A wedding is a pleasant celebration, during which all the attention of the guests is turned to the newlyweds. And they, in turn, enjoy each other’s love and accept congratulations on their happiest day. One of the most important and significant things for the bride on her wedding day is a congratulation from a friend, especially if the girls have known each other since childhood.
For any girl and woman, a wedding is one of the main events in life, and even if it is not her wedding, but a friend’s, she is still very reverent and excited about this day.
Musical congratulations, rap from a friend - video
But whatever method you choose, you need to thoroughly prepare for it in order to pleasantly surprise your best friend. You need to rehearse the text several times and do this before the celebration itself, so as not to forget anything due to excitement and worries.
To feel confident, you need to rehearse your wedding speech in front of a mirror or record yourself on a video camera, later analyzing and working through your mistakes. We must remember that, first of all, a wish for a friend must be sincere.
Congratulations on the wedding for a friend in prose
- Do you remember, friend, how in childhood we shared everything equally? The first books were read together, the first poems were written at the same desk, the first declarations of love were discussed with extraordinary trepidation. Today is the very day when we cease to be the closest to you, because for you the closest and dearest person now becomes your legal spouse. I am sincerely happy for you, and I don’t want to share your happiness with you! Let it be only yours and multiply over the years!
- My dear, beloved and closest friend! Today is your happiest and most wonderful holiday, which you have been waiting for! I am very glad that your dream has come true and your beloved and only one will now go through life next to you. Let your love be so strong that the winds will not break it, the rains will not spill and the snow storm will not crumble. Let there be no big obstacles in your life together, but only small troubles that will only strengthen the union!
- My dear friend! You are getting married today, and I sincerely congratulate you on this wonderful event! Now there will always be reliable protection and support next to you, and may it never weaken, supporting you. Let there be so much joy in your family life that there is simply not enough time for sadness. Let your beloved spouse always remember that you are beautiful and you need to be treated in a special way - warmly, tenderly and with love!
The most touching part should be the ending, where in your own words you need to tell why you value the bride and wish her all the most beautiful and bright things. After all, the beginning and the ending stick most in people’s memories, so these two parts of your congratulations to your girlfriend should carry the most meaning.
It is worth noting that the bride is completely indifferent to how you congratulate her; the main thing is the sincerity in your words. In your speech, the bride wants to hear that you love and appreciate her and can accept her at any time. After all, who but a friend understands us, to whom, if not to her, do we run with joyful emotions and experiences? And this is exactly what the bride wants to hear about on such an important and significant day for herself.
Congratulate your friend on her wedding day in person
Many people argue about the existence of female friendship, but if you have known your friend for many years, then it is worth proving to everyone that female friendship exists. After all, those women who were able to carry their friendship through the years become so close and dear to each other that their relationship resembles that of siblings. You can prove this with congratulations, so you kill two birds with one stone:
- Pleasantly surprise and congratulate your friend.
- Prove to everyone the existence of female friendship.
You can congratulate your friend not only when you are given such a chance, but throughout the entire celebration. It is also possible to congratulate the bride on her marriage during toasts, but the speech should not be long and not entirely formal. You can joke a little here. In addition, congratulating the newlyweds at the table is a Russian tradition that has been passed down from time immemorial.
You need to remember that you are a special guest at the wedding, and therefore the bride expects a beautiful congratulation from you. You need to say words to your friend that have not been spoken all evening, showing originality.
What to talk about?
It was already mentioned above that congratulations on a friend’s wedding should be prepared in advance. On this day it is worth saying pleasant words for a loved one. You also need to remember about wishes and parting words for the young.
For a friend, it is important that your relationship does not deteriorate even after marriage. You need to assure her that your friendship will last until old age, and she can always come to you for advice and make requests.
But it is worth remembering that your congratulations, if you do it verbally, should not last more than three minutes. There is no need to list any facts and dates, because the rest of the guests will not understand this and will get bored at the celebration. If you want to remind the bride of some milestones together, then it is better to do it as a gift.
Wedding congratulations to the mothers of the newlyweds
Congratulations to a friend on her wedding from bridesmaids do not have to all apply only to the newlyweds. An original solution would be wishes addressed to the mother of the bride or groom; the newlyweds will be very pleased.
- Today I will not congratulate my best friend and fiancée. She is already the main hero of the occasion here along with her fiancé. My congratulations will still be pleasant for them, although it does not apply directly to them. I would like to congratulate the mother of the bride and mother of the groom. The heroes of the occasion are smart, kind, wonderful people! The work and great merit of their mothers helped them become this way. It was they who made their children the way we all love and know them. They were an example and imitation, so they raised them to be real people. People with a capital letter! Usually, after marriage, it is customary for a daughter to leave her parents, but our beloved bride does something different: her husband and his family have become an important integral part not only for her, but also for her parents. How did this happen? It's simple: good people are known to be attracted to each other. This can be seen even by how soulfully we all celebrate our wedding day together. Thank you for your children, and the newlyweds for a wonderful holiday! Congratulations, bittersweet!
A beautiful wish - in poetry or prose?
If you can’t find the words to congratulate your friend on her wedding day, you need to find a ready-made congratulation on the Internet. You just have to look for it not on popular sites, so that at the evening you don’t accidentally hear two identical congratulations. Believe me, this will greatly upset your friend and put the guests in an awkward position.
