Stylish groom: choosing a modern suit for a wedding

People love to talk about weddings in lofty terms. Your wedding should be “the happiest day of your life,” “the most important day of your life,” “the greatest day of your life,” and so on. We would add that a wedding should be one of the days when you are dressed at your best. Whatever form the ceremony takes, it certainly deserves your stylish appearance.

How to dress for a wedding, if in many cases the groom's outfit and suit require some coordination with the bride's dress and the wedding style? Let's figure out what to wear to the wedding for the groom and how to look 100%.

If we jump ahead a little, then after the wedding, looking at the wedding photographs, in more than half of them you will be with the bride in all possible angles and staged scenes. Obviously, you don't want to give in to the bride's gorgeous dress in these photos. But how to do this if the options for wedding suits for the groom are as varied as the types of wedding ceremonies? Let's look at the basic principles that everyone can follow.

You should look as good as you can

You should look as good by the end of the day as you did at the beginning. Your wedding is a special moment, and you should look the part. Your grooms suit should be a classic example of the style you have chosen. Those who wear a tuxedo must be an example of the "Black Tie" dress code; those who wear a suit to a wedding must select the rest of their wardrobe carefully, and also carefully choose the boutonniere.


Classic look of the groom's wedding suit

We're emphasizing classic style not because we want you to dress like your grandfather (which might actually be a good idea), it's just that we don't want your wedding photos to have a certain time stamp on them. Do you remember the photos of your parents and/or friends that have fashionable hairstyles from the 80s and voluminous curls from the 90s? A fashionable appearance is just a temporary phase that will pass sooner or later. Instead, go for suits and silhouettes that are timeless.

Rules for choosing a suit

Regardless of what style of suit is chosen - classic or informal - you need to take into account the rules for its selection. This is necessary not only for maintaining etiquette, but also for creating a harmonious image of the groom. Before starting the fitting, it is advisable to decide on the range of models under consideration so as not to waste extra time on unsuitable options. It is important that the bride’s outfit matches what the modern groom is wearing: photo below.

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To choose a stylish wedding suit, you need to adhere to the following recommendations:

  • The model must be selected according to size so that it is comfortable throughout the day. The suit should not restrict movement or look baggy.
  • When trying on, it is better to wear a white shirt and compare the resulting image with it first, and then, if necessary, look at other options.

Classic two-piece groom suit: modern elegance

A basic two-piece groom's suit is often the simplest and most striking option for a man. More sophisticated options such as tuxedos and frock coats are more expensive in Russia and the CIS countries, although it is possible that the person and his guests already have formal wear. Also, such clothing involves rules that many are not familiar with.


Blue suit for a wedding

If you want people at your wedding to look stylish, but they're on a tight budget and you don't want to look tactless, you might want to stick with single-breasted men's suits. Plus, you don't need to buy a new suit for your wedding if you already have a simple, solid suit in charcoal gray or navy blue. These dark formal colors are totally suitable for a wedding and many people will be very happy to wear a suit that they already have in their wardrobe and is in excellent condition. By the way, the groom's wedding suit can be rented. This way you will save some money.

Worn with a white or other light-colored shirt and a simple tie, a suit in a solid dark color gives a person an understated elegance that fits well with most wedding styles and matches the importance of the occasion. Plus, if a new suit is needed, it's always a worthwhile purchase. A new suit, if it's a quality purchase, remains useful after the wedding as a piece of clothing suitable for business meetings or other semi-formal events. I recommend reading our article on how to purchase your first classic men's suit.

Colored suit

Classic assumes a certain set of colors: black, gray, dark blue. The easiest way to turn an ordinary suit into an unusual one is to play with color. A classic silhouette combined with bright colors is an excellent option for those who adhere to traditional views on the groom’s wedding image, but want to add originality.

