We've lived together for 15 years. Hand in hand, the spouses overcome life's difficulties, build a house, raise children (by the way, they are now in a dangerous transitional age)... How many crises have been overcome, how many birthday cakes have been eaten, how many gifts have been given! And then the day comes when we remember that wedding bells were ringing 15 years ago, and we want to congratulate each other by presenting another sweet surprise. Crystal wedding!
How the crystal wedding was celebrated
Celebrating the fifteenth anniversary in Russia began about two hundred years ago, and over time the celebration acquired its own traditions and customs.
- Early in the morning on the significant day, the “newlyweds” went to the spring and washed themselