Every girl dreams of a perfect wedding. Therefore, he puts maximum effort into organizing the event. It is necessary to think about where the celebration will take place, how, and who to invite. The outfits of the bride and groom play an important role. They must fit harmoniously with each other.
If girls need to carefully select a dress, accessories, hairstyle and makeup, then a man should pay special attention not only to the suit, but also to the boutonniere. To choose the right one, you need to combine all parts of the image of a representative of the fair sex.
What is the name of the flower and where did it come from?
Even in ancient times, flowers were used at a wide variety of events. For example, in Rome and Greece it was customary to decorate the head with wreaths at celebrations. Also, a similar accessory was worn by winners at various competitions.
In ancient times, for a wedding, the bride was obliged to independently make a bouquet of wild flowers, which then needed to be secured in the area of the lover’s heart. It was believed that this accessory would protect the groom from evil spirits and various evil spirits.
The boutonniere came to us from France and it is translated as “flower in the buttonhole.” What does this mean? It’s very simple during the revolution, people went to execution with a red carnation. This meant that they were not afraid of anything.
Over time, such an accessory began to be used by those who were accustomed to social life. The boutonniere in this case spoke of their wealth and status in society. At the wedding, such decoration appeared for the first time on the English Prince Charles .
What is a boutonniere for the groom? In the modern world, a boutonniere is a symbol that a man belongs to only one woman. That is why they try to make the accessory and the bride’s bouquet in the same style. This symbolizes the unity of two loving hearts.
In ancient times, only one flower was used to create a decoration, but in the modern world it is customary to make entire bouquets. They can be supplemented with various beads, ribbons and twigs. Each flower in this decoration symbolizes a certain area of life. Therefore, when creating such decor, you should take this into account.
Fashionable options
A boutonniere may consist of standard materials, but still look unusual. It all depends on the imagination and preferences of the lovers.
Often the most elegant decoration is not only a miniature men's bouquet on the lapel made of fresh flowers, but also made, for example, of satin ribbons or some kind of fabric.
You can even use openwork to make the decoration even more sophisticated.
From roses, peonies and other fresh flowers
Naturally, the best and most beautiful option would be a boutonniere made of fresh flowers. The basis, as a rule, is a single large flower with an already opened bud.
You can use, for example, a rose of specially grown varieties, the main color of which will be beige, and the edges will be burgundy. But in addition to this, you can also use a whole set of flowers, the main thing is to maintain the color scheme, since the boutonniere should not sharply contrast with the bride’s bouquet.
You can complement the composition with small rhinestones or beads. You can also attach lace or ribbons to highlight the flower. It is better to use a safety pin for fastening. Not only because it is strong and will fit the boutonniere better on the lapel, but also because of its properties.
According to legend, such a pin, pinned correctly, protects against the evil eye.
Made from satin and silk ribbons
If the bride's bouquet is made of artificial flowers, you can make your own boutonniere that will imitate flowers.
You only need a few colors of satin or silk ribbons. They will need to be folded in such a way as to make a rose or some other flower.
The final version can be supplemented with beads and rhinestones.
For a winter wedding
If a couple decides to get married in the winter season, then materials such as cones, leaves, and even tree bark will be perfect for decorating a boutonniere.
It will look very atmospheric in a wedding photo. You can also make the same bouquet for the bride using the same materials. In addition, the same boutonnieres can be made for the bridesmaids and groomsmen, which can be attached either to the hand or to the lapel of the jacket.
If financial possibilities allow, you can use a winter theme in table decoration, and also ask guests to dress up in the appropriate style.
Celebration style
A wedding may initially be conceived not just in a certain color scheme, but in a specific style.
Therefore, the boutonniere can be created in accordance with the idea. For example, for a simpler, even folk style, a wildflower boutonniere is suitable.
This will create a Slavic image for the groom, and if such flowers are present in the bride’s bouquet, the celebration will turn out to be very unusual. If this is a marine style, then you should use materials in blue, blue and aqua shades. In this case, a boutonniere in the shape of a mermaid tail or just a fish would be appropriate. In addition, the bouquet on the lapel can be decorated with starfish or artificial algae.
A seahorse or a jellyfish made from satin ribbons would be useful.
Choosing between artificial decoration and fresh flowers
This accessory is very important for the bride and groom as well. Such decoration makes a man’s outfit more solemn. But to achieve the ideal result, you need to know how to choose the right boutonniere.
First, you should think carefully and decide which flowers you want to use, real or artificial. It is also worth considering the color and actual size of the bouquet.
As for the rest, you should know the following points:
- What is a boutonniere for the groom? The groom's suit should be harmoniously combined with such an accessory. At the same time, the boutonniere and the bride's bouquet simply must be decorated in the same style .
- This decoration should be purchased together with the one that will be intended for witnesses and children. After all, they are the ones who most often hang such an accessory.
- You should not buy the same boutonnieres for your beloved man and witness. Such decorations should be different. After all, the groom, like the bride, is the center of attention on this day.
- It is recommended to use only artificial flowers, because they definitely will not disappear and will not spoil the groom’s image.
- The decoration should be made of small flowers. After all, large plants will only spoil the image.
- Rarely do representatives of the fair sex manage to choose such an accessory on their own. Therefore, it is recommended to contact an experienced florist for help. He will tell you which flowers are best to combine.
Based on these tips, you can choose a worthy decoration for your loved one. If you still decide to settle on a boutonniere with fresh flowers, then it is better to order a couple more to replace them throughout the day. Thanks to this little trick, a representative of the stronger sex will be able to sparkle with his finished look all day long.
Types of boutonnieres
According to their structure, boutonnieres for weddings are divided into:
- simple
- complex
Simple
These wedding boutonnieres consist of one medium or large sized flower, complemented by small details (greenery, ribbons). Naturally, the choice of the main element depends on the composition of the bride’s bouquet. But, if it consists of peonies, then for a small copy of it, the Svadebka.ws portal advises using peony roses: they look like peonies, but a little smaller in size and stronger. If the bouquet includes multi-colored plants, you need to choose one that will look more advantageous and more contrasting against the background of the newlywed’s suit, as well as one that is more durable. Usually these are white, cream, red, purple roses or calla lilies. To supplement, you can use a couple of sprigs of small greens. Such boutonnieres are not suitable for witnesses, but are only appropriate for the groom.
Complex
These include “flowers in buttonholes” in eco-styles, classic compositions and accessories made from non-traditional materials. They consist of small meadow flowers, twigs, greenery, berries, rattan, mesh, etc. – how long will your imagination or the florist’s imagination last?
In the classic version, spray roses, mini-tulips, dwarf callas and other plants with small buds are used. Several of these “crumbs” are supplemented with gypsophila or a sprig of bergasse and tied with a ribbon. You can make these wedding boutonnieres for guests with your own hands.
Models made from non-traditional materials are very practical: unlike living jewelry, they will not wither. These are boutonnieres made of felt, ribbons, and artificial flowers. A composition made of polymer clay will also look beautiful and practical.
How to properly attach a boutonniere?
How and when to attach a boutonniere is the most pressing question. In most cases, this accessory should be worn by the groom by his beloved. This is done after the man buys his bride. The young man presents a bouquet, and the girl, as a sign of gratitude, attaches a flower to him near his heart.
You can make this process more interesting, for example, by placing a boutonniere in the bride's bouquet. After the man buys her and presents her with a set of flowers, she will pull out an accessory from there and attach it to her beloved.
Disputes often arise about which side to hang a flower on. Traditionally, this decoration is worn on the left side of the pocket or lapel of the jacket. You can also attach the accessory to your shirt.
Wedding boutonniere for the groom.
If guests also have a boutonniere, then you need to know that married people should attach it on the right side, and others on the left . Fixed using an English pin or any other means.
How to make your own boutonniere
If it would be better to contact a florist to make a bridal bouquet, then it is quite possible to make a boutonniere yourself. In addition, a hand-made boutonniere for the groom will emphasize a special attitude towards both this small accessory and the entire holiday.
If you decide to create jewelry for the groom yourself, try to work on it in advance, not on the eve of the wedding day. This way you will hone your skills and form an idea of what your composition should look like.
To create a composition of fresh flowers you will need the following materials:
- a fairly large bud that will become central to the composition;
- elements for decoration: small flowers, ornamental plants, berries;
- additional elements: ribbons, beads - to your taste;
- floral wire;
- scissors or nippers;
- tape.
When all these materials are at hand, you can proceed:
- The flower stem must be cut obliquely at the very base of the bud. Before starting to work with a flower, florists recommend placing it in water for three to four hours: this will allow the plant to stay fresh longer. Also, if juice is released from a flower cut, you can dip it in wax or paraffin.
- Place a wire in the center of the bud from above and stretch it so that the end of the wire comes out of the stem.
- To create a boutonniere style, you can and even need to add supporting elements to the main flower. Which one depends only on you. Herbs, leaves, flowers - the choice is almost unlimited. You just need to take into account that additional elements should not be brighter or larger than the central flower, so as not to distract attention from it.
- A composition shaped like a triangle looks good: the top is represented by a central flower, and the cascading frame is located just below the bud.
- The stems of the finished composition are secured, if necessary, with flower glue or tape.
As you can see, the scope for imagination in the process of creating jewelry is enormous. You can make such an accessory in which you will embody all the ideas.
Boutonniere options for the groom
This accessory is as important as the bride's bouquet. Therefore, it must be selected with special care. You should take into account the groom's style, preferences, the image of the newlywed and the bride's bouquet.
Classic flower decorations are already fading into the background. Today, accessories in the form of a bird's nest, a ship, bowling pins and much more are popular. The boutonniere is often attached to the groom's shirt. Most grooms prefer to match this decoration to the style of the celebration itself. But it is worth noting that such unusual boutonnieres also have a high price.
In today's world, some grooms prefer to use multiple accessories. For example, in the registry office he will wear a classic one, in a restaurant corresponding to the theme of the event, and for a photo shoot a third one.
Decoration options for the bride
Groom's boutonniere, photo.
Whether such an accessory is necessary for young people is a rather controversial issue. After all, the bride will have a bouquet, which should match the groom’s decoration . If you still decide to use such a product, then you should choose it correctly.
An accessory in the form of fresh flowers is very popular. It will go perfectly with almost any outfit. Brides also prefer artificial bracelets. They are more durable and practical.
Many young people love boutonnieres made from beads. After all, this is a material that allows you to create absolutely any product. It could be a flower, a butterfly, a bird and much more.
Who attaches the boutonniere and how?
Who attaches the boutonniere to the groom? According to tradition, the bride pins the decoration to her beloved’s jacket. In this way, she symbolically shows that now she and the groom are one family. A boutonniere is a symbol of unity with the woman you love. When choosing a boutonniere, you should pay attention to the clasp. It must be comfortable and strong so as not to break or come undone at the most inopportune moment. If previously boutonnieres were attached to safety pins, now they are immediately made like brooches, which is much more convenient. But, in any case, when buying a boutonniere, you should immediately check the quality of the clasp, try to unfasten it, fasten it and pin it to avoid troubles.
Which side should I attach the boutonniere to? From the left. That is, closer to the heart, to feelings.
How many boutonnieres should the groom have? There should be at least two boutonnieres, especially if they are made from fresh flowers. During hugs, dances and competitions, the groom's boutonniere may simply become unusable.
After the celebration, the boutonniere is kept in the family. This stylish decoration is an important heirloom, as well as a memory of one of the most wonderful days in the life of the young couple.
