One can watch with special trepidation the moment at a wedding ceremony when father and daughter dance together. This is the part after which no one will remain indifferent. Traditionally, the bride and dad dance takes place immediately after the young couple dances their first dance.
It symbolizes the girl’s farewell to her father’s house. Some people believe that this number is a symbol of growing up. In front of her father is no longer a little girl, but an adult young lady in a wedding dress, ready to start her own family. It is very important to choose a special musical composition that will best reflect the mood of the daughter and father.
Song at the wedding of a daughter and father.
The essence of tradition
In most cases, it is the parents who take on most of the pre-wedding preparation, the same applies to the financial side of the issue. Previously, this was the concern of the groom’s mom and dad, but now the bride’s family is also getting involved.
In addition, it was thanks to their parents that the newlyweds were born, met and fell in love with each other.
Based on all this, the farewell dance of the bride with her father, like the groom with her mother, is a kind of gratitude for all the good things that happened in life.
Farewell, however, does not happen forever, so tears of sadness are usually unjustified. The father only transfers his daughter under the responsibility and protection of her beloved man, and, as a rule, is happy for her and that she was able to find her happiness.
Interesting!
Just no need for tears
I know a good portion of newlyweds who do not want a drop of tears at their celebration.
For them, this is a celebration of life and on this day there is no place for tears! In this case, the wedding waltz of the king and his princess can be replaced with something else unpredictable, extraordinary, creative, bright and beautiful action.
The best dance at a wedding does not have to be sad and bring tears to your eyes. Some parents generally
We are very glad that we handed over our absolutely beloved child to his beloved half. So why be sad and shed tears if you can light up the hall with bright salsa or other unexpected dance.
And here is an example of an original view on a pressing issue:
Very cute, simple, light, but beautiful number:
These are beauties! That's it dad! Not everyone can cope with such a task - another cool mix production. No tears! Only applause and cheers. Although, you must admit, if you want to cry, then you can find a reason here, because they dance so cutely...
Choosing music and suitable style
The father-daughter dance at a wedding most often takes place to lyrical music, with the initiator being the girl herself.
Men can also experience exciting emotions, but most often the stronger half of humanity carefully hides this.
Moreover, most of the tender feelings in a man are caused by his daughters - the first meeting in the maternity hospital, the first word “dad” and a wedding with a worthy person leave the warmest memories. For this reason, the bride invites her father to a farewell dance.
However, the dance of the bride with her father at a wedding can be not only lyrical - the hero of the occasion can surprise everyone present with fiery movements performed in sync with her father. These can be retro dances, quickstep, boogie-woogie, swing and other dynamic options. This solution is suitable if dad is not against it, since it is difficult for some to learn energetic movements, especially if they have not had the opportunity to resort to them before.
Waltz, Latin American and ballroom dancing are best left for performances with the groom. They are too sensual and intimate.
Important! Even when choosing an ordinary slow dance with simple movements, at least one training session is required, and in the same banquet hall where the celebration will take place. Training is especially important if the bride has a dress with a train.
How to choose music for the father's dance with the bride?
To settle on any one musical composition, it is worth deciding on the style of the dance. As a rule, slow dancing is most often chosen. For example, it could be a classic waltz or a fiery rumba.
Wedding planners say that the song a bride chooses for her wedding will generally depend on a number of factors:
- Relationships - if a warm, friendly and trusting relationship has developed between the daughter and father, then she is more likely to choose a light and fiery composition. It could be a foxtrot or a rumba. If the relationship is traditional, where the father is a strict and at the same time loving head of the family, then the girl will choose the classic waltz.
- Stiffness - unfortunately, most fathers are very constrained at such moments. It is touching and exciting for them when their own children get married. At the same time, fathers need to perform a dance. Therefore, they prefer to choose the simplest elements. If the father is relaxed and calmly determined that the whole audience will be looking at him, then he can fool around with his daughter by performing a funny and fiery modern dance.
Fortunately, at present there are no strict concepts regarding wedding dance. Both the performance of a classic waltz and funny modern choreography are considered acceptable. In the case of choosing a waltz, you will show touching feelings and sentimental moments.
And if you choose a fiery dance, then prove to everyone present that there is nothing to cry and grieve for, you will always rock together in this way.
Nuances
The bride's dance with her father can be made impromptu, meaning there is no need to rehearse before it. Most often this happens when a classic white dance with primitive movements is conceived. However, you can surprise not only the guests, but also the dad himself, by replacing the lyrical composition in its midst with energetic music. This option is suitable only in cases where the girl is sure that her father will not be confused and will be able to pick up a new rhythm with her.
It would be good if the song for dancing with dad at a wedding touches on the theme of fatherly love or gratitude from a daughter. You can choose one of the following options.
- Leonid Agutin - “Father is next to you”;
- Joseph Kobzon - “Daughter”;
- Igor Demarin - “Invite your father to the white dance”;
- Alsou - “Father's Daughter”;
- Timur Temirov - “Wedding Waltz”;
- Evgeniy Doga - waltz from the film “My Affectionate and Gentle Beast”;
- Arkady Kuchiersky - “My Daughter”;
- Egor Creed - “She’s Daddy’s Girl”;
- Teresa James – “You are my Hero”;
- Ray Allaire – “A song for my daughter”;
- Martina McBride – “In my daughter's eyes”;
- Joe Cocker - “You are so beautiful to me.”
It is also important to decide on clothes for the chosen dance. For example, if for a performance with the groom the bride changes into a looser outfit, then the dance with her father can be made energetic. If the girl wears a ball gown with a full skirt during the entire banquet, then it is better to give preference to a calm and lyrical composition with appropriate movements.