Ksenia Lekhman, Cavalier salon

Tomsk

A wedding classic has recently been considered a combination of a white shirt with a dark suit: graphite, black, brown, and the classic of recent years - all shades of blue. It is deep blue that has been the most popular color for a groom’s suit for more than one season. In 2018, the most popular non-classical color was a calm blue check. I believe that the fashion for it will not go away this year either. Non-standard colors include purple, eggplant and fuchsia. These shades of suits are often combined with a pink shirt.
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lilac groom suit

photographer SVETLANA SHUMSKIKH photographer PICHKHADZE MIKHAIL

salmon plaid groom's suit, CACHAREL groom's suit

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blue groom suit

Ksenia Deitch, photographer

Moscow

The most popular color for a wedding suit is blue. Unfortunately, only 10 percent of grooms choose a gray or black tuxedo. My opinion is that they suit the wedding style much better, they look more solid and more expensive in photographs. Moreover, blue can be very bright; the groom in such a suit distracts all attention from the bride. When processing a photo, an already bright blue can become close to acidic; in this case, I always remove the saturation of the suit so that it does not become a spot that falls out of the overall color picture of the wedding series. It gets ridiculous: you can scroll through hundreds of photos from such different weddings, but everywhere you see the same blue suit on the groom!

The color of the suit needs to be given special attention if the basis of your wedding concept is a certain palette.

For example, blue will not suit a pink palette at all, but gray-blue will come in handy. A brown groom's suit also looks great in photos and is especially suitable for fall weddings. In the summer, you can completely move away from the classics and play up the look in a casual style, replacing the jacket with a vest or adding interesting accessories, such as suspenders. Two-piece suits look very advantageous in the photo when the jacket and trousers are different in color. There is no need to be afraid to deviate from the usual image of the groom in a plain classic suit!

photographer KSENIA DEYCH

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Plain Classic Groom's Two-Piece Suit

The best wedding suits for the groom are those in charcoal gray or deep navy blue, although lighter gray, khaki and blue suits can also work in the summer months and in exotic locations.

Avoid bright, colorful suits as they are a novelty item and too colorful for a wedding unless you are getting married in Las Vegas.

In Russia, colored themed weddings have been gaining momentum lately. I realize that most grooms reading this article are under some control from their brides, but still, if you can, try to resist this.


Red classic groom suit

This is fine for a high school graduation, but not for adults who want to publicly exchange promises and rings. You shouldn't be looking to match your tie, boutonniere, and pocket square to a specific color theme, but rather choose them to complement you and the bride.

Avoid heavy elements that distract the eye and may conflict with the wedding style.

Formal patterns such as stripes or checks have a business association, and this is not suitable for festive events. Stick to a solid or semi-solid color suit for the most elegant look.

Butterfly for a suit

Over the past few years, butterflies have become a very popular accessory for a festive and everyday men's look. It can even be worn with jeans. If earlier this small accessory was almost always monochromatic, now the colors offered by designers amaze the wildest imagination. In addition, different patterns and prints are used: checkered, striped, polka dots, etc.


Groom, bow tie or tie.

Before choosing a bow tie, you should take into account that it is suitable for self-confident men with good manners, who are not embarrassed under numerous appraising glances. It is worn with a tailcoat or tuxedo, to which a special matching belt is worn, and such clothing requires impeccable posture.

On a young man who slouches his back and feels uncomfortable in his attire, a bowtie will look somewhat inappropriate. The classic rule for choosing the color of an accessory is that black is worn with a tuxedo, and white with a tailcoat. The size should correspond to the width of the shirt collar.

In addition to the bow tie, which you need to tie yourself, there are ready-made options. We will look at what style of this small detail of a man's wardrobe will harmoniously suit different looks. For a tuxedo and tailcoat, you should choose plain models that tie, but this must be done flawlessly. For a holiday in casual style, you can choose a ready-made option in bright colors with or without a print.

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When planning a celebration in a boho or rustic style, the groom wears a vest and shirt in brighter colors than when creating a classic look. The colored finished butterfly looks harmonious with them.

Despite the huge palette of colors of this small but stylish accessory, the groom should not choose a very bright color for his wedding, so as not to turn from a stylish gentleman into a buffoon.

The butterfly is well complemented by a scarf in the breast pocket of a jacket made of the same fabric.

Black and white groom suit

Black suits are sometimes seen as a looser version of the tuxedo as wedding wear. This is a somewhat imprecise understanding. Black is a highly formal color, but due to its association with tuxedos and evening wear, it may not be entirely suitable for a wedding ceremony.

Wearing black indoors can have the effect of washing out some of your features and creating a stark contrast that pops up in photos.


Black classic three-piece wedding suit for groom

The color of the groom's clothing should not completely match the bride's, so a white suit should be avoided. White is the traditional color of the bride, and too much white can wash out the contrast of the couple and drain the colors. If your bride is wearing a traditional white dress, then we highly recommend a colored groom's attire.

If you're not dead set on just a black and white suit, we recommend considering charcoal gray or navy options. These colors are easier to match, much more practical to wear, and have been a classic for decades.

Which is better to choose?


For a wedding, a tie or bow tie.
A man's image is harmonious only with correctly selected accessories.

In order not to be tormented by the eternal question of whether it is better to choose a tie or a bow tie for a wedding, you need to master a set of basic rules for composing a man’s image:

  1. A classic tie is matched to the same suit.
  2. The bow tie is worn with a tuxedo or tailcoat.
  3. A wide tie or an original shape is tied to a three-piece suit with a vest.
  4. A neckerchief completes the outfit in a romantic style.

Regardless of the type of accessory you choose, its color scheme should go well with the bride’s dress and accessories. After all, the newlyweds are perceived as a couple and in all photographs they pose together.

Style and cut of groom's wedding suits

A wedding suit doesn't have to be just a single-breasted, two-button jacket - although of course it can be that. Single-breasted jackets are simple, understated and dignified.

If you're feeling the need for a little more sophistication on your wedding day, a double-breasted suit will add weight and formality to the outfit, but this highly formal attire will also require a tie and formal shirt. An open shirt collar will not go well with a double-breasted suit. This suit is also less comfortable to wear, especially if you need to sit for a long time.


Three-piece wedding suit for the groom

But an equally formal and more versatile option is the three-piece suit ensemble; Adds formality and elegance to a basic men's suit by pairing it with a vest.

Adding a vest to a suit can serve the same purpose as a double-breasted suit, but you can always remove the vest and return to a regular single-breasted two-piece suit. Wedding photographers like to take relaxed photos of the groom in just a vest and trousers, with the jacket thrown over his shoulder, so be prepared to take off and put on clothes if you choose a suit with a vest.

Fashion for the groom: main trends in wedding suit 2021 photos

Every year, designers offer various styles and color combinations of wedding suits for men. The traditional black suit is not at the peak of popularity this season, but is still considered a classic of wedding fashion. Current models are brown, white, silver, blue, gray and purple. The types of wedding suits differ primarily in the cut of the jackets. Among them are tuxedos, tailcoats, frock coats, three-piece suits, classic suits or business card suits. A tuxedo is characterized by an elongated single-breasted or double-breasted jacket with satin or silk ribbed lapels. The shirt is worn with a stand-up collar. Straight-cut trousers with stripes are worn either with suspenders, which are hidden behind a vest, or with a sash belt.

Fashionable men's wedding suits 2021: photo trends

Dress shirt for wedding

Looking your best is the goal of a great wedding day, but it's all in the details. A clean white dress shirt is a solid and formal choice for a wedding. Patterns are good for groomsmen and guests, but you only want a formal, classic white shirt that fits well. See how the shirt should fit.

Light shades of blue, off-white, and cream are also acceptable as long as they do not clash with the bride's dress. Remember that the shirt collar will be visible in all your photos, so make sure it matches.

If you decide to skip the tie and not wear one (see below), make sure you wear a shirt with a collar that sits properly. A medium distance between the edges of the collar is the right choice, and also make sure that it does not roll up.

Don't underestimate the importance of a tank top for your wedding day. You'll sweat, and it's best to have a layer of extra protection.

How to choose a tie for a wedding

The choice of tie is important because it is in close proximity to your face. Just like your shirt collar, the color and pattern of your tie will feature heavily in the photos and videos of the day. A wedding is not the time for a trendy or flashy tie—opt for a subdued pattern and color instead.


Green tie for the groom's wedding suit

Look for a tie with one strong base color in blue, green, gold or brown with a modest pattern. In it you will look elegant, and not too flashy. Avoid red ties as they are more suitable for business meetings.

In our online store Bowandtie Shop Gallery you can buy a wedding tie in various colors and patterns. The site has a convenient filter, so it’s easy to sort a large assortment in 2 clicks.

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Don't forget to learn how to tie a tie or bow tie for your wedding.

Gray suit

Formality: Versatility:

Gray color is often ignored, but in vain. Firstly, it will go perfectly with a bride’s dress in an evening style (deep colors like black, burgundy or blue), and secondly, with bright details it will not get lost in the crowd of guests in more familiar dark outfits. Moreover, a suit made of fine gray wool is perfect for any business situation in the summer.

Shoes for the groom's wedding suit

Check out the classic Oxford Balmoral that complements the fabric of your suit. Derbies and Bluchers are acceptable if you plan to wear a lighter colored suit or a suit without a tie. Either way, make sure your boots have a nice shine and they should match the belt (closely, not necessarily exactly).


Shoes for the groom's suit

Ultra-fashionable suit for the groom in a checkered pattern 2021 photo

This print threatens to become the undisputed leader of 2021. Suits in tartan are presented in the collections of Fendi, Trussardi, Etro. Also, classic stripes and abstraction are not inferior in position - such outfits are leading in the collections of Vivienne Westwood, Valentino, GiorgioArmani.

Fashionable men's wedding suits 2021: photo trends

Groomsmen, suits and their matching

In the West, the groom, witnesses and his friends often dress in the same suits, which looks quite funny. On the other hand, in photographs you don’t always understand at first glance where the groom is and where his friends are. In fact, we advise you to stay away from this Western phenomenon and instead of encouraging everyone to dress the same, make sure your friends' outfits complement each other.


Groom, friends and witnesses in identical wedding suits

A wedding party with men wearing suits of similar colors but different styles will look better than completely coordinated outfits, as it will look more natural rather than contrived.

Wedding image of the groom 2021 - photo

A suit gives a man a respectable and elegant look, so it is simply irreplaceable for a wedding celebration! In 2021, designers decided to try and offer trendy suits in different colors, models and styles. The perfect option can be chosen for a wedding of any style! Black is a classic of the genre, but in 2021 it will be replaced by blue, lilac, chocolate and burgundy. The trend for the next season is fabrics with shine and shimmer. Even a suit of the simplest cut will look expensive and stylish! Among light shades, beige and ivory are the leaders. Boho style is at the peak of popularity now, and a classic jacket looks out of place in it. But a stylish cardigan or parka will perfectly complement the look. It is important that the suit is made from natural fabrics. A highlight can be patches on the sleeves, ethnic embroidery on the collar or unusual large buttons. Patches made in the same color as the lining of the pockets look interesting.

Fashionable men's wedding suits 2021: photo trends

Official version: weddings in the style of “Black Tie”

Weddings in the “Black Tie” or “Black Tie” style are very popular in the West, but are sometimes found in our latitudes.

We should note that technically Black Tie is evening wear and should not be worn before 5pm.

Now, if you and your bride are aiming for a Black Tie wedding, then you need to dress accordingly. Although, wearing a Black Tie is often more expensive than a suit, it is actually easier to wear as the rules governing this style are very cut and dry - wearing a classic tuxedo means following the same rules as the rest of bohemian society .


Wedding in Black Tie style

If you follow the Black Tie dress code, we recommend purchasing your own tuxedo; Rental tuxedos are usually made of synthetic materials; you will sweat and be uncomfortable all evening. This is definitely not what you want at your wedding.

Remember that most people don't have a Black Tie ensemble available - they will need at least a few months to rent or purchase a tuxedo.

Finally, be wary of newfangled brightly colored tuxedos or imitation "Black Tie" styles; The only impression this will leave about your wedding day is that you have absolutely no sense of style.

Bottom line

A properly chosen tie or bow tie plays a decisive role in creating the groom's look. They are selected depending on the cut of the suit, the theme of the wedding, as well as the dress, accessories and jewelry of the bride.

A classic tie should be paired with a special clip, and a wide tie should be paired with a vest. A bow tie that is tied looks aristocratic with a tuxedo or tailcoat, and ready-made options can be selected to suit suits of different cuts and styles. We wish you to create an impeccable image for your family's birthday party!

Aristocratic option: morning suit

Couples with daytime or evening ceremonies who want as formal a wedding as possible can choose a morning suit style.

Morning suits consist of a single-breasted suit and waistcoat (usually in contrasting colors), a high turn-down collar with a matching tie, and striped or sober trousers.


Groom's White Tie Wedding Suit

The style is intended to emphasize the formality of the upper class and aristocratic events, although it was originally considered casual wear in the West in the same conditions. Nowadays, it is a very formal and very rare style of dress, sometimes seen in the UK and rarely seen here in Russia. A morning suit is a very obliging outfit. It requires items of clothing that very few people have, and even many tailors will find it difficult to assemble all the necessary items correctly.

While vibrant, it is undoubtedly also one of the most difficult traditional wedding attire options to pull off.

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