Recently, congratulations in prose have been very popular, since beautiful thoughts are difficult to translate into rhymes. Therefore, if you are unable to compose a poem for your friend’s wedding, then you can use another method of congratulations.
- A beautiful speech at a wedding is simply necessary, since in a good situation such a celebration happens only once, and therefore you have the only chance to surprise the bride and further strengthen your relationship.
- If you know how to write poetry, you can write a poem for her yourself and mention the stages of life that she and you have experienced together. Such congratulations are touching to the point of tears. Believe me, your friend will be very pleased and she will appreciate you even more.
But if you don’t know how to write poetry, then you can find a beautiful and original greeting for your friend on the Internet or in a book. If the bride has a common name, then the congratulations can even be personalized. This is the best option for congratulating your friend on her marriage.
Friendship is important in every person's life. Therefore, on such an exciting day, the bride simply needs the support of her friend and her words of congratulations. They mean so much to a loved one! In order not to upset your girlfriend, you need to prepare your speech in advance, rehearsing everything well.
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Options for original congratulations to a friend on her wedding
You will get an original congratulations on your wedding day if you read poetry or remake a popular film/fairy tale into a visual message to the newlyweds. To do this, you can use drawings, costumes and other accessories.
You can take one of the interesting congratulations in prose, which you can play out in a scene:
- A married friend approaches the groom and gives him five rubles, saying: “I’m giving you this nickel so that it won’t stand on others. They gave it to me for my wedding, they just talked about it to my wife.”
- A married friend comes up to the bride and says: “Take a rose as a gift, bride. And bloom like her in the cold. When life turns into everyday life and prose, take an interesting pose. Then everything will be great for you, well, even if it’s a little indecent.”
- An unmarried friend comes up and gives the groom a pack of condoms: “These are condoms, my friend, but for the future. I advise you to inflate them and play with them with the kids. After all, an elastic band is a miracle toy. It's a ball and a water cannon."
- An unmarried friend approaches the bride and gives her a mirror: “Look in this mirror more often. Bow down to your beauty in it. Never walk around with shaggy hair, don’t wear scary robes.”
- All together: “Take care of love and feelings - this is the highest art in the world. May you have as much happiness as your guests are now BITTER!”
- All the guests and congratulators shout “BITTER. »
An original idea would be congratulatory words for the wedding recorded on video. The main thing is to prepare the equipment in advance, since at the last moment everything can break down.
In the video you can express your wishes in prose and poetry. It is not customary to come to a wedding empty-handed, so a video greeting will be a pleasant addition to the gift.
Giving unusual gifts with wishes is no less fun. For example, you can give your friend a parcel with a saw and say congratulations in verse:
We give you a precious item, Hello to my husband with this item! The saw was not for firewood - for marital purposes, They drank with it until the roosters crowed. And in the morning he gets up - you drank again, Then you started to earn money. If he doesn’t like your dinner, take a drink instead of a tasty seasoning. The husband will eat, but only praise! And you constantly try to saw! And as soon as you show your item, your husband will tenderly say: “Dove, hello!”
An unusual wedding verse involving the gift of vegetables is especially popular. It looks like a lot of fun, it's a joy for the guests and for the young people to have fun!
We give you cabbage so that the house is not empty. We give you cabbage so that your wife can feed her husband delicious food. We give you carrots so that there is love in the house! We give you carrots so that _______________ (name of the bride) there will be no other Vovka! We give you carrots, advice and love! They give carrots so that Vovka is born. Here's a carrot to make the bride nimble. Here's a big carrot for you, bride, so that you have skill in your work. And here are beets, so that mother-in-law and father-in-law will respect them. We give you onions so that you don’t experience severe torment. We give you onions so that there will never be separation. We give you onions so that there is no torment and separation. We give the bride an onion so that her husband will love her. We give a cucumber so that the groom becomes a father sooner. We give you pickles so that twins are born. We give you garlic. How many teeth are there to have so many daughters and sons? Here's some sweet pepper for you so that your daughter Natka will be born. But there is bitter pepper, so that Borka’s son will be born. We give you celery so that your son Andrei will be born. We give a tomato to avoid discord in your home. We give you tomatoes so that there is no discord. We give you a tomato so that you retain your youthful vigor. We will give you another tomato - so that there are no quarrels in the house. We give you two beets so that your relationship will be bright. We give you a pear so that you can live in perfect harmony. Here are some potatoes for you, so that Antoshka will be the first. We give grapes so that your home will always be rich. Here is a radish for the bride, so that neither Petka nor Fedka will know the other. We give you radishes so that you don’t swear and fight. I give you parsnips so that your marriage will be strong. And here is a turnip for you, so that you love each other deeply. And here’s a plum for you, so that you can be happy with him. But here’s the rest of the apple for you, so that there will be prosperity in the house. I give you dill from the beds so that there is order in the house. But here’s a bunch of seeds for you, so that you don’t meet your husband like a cloud. And here’s a cherry plum for you, so you don’t chop it rashly. But I give you grapes so that your mother-in-law will always be happy. And here’s a cherry for you so that your parents aren’t superfluous. Here's some peas for you so you don't go deaf from your mother-in-law's scream.