The father-daughter dance at a wedding is usually organized before or after the newlyweds perform together.
What should a father-daughter dance look like at a wedding?
Dancing with her father at a wedding signifies the bride's farewell to her old family and her transition to her husband's new family. Today, the original meaning of this tradition fades into the background, and the custom becomes simply a touching and sometimes cheerful addition to the wedding program.
The dance between a daughter and her dad can be anything, the main thing is to take into account the physical capabilities and health of the parent. A young active father is able to perform several complex steps, which would be difficult for an older person. You also need to take into account the dance training of both. It is not necessary to stage a complex number with intricate movements. The meaning of the dance is different - to show the reverent, tender relationship between family people. You can simply dance around to a touching composition, it will make an impression.
It is worth informing your father about the wedding number in advance; it is better not to make it a surprise, because he may simply be shy and embarrassed before performing in front of guests. To avoid this, be sure to rehearse the dance. By the way, you shouldn’t make it too long, 3 – 4 minutes is enough. So the head of the family will not get tired, and the guests will not get tired.
Time for father and mother
Along with the first dance of the newlyweds, the performance of the parents is a touching and memorable moment. Moms and dads of newly-made spouses get the opportunity to relax and once again, without words, demonstrate their love for each other, carried through decades.
The scenario can be described as follows: first, the newlyweds dance with each other, then the bride invites her father, and the groom invites his mother, and after that the parents from each side perform simultaneously. This option is appropriate if both families are present at the wedding in full, otherwise the single parent will feel uncomfortable, so this stage is abandoned.
Important! Find music competitions here, and also pay attention to competitions for children.
The dance of dad and mom at a wedding is usually slow and takes place to lyrical music. You can give preference to simple movements or dance a waltz, like in the good old days at your own wedding. At this time, the lights in the hall are dimmed, and guests surround the speakers and hold lit candles in their hands.
Bottom line
A father-daughter dance at a wedding song is a special moment at a wedding banquet that many look forward to. The bride prepares for it especially tenderly and reverently, who often proves her independence and maturation through her own wedding.
Who knows, maybe only after the dance the father will understand once and for all that in front of him is no longer a little girl, but an independent and adult woman whom he still loves and idolizes. A dance with dad can be the starting point of a new adult relationship.
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Summary
The bride and father can demonstrate to everyone their warm feelings for each other without using words - only movements and emotions. It is at the wedding of their daughter that men often shed the mask of cold concentration and give free rein to their love. Such a touching moment will definitely be etched in your hearts, and the photographs taken by the photographer will warm you up in difficult moments in life.
Andrey Andreev
Wedding planner and wedding photography guru
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TOP 10 instrumental melodies
Dancing with my father at a wedding.
A classical melody, like no other, is capable of reflecting people's feelings. It is no coincidence that it has been listened to for centuries and the memory of its authors is revered. The most famous composers are Schubert, Bach, Mozart, Tchaikovsky.
All of them wrote a large number of overtures and other musical genres. Classic waltz sounds best with melodies from famous musicians.
Unfortunately, performing live songs of this style at a wedding is simply impossible, since you will have to invite a whole orchestra to perform.
- Chopin - April of Dreams.
- Tchaikovsky – Waltz of the Flowers.
- Sviridov - Waltz “Blizzard”.
- The Ray Hamilton Orchestra - Move closer.
- Frank Sinatra – Strangers In The Night.
- Cafe del mar – I love you.
- Eurythmics - The Miracle Of Love.
- Bryan Adams - Everything I Do It For You.
- Mariah Carey - Without You.
- Sergio Mendes - Never Gonna Let You Go.
It is best to prepare for the musical number in advance by consulting with your own father. You can choose a song that you have heard since childhood, and your dad simply adores it. As a rule, this is old Russian rock, which has already become a classic in our time.
With it, you will be able to feel the moment happening in your life more deeply and better. It would be a good idea to take a few lessons from a choreographer. In this case, a whole dance story may turn out that will please everyone present.
Common types of dances
The choice of dance performance depends on the theme of the wedding, the physical capabilities and character of the partners. In a family where father and daughter have friendly relations, they often choose a fast, rhythmic, and sometimes comic dance. For families with a traditional upbringing, where dad is strict but fair, classic calm movements are more suitable.
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Combination numbers mixing several styles are becoming increasingly popular. Usually the beginning is slow, but over time the dance gains momentum, becoming fiery and energetic. We will look at the main, popular types of wedding dances for father and daughter:
Waltz always looks solemn and makes an impression. This is a very beautiful type of dance. To prepare it, it is necessary to rehearse the basic movements in order to achieve harmony and coherence.
Tango is one of the most difficult dances that requires preparation. With its help you can express many emotions, for example, love, tenderness. It is better to choreograph a dance for the daughter and father to smooth music, without sudden movements
Rumba is like a parent's dance, it can be fiery and gentle, but at a slower pace. It all depends on the wishes of the partners and dance skills
Salsa is a complex, rhythmic and popular dance. To master it, you need to practice well. If the father and daughter have some dance training, then learning salsa will be easier. It’s worth choosing slow music so that the father can follow his daughter’s movements
Bachata is another Latin American dance. It is a little calmer than rumba, but also requires preparation. There is room for improvisation, provided that the partners know how to move in this style
Rock and roll is an energetic, fun dance that requires a certain amount of physical fitness and endurance. Well suited for a sporty father with a sense of humor who is not shy about performing a routine. At the same time, many dads love him, remembering their dance successes in their youth
