Traditions in our state
How does this event take place in our country? Basically, the mission of the organization is taken on by friends of the future newlyweds. They try to make the holiday bright and memorable, and often, in order to see the groom out of his bachelor life, so to speak, they invite strippers. Yes, this form of bachelor party fun has remained unchanged for many years.
The idea for a bachelor party with a striptease has been used so often that it has become boring. And today, friends are faced with what seems to them to be a difficult task in organizing a successful bachelor party. But this is only at first glance. There are many places and ideas for organizing an unforgettable and, most importantly, cultural holiday, for which the groom will not have to blush in front of the bride. In this article we will look at the best ideas for a bachelor party; photos of some ideas will be presented below.
So, what place is suitable for the celebration? This could be a sauna, an amusement park, paintball. The main thing is to know what the hero of this occasion is passionate about. Let's look at how to celebrate a bachelor party, and we'll also discuss ideas for venues. Let's look at each of them in detail. Let's compile the top 10 interesting options.
Bridesmaid
Already married men can share their own experience with the “newbie”. If desired, they can even give the hero of the occasion their own collections of wise advice with step-by-step guidance to a calm family life. Christina
The second most popular option is a sauna. Men can relax to the fullest, freed from annoying office suits and have a good steam bath. The groom and his friends usually have access to not only a steam room, but also a swimming pool, banquet hall, karaoke, music, billiards and hookah. You can bring your own snacks and alcohol.
The company can also go to a public place - a cafe, restaurant or bar. It is advisable to choose a truly “male” establishment, for example, where most of the meat is cooked, and among the waitresses there are only girls with a pleasant appearance. In such an atmosphere, you can also organize games and competitions by notifying the administration in advance.
One of the universal options is a bachelor party in nature. In the fresh air, away from civilization and strangers, men can relax, have active competitions, or swim in a pond, if there is one nearby. In this case, you can find a place in the forest or on the banks of a river, pond or lake, or you can throw a party in the courtyard of a dacha or country house.
Adviсe
In general, we looked at original ideas for a bachelor party. But everything needs to be prepared in advance. After all, a group of people will not just have a drink and a snack in the same sauna, home or club. This is how all meetings that are timed to coincide with any other occasion often take place. You need to come up with a theme for the party in advance. All participants may be required to wear costumes. Agree in advance who will perform what function. Also, with your friends, try to come up with competitions in advance in which everyone invited will be involved. Come up with souvenirs that will be a symbol of your strong, long-term friendship. Don't forget about the photographer. Don't be stingy and order a professional presenter. You will have a fun time, and the memory of this day will remain, and most importantly, you will have something to show your future wife.
How to throw a cool bachelor party
Stone the relatives of your future wife who are trying to sneak into your bachelor party.
It is, of course, better for the future wife's relatives to remain in the dark about the details of the event for their own peace of mind. Even if the bride has a funny brother! Or, for example... cousin! Alas, they have no place at the bachelor party. And in general, it is advisable to dose out any information about it: you don’t need to tell anyone except future participants about the enormity of your plans.
Yes, invite only your closest friends to the bachelor party.
The rule that only your closest friends should be present at the bachelor party is more than reasonable. After all, your entire previous life you have been moving towards this event. When you and Kostya in the second grade tried to smoke behind the garages and then spent two days learning to turn yourself inside out - it was in preparation for the bachelor party. When you and Innokenty escaped from the gopniks in the park and agreed to tell everyone that you beat five people with turntables (like Bruce Lee), this was the first step towards a bachelor party. Now this day has come, and you should see before you only the faces of your closest friends who have confirmed their right to this title. Once again: at the bachelor party there is no place for the neighbor next door, Pyotr Semenovich from the supply department, and especially your father-in-law.
Yes, invite the virgins of fun to your bachelor party.
According to time-honored tradition, this is the only day of your groom's life when the presence of scantily clad girls at a party is not exactly welcomed by the future wife, but is perceived as a necessary evil. There are, of course, brides who flout traditions, but you always have the right to remind your future wife that you invite half-naked beauties to a party only because you care about her reputation. After all, a person who invites friends to a bachelor party without strippers will receive the flaming mark of an eternal henpecked person on his forehead, and everyone will consider his wife a jealous motherfucker. Darling, how can I cast such a shadow on you?! Please also keep in mind that strippers, if you decide to have them, must be professional dancers. Any girls you know well, and especially your ex-girlfriends, will instantly turn your bachelor party from the best day of your life into a source of huge problems for the coming years. The responsibility of selecting strippers and personally casting them traditionally falls on the best man. It's good to be the best man!
Let men fight with each other, delighting their hearts with daring.
