Wedding anniversaries
- Why cashmere?
- How to congratulate and what to give for a cashmere wedding
- From guests, relatives
- Each other
It is customary for many married couples to celebrate their wedding anniversary or family birthday. As a rule, silver (25 years) and gold (50 years) weddings, as well as other “round” dates, are celebrated on a special scale. Although in fact, every year lived together is very important and has its own symbolic name. For example, a 47-year anniversary is called a cashmere wedding.
What wedding
The 47th wedding anniversary is rightfully called cashmere. Cashmere is a rare and expensive natural material. It retains body heat, but does not prick, unlike wool, does not cause allergies and is beautiful in itself. Cashmere is light and pleasant to the touch. The material is made from the undercoat of cashmere goats, which are raised in northern India, China, Nepal and Pakistan. One goat produces only 200 g of fluff per year, which produces only 120 g of yarn.
Cashmere is expensive and rare. But no less precious is the marriage union, which lasts 47 years.
Cashmere thread is not only expensive, but also durable. It's difficult to break. Likewise, the bonds of a marriage that has survived 47 years are reliable and strong. During this time, the couple overcame many difficulties and supported each other. Therefore, a cashmere wedding takes on special value.
How to celebrate
47 years of marriage is not yet a round date, but close to it. It is not necessary to celebrate it in a restaurant surrounded by numerous friends and relatives. But it is advisable to gather for a festive dinner with at least a small group.
To decorate a cashmere-themed room, you don’t have to use expensive fabrics. It will be enough to take any wool whose color is close to the natural gray-beige range. Place skeins of wool yarn as table decoration. You can also use it to bandage napkins and cutlery. For a festive table, a white tablecloth made of natural materials is better suited. And it will always be appropriate to decorate the room with gel balls, connecting them into a garland or releasing them to the ceiling.
Traditionally, on the holiday, the best porcelain dishes, silver and cupronickel silver cutlery are placed on the table. The couple's favorite dishes are chosen as a treat, even if these are not delicacies, but ordinary baked goods and baked meat. At the end of the evening, you can serve your guests a symbolic wedding cake. If this product is made of mastic, you can decorate it with any image of cashmere - a sweater, scarf, shawl or even a pair of socks. All this will leave the most pleasant memories.
On the cashmere wedding day, spouses traditionally recall the events of their life together and show albums with family photographs. If competitions are planned during a festive evening, then the topic for them is the habits, hobbies, and dreams of the husband and wife.
For your 47th wedding anniversary, set the table with a white linen tablecloth.
How to celebrate a cashmere wedding
There are still three years until the anniversary date, so the wedding day, which happened forty-seven years ago, can be celebrated modestly. It is better to spend this holiday surrounded by children, grandchildren and closest friends. Some couples already have great-grandchildren by this time. And a cashmere wedding is an excellent reason to get together with the whole extended family.
To create a festive mood, you need to take care of the decoration of the room where the holiday will take place. You can use balloons and flowers for this. The table should also be beautifully decorated, so it is better to cover it with a white tablecloth and place vases with flowers. Dishes should be placed in porcelain glassware. You can cook your favorite dishes.
There is a specific dress code for a cashmere wedding that must be followed. For example, the heroes of the occasion should come to the festive table in cashmere clothes.
But if you don’t have such clothes, then you can simply take a piece of cashmere fabric, make a boutonniere out of it and attach it to the lapel of a man’s jacket. A woman can make a cashmere flower or a headband.
The couple’s children and grandchildren should think through a festive program so that the 47th anniversary is relaxed and fun. Various competitions should be organized and funny performances should be prepared. This will set the right tone for the celebration; neither the guests nor the spouses themselves will be bored. Spouses can be given commemorative medals and certificates as a reward for their long relationship.
Gift for husband
A traditional gift for a husband for 47 years of marriage is a cashmere product. It could be:
- sweater;
- scarf;
- gloves;
- coat.
You should not limit yourself to cashmere alone, because it is a rather expensive material. It can be replaced by wool products and any things that carry or symbolize warmth, including spiritual warmth. In the USA, for example, it is traditional to give books, but not ordinary books, but rare collectible editions, usually dedicated to the hobbies of the spouse.
47 years is a huge amount of time spent together. Therefore, for a cashmere anniversary, it is quite acceptable to give your spouse a watch or any souvenir that marks the passage of time. And to tie the gift even more tightly with a cashmere wedding, you can put it in a woolen bag or sock.
The main gift to a spouse for a cashmere wedding is the warmth of the soul. And what material expression it will take is not so important.
Forty seven wedding years
A married couple who have lived together for 47 years will be able to safely celebrate a cashmere wedding. This date is referred to as an intermediate anniversary in the relationship of the spouses, but its significance does not become less. After all, such an already middle-aged couple has 47 years of joint experience behind them, different things have happened, both joy and sorrow. The main thing is that the spouses were able to carry their relationship through time and walk through life hand in hand. Such couples can only envy them with white envy.
Cashmere wedding - a simple and interesting date
The 47th wedding anniversary, as a rule, does not imply a magnificent celebration and a large-scale banquet. Among the guests at such a holiday there are only the closest relatives and old friends of the family.
The hall where the celebration will take place can be decorated with inflatable balloons and arrangements of fresh flowers.
It is important that they match each other in color theme. Cover the festive table at a cashmere wedding with a plain white tablecloth, preferably made of natural fabric
As for the wedding menu, here you can get by with your favorite homemade dishes that you prepare for the holidays for your loved ones. It is not necessary to overload the table with a huge number of culinary delights. Remember that everything should be in moderation; it is better to set the table in a classic way. Spouses should wear cashmere clothing. It is worth imagining a little, starting from an original skirt for the wife, and ending with an unusual jacket for the husband. If you are a fan of the classics, then small accessories, a boutonniere, a hair hoop, a brooch, a flower, will be enough.
