lawful husband,
Groom: and I promise to love and protect you,
Bride: understand and respect you
Groom: help and believe you
Bride: always, no matter what the future holds for us,
Groom: I will defy any obstacles we are destined to face.
Groom: In the name of everything that we have created together,
Bride: and all that will be created,
Groom: I offer you my love and fidelity
Presenter: ………………, having exchanged vows, you announced your firm intention to live together in love and harmony throughout all the days given to you by fate.
Choosing a wedding vow
The moment of vow is accompanied by the tears of those around us, relatives, and is thought out to the smallest detail. Depending on the preferences of the young people, you need to select obligations:
- classical type (tell about your feelings and that these feelings will remain with you for life, swear your loyalty to each other and mutual assistance);
- romantic (declaring your love in poetry, singing a song, sealing ties by closing a lock on a bridge, releasing doves into the sky, flying a lantern, etc.);
- religious (taking into account the characteristics and traditions of your faith);
- comic (in modern language, “cool” promises of love and fidelity).
The word “oath” evokes the image of something strict and obligatory - today’s newlyweds are accustomed to preparing their promises in advance and rehearsing them well. A wedding is a fairy tale for a married couple. The main words in the oath come from the lips of the newlyweds:
- mutual love until the end of your days;
- take care of each other forever;
- resolve all domestic disputes together;
- serve each other as support in everything.