In addition to strippers and alcohol, there should be some other entertainment at the bachelor party. Moreover, it’s your usual entertainment with your friends. Preference, a bathhouse or football - all this is needed not just to get drunk, but to symbolically close the previous stage of your life. Of course, perhaps no one will forbid you to meet with friends for cards after the wedding, but it will be completely, completely different. Also plan at least one outdoor competition. Smoke breaks on the balcony do not count. Paintball, petanque, throwing stones will rally your team spirit for further victories.
Neither the messenger nor the urgent message should have any entrance or exit to the holiday.
Yes, a phone can ruin any bachelor party. If you value the memory of your bachelor years, turn off your phone, or better yet, forget it at home. In addition to the obvious troubles (calls from your future wife at three in the morning asking how much you already miss her), the phone hides many more surprises. With its help, you can start writing text messages to your exes, taking photographs of what is happening, or... although the next commandment already talks about this.
Take away papyri and iPhones from all guests at the bachelor party. Let no one post any obscenities on Instagram since this holiday.
Any anachronisms should be considered accidental. Presumably, iPads in Mesopotamia were slaves who carried a bag of writing materials and scrolls with moral messages for their master. As for Instagram, this is the name of one of the incarnations of the vengeful god of the desert, who drove wanderers crazy by showing them thousands of mirages with kittens playing the piano. As for the essence, this is the most important commandment of a bachelor party. What happens at the bachelor party should stay at the bachelor party. The virtual chronicle of humanity will do without evidence of how famously Vasya vomited with Baileys in the jacuzzi. It is indecent and stupid to brag about a bachelor party among those who did not participate in it. Instagram will remain without a victim this time.
Advice from a practitioner
This is all theory. For practical advice, we turned to a person who has been professionally organizing private events for many years - Sergei Knyazev, head of the Knyazev holiday agency.
Joint celebration
We've looked at the best bachelor party ideas. We hope that you will find something for your celebration. But what if the desire of both newlyweds is a joint bachelorette and bachelor party? There are different ideas for the event. There are a huge number of them. Some of them are presented below:
- Competitions. A boys' team against girls in a boat race, for example. The losing guests treat the winners. Or swim at will - what could be even more interesting?
- Karaoke. You can also split into a team of boys and girls and see who can outsing who.
- Club. You can rent such an establishment. Prepare in advance some kind of video about the newlyweds meeting, include their childhood photographs, funny moments from their life together. Such a congratulation will be remembered for a lifetime. This idea for a bachelor party will definitely delight your friends.
There’s a party at Detzel’s house, the whole neighborhood is partying, the whole school is partying...
If you have a very limited budget, you can organize a party at the groom’s or one of his friends’ home. To do this, alcohol is purchased in advance, the menu and entertainment program are thought out.
Difficulties of this type of marking:
- guests may get bored;
- neighbors may complain about noise after 11 p.m., and the event will have to be canceled.
Pros:
- small budget;
- no one will get lost;
- there is no question of how to get home;
- If you have the equipment, you can have karaoke and sometimes even play billiards at home.
However, even at home you can organize a costume party or a movie marathon of everyone’s favorite films.
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Bowling
Common and understandable entertainment. It is perhaps difficult to meet a person now who has not played this exciting game at least once in his life. Bowling is a relaxed game. While one person is throwing balls, the rest are sitting peacefully and chatting at a common table.
Despite such a peaceful atmosphere, men still have a competitive spirit in this entertainment. Everyone strives to win and knock down as many pins as possible.
By choosing such an evening, you can get several advantages at once. Firstly, there is variety. Secondly, not only drinking alcoholic beverages. Thirdly, there is an opportunity to compete and find out who is the strongest. Fourthly, during the game you can chat with your friends.
How to party in America and Russia
If we talk about other countries, then, perhaps, it is in America that such meetings are held most vividly and vigorously. We learn about this by watching famous films. It was from here that the wave of bachelor parties reached Russia.
If you don’t have any ideas for holding an event, then it is quite possible to order a toastmaster for this meeting. The presenter will prepare an original script that will appeal to everyone present.
Paintball
Paintball can be considered one of the most interesting pastimes for a man. This game is a favorite game for men during the war or Cossacks-robbers. Only now everyone has pistols that shoot BBs. The main task is to defeat the enemy. You can understand who won at the end by seeing who has the most paint on.
Men are so addicted to this game that they can forget to keep track of time. In order for the entertainment to be as interesting as possible, it is worth attracting as many people as possible. In this case, it will be possible to split into full-fledged teams and organize strategic attacks.
Paintball is a game for active people. Of course, it is not compatible with alcoholic drinks and a relaxed type of recreation.
A fighter must always be on his toes, fearing an attack from the enemy.