Organizing a cashmere wedding
As has already been said, forty-seven years of marriage is not a reason to start a feast for the whole world; a quiet family celebration will be enough. But still, there are some mandatory rules that simply must be followed.
- Snow-white tablecloth on the table.
- Silver cutlery, because 47 is the number of iron in the table of chemical elements.
- Bouquets or an arch of inflatable balloons as a symbol of the ease of marital relations.
Congratulations to the point
For a cashmere wedding, special congratulations are important, which can successfully emphasize the warmth of such a long relationship. The main thing is no pomposity in words or pretentious statements
. The people who will be present at the celebration have known each other for a long time, this is the key to a friendly atmosphere and trust.
As for congratulations from friends, this could be a form of student gatherings. “The newlyweds” will be pleased to plunge into the times of their youth, and the holiday will be quite atmospheric. To consolidate the result, add several thematic elements to the overall design. Another idea is a parody. Such a kind irony for the heroes of the occasion, believe me, in this case, celebrating will be very fun, and memorable photos will be pleasant to look at even after a few years.
A congratulatory speech from children can be presented in the form of a presentation from old photographs from a family album and supplemented with wedding photographs of their parents. The right musical accompaniment and warm words spoken from the heart will be the best gift for such an anniversary.
Now you know what living together for 47 years is like and what a wedding is like. Treat the couple to a pleasant holiday that they will remember. And then you can immediately start preparing for the amethyst wedding.
Gift for wife
To give a gift to your wife for a cashmere wedding, you can stick to the traditional theme. Give her a cashmere product:
- plaid;
- sweater;
- dress;
- coat;
- scarf;
- shawl;
- mittens or house slippers.
If you can’t find delicate and soft cashmere, use products made from practical and warm wool. A soft toy with elements of wool yarn will be a pleasant souvenir. If the spouse is interested in sewing or embroidery, yarn and accessories for needlework will be a relevant gift.
Any gift will be combined with the theme of a cashmere wedding if it is presented in a box decorated with curls of cashmere threads or ribbons knitted from it. There can be anything inside: a book, a family portrait, jewelry, handmade sweets, favorite flowers, an electronic gadget, cosmetics.
How to celebrate your 47th wedding anniversary?
A cashmere wedding is not an anniversary. There's no need to have a big celebration. Organize a quiet evening, allow yourself to enjoy the comfort and tranquility surrounded by your loved ones. Invite only your closest ones on this day. A warm family celebration will be the best holiday for tired elderly people.
Perhaps there are already great-grandchildren at this age. With their laughter and gentle voices they will make the evening sweet and pleasant. The room for such a celebration is decorated with the most ordinary balls and flowers. The table is covered with a white tablecloth, silver or porcelain dishes are placed. Dishes are prepared that are the most favorite in the family.
As for the clothes of the “newlyweds”, it is desirable that it be cashmere. If this is not possible, the “groom’s” suit can be decorated, for example, with a cashmere boutonniere; the “bride” can be pinned on a flower made of such material or a hoop. Regarding the celebration scenario, a good option would be skits and competitions with the participation of the heroes of the holiday, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Such entertainment will bring a lot of pleasure to everyone. In addition, “cashmere” spouses can be awarded with commemorative medals and figurines for a long period of married life.
What do guests give?
Since a cashmere wedding is an unofficial anniversary, guests are practically unlimited in the choice of gifts. As a rule, the 47th wedding anniversary is celebrated in a narrow circle, so personal gifts, souvenirs for home and comfort are appropriate.
If you are invited to a cashmere wedding, you can choose a gift from the following list:
- home clothes , dressing gowns, pajamas, slippers, towels, blankets, rugs, pillows, bedspreads, tablecloths, furniture covers - any home textiles made from cashmere or wool;
- household appliances that will give comfort and coziness in the cold: fan heaters, radiators, convectors, fireplaces;
- a photograph of the spouses in a large frame or a family portrait in oil painted from a photograph;
- interior decorations: armchair, coffee table, chaise longue or hammock for the garden, painting or mirror;
- a ticket to a movie , theater or a trip to a resort.
Gift ideas
Woolen items are given as gifts on this anniversary, however, you should not limit yourself to them. An anniversary does not belong to anniversary dates and is celebrated in a narrow circle of the most dear people, so you can give any gifts.
List of gifts:
- home clothes;
- nightwear;
- a cozy sweater for husband and wife (the same);
- interior textiles;
- bedroom sets;
- textiles for the bedroom;
- photo albums, photo frames;
- Appliances;
- interior decorations.
If spouses like to spend time at the dacha, you can give gardening tools or decorative compositions to decorate the yard.
On a note! Surprise the heroes of the occasion with a wedding cake decorated in the form of a knitted item made from fondant. The cake can be made to order in the pastry shop. This surprise will be remembered for a long time.
Impression gifts are a special type of gift that has become common in recent decades. You can give a trip in a hot air balloon, pay for a course of a wellness massage, arrange a ride on a yacht or ship, or give tickets to the premiere of a new play. There are quite enough options for a surprise-impression. You can simply pay for the services of a professional photographer and arrange an unforgettable photo session for the spouses in the places where they were photographed after the registry office.
Children can prepare an interesting surprise for their parents: restore and restore old photographs. It will be very unexpected and will fill your soul with memories of your youth.