If you have the honor of being a witness at your friends’ wedding, then you should think first about your own outfit. You should blend in with the couple, but not overshadow them. In addition, clothes should be comfortable. Before the celebration, it is advisable to discuss outfits with the newlyweds themselves. Competitions and photography await you, where witnesses are present in almost every frame, so such an event requires you to be on top. So, how should a witness dress for a wedding? Let's take a closer look at the main points of the dress code.
What to wear to a wedding guest in summer/winter
The basic rules are the same for everyone:
- Do not wear a white outfit, because... this is the color of the bride;
- Do not dress entirely in black, hinting at mourning;
- Avoid acidic eye-catching shades;
- Do not overdo it with sparkles, sequins and decorations.
The first thing you need to pay attention to when choosing an outfit for a celebration is the seasonality of it. To go to a wedding in the summer, it is better for a man to give preference to suits made from natural lightweight fabrics: linen or cotton with a small addition of synthetics (they do not wrinkle so much). The color scheme is light pastel colors: beige, gray, yellow, blue. For hot days or outdoor registrations on the beach or in nature, you can neglect the jacket, leaving only trousers and a shirt. Instead, you can wear a stylish vest with a bright neckerchief or bow tie.
Women need to choose modest and elegant outfits for a wedding. Deep necklines down to the navel and ultra-short miniskirts with deep slits will look not just ridiculous, but truly vulgar. And the heat has nothing to do with it. When the asphalt is melting on the street, the best option for a girl to wear to a wedding is a light dress made of chiffon or other lightweight material. A skirt with a length closer to the knee line or even to the floor would be quite appropriate. For a beach ceremony, a sundress and a small neat hat are suitable.
In the cold season, it is better to choose clothes from thick and warm fabrics in rich colors. In winter, a man can go to a wedding in a woolen or tweed suit in colors that are popular for this season: bottle glass, red wine, deep blue. A three-piece suit with bold vertical stripes or plaid will look interesting and stylish. For late autumn, shades of coffee and chocolate combined with beige, yellow and pale pink accessories are suitable.
In winter, it is better for the fair sex to give preference to noble fabrics with a slight sheen: satin or velvet. You can complement the look with a fur cape or a stylish cropped coat. If there is slush and snow outside, then it is better not to wear floor-length dresses: after a walk they will be a sad sight. The midi length is indispensable at this time of year. Remember that there is no place for warm boots in the banquet hall - take a change of shoes.
Wedding image of the groom
Fashionable
Fashion collections turn to the classics less and less. The most popular color for a groom's suit in summer is white. It will emphasize the elegance and good taste of the newlywed and will look fresh and relevant.
Of course, you need to take into account the color of the bride's dress. If her outfit is beige, then it is better to put the white suit for the groom aside and choose a beige or cream shade.
Original
Fans of non-standard solutions should take a closer look at gray, lilac, blue and light blue shades. The coral color of the suit did not go unnoticed by the designers, for great originals among the newlyweds.
It is not necessary to choose a wedding suit in these shades; you can complement the groom’s image with details in the form of a tie or shirt.
Extravagantly
For the extravagant representatives of the stronger half of humanity, fashion trends offer experiments with color. A wedding shirt with patterns or a combination of a bright-colored suit with a snow-white shirt looks very fashionable and extraordinary.
Comfortable
The designers also took care of the freedom of movement of the owners of modern wedding suits, leaving the tight-fitting silhouette in the past.
A linen groom's suit will look perfect at a summer wedding ceremony.
A comfortable vest and stylish jeans are perfect for the groom's look this summer. This set will be in demand in the future for parties and entertainment events.
Boldly
The bravest grooms can wear shorts if the theme of the wedding allows it and this option would be appropriate. Bright accents - socks or a tie, vest and suspenders - will add playfulness to the image and make it more interesting.
What to wear to a wedding for the parents of the newlyweds
The parents of the newlyweds are the second most important persons at the wedding ceremony, which means that no less attention will be focused on them than on the bride and groom. Ideally, children should help their parents choose the right look if they want their wedding photos to be harmonious and stylish, because... The older generation is unlikely to understand fashion trends and color concepts.
For adult men, fathers of newlyweds, it is better to choose classic suits made of soft, comfortable fabrics. Any color palette: chocolate, green, gray, blue... The main thing is to choose calm, deep shades and suitable accessories: a classic wide tie and a handkerchief for it, a leather belt in the color of the shoes, cufflinks and a tie clip in the same style. A celebration in a narrow family circle can completely do without a jacket: it will be replaced by a vest in the color of the trousers or a contrasting one.
Mature women may well wear a suit instead of a dress to their daughter’s wedding. The main thing to remember is that it should be in the style of the English queen, and not the office dress code. It is better not to use too bright shades, so as not to overshadow the bride: instead of carmine red, choose burgundy, instead of fuchsia, dusty pink. A trouser suit will also be appropriate, but it must be complemented with an elegant blouse and small but expensive accessories: a string of pearls, diamond earrings or a stylish ring (not all at once).
If the mother of the bride or groom wants to wear a dress to the children’s wedding, then in no case should it be above the knee. The optimal length is midi or maxi. Ocher-golden shades will look advantageous at any time of the year; deep pure colors are suitable for winter: wine, blue, bottle glass. In the summer, feel free to dress in pastel shades.
What should a fat woman wear to a wedding? The answer is simple: no tight clothes. This is a taboo not only for plump people, but also for thin ones. And in general, in a dress that fits like a second skin, it will not be entirely comfortable to move, dance and participate in competitions. Ladies with curvy figures need to focus on their breasts by choosing high-waisted dresses or straight sheaths. Draping at the front will hide the excess. If your ankles are slender, you can safely open them.
Tip five: accessories
A handkerchief, which is usually placed in the right pocket of the jacket, will not be a superfluous accessory at a wedding celebration. It can be intricate or classically simple: take an interest in these questions on the websites of fashion magazines.
The witness is a very important person at the wedding, because it is he who represents the interests of the groom during the bride price. In addition to the ability to bargain, he must have with him a certain amount of money, several bottles of champagne, possibly vodka. You can also stock up on candy. A bouquet for the witness wouldn’t hurt – you can appease her with this. And for a successful conspiracy between the witness and the groom, we recommend reading the Wedding script: the best way to kidnap the bride
Author: Alisa Shestakovskaya
What should a bridesmaid/best man wear to a wedding?
Having adopted Western traditions, modern newlyweds, as a rule, tell their bridesmaids and groomsmen in advance what color and style of outfit they should wear for the ceremony. However, if the time for the celebration is approaching and they are silent, most likely the choice is yours. In any case, it would be useful to find out the general color scheme of the wedding, and then everything depends on your taste and imagination.
The main thing to remember is that a bridesmaid or witness is first and foremost the main assistant, and only then a guest at the celebration. Therefore, the outfit should not be too long, so as not to get tangled in it with the newlywed. A knee-length or midi skirt is the best option. Choose lightweight fabrics in light, subtle colors, such as chiffon or lined lace. This will emphasize youth and grace without adding age, as heavy, dense materials such as velvet can do. Floral prints are now in trend: petals flowing along the hem will add lightness and innocence.
The best man or witness is also the groom’s right hand, and they should be in harmony in color scheme. You don’t have to dress exactly like the newlywed; it’s enough to take one color from his suit and buy, for example, a tie, and combine the rest of the look around this element. You can order identical boutonnieres, but only the one the witness has will be smaller and more modest.
What can you wear to a wedding besides a dress?
Today, fewer and fewer women have dresses in their wardrobe, especially in large quantities. And sometimes it is generally one, as they say, “to the feast and to the world.” If it’s not your children or your closest friends who are getting married, then you simply don’t want to spend money on an expensive outfit. In this case, you can choose alternative options that can be worn together or separately after the celebration.
The first option is a stylish trouser suit or trousers with a blouse. The bottom can even be standard black or blue, but the blouse should be luxurious and expensive. An office shirt won't do. Choose items from thin silk, guipure, chiffon, satin with original lace or tulle trim. This look requires a minimum of accessories - stylish earrings and a comfortable clutch.
Those with a good figure can easily choose an evening jumpsuit as their wedding outfit. They come in a variety of styles and colors, so it’s easy to choose one for any time of year. A small handbag, a thin contrasting strap and wedge shoes or sandals will complete the look.
The third option will be good for women of all ages and body types: a top and a skirt. Young ladies can choose a fluffy translucent knee-length skirt and a lace top with elegant embroidery; older girls can choose stylish tops with a wrap or drapery in the front with loose flowing skirts with an asymmetrical hem. Ladies over 40 will look great in an A-line skirt and a short blouse with small sleeves.
Tip three: don't become a parrot
It is better to avoid extravagant and colorful clothes, with drawings and all sorts of patterns. Elegance and modesty are two words that should definitely be remembered by the witness.
Evening suit for a witness at a wedding
For less formal wedding ceremonies, you can choose less classic clothes. The witness should not be carried away by perfume; the smell should be light and barely noticeable.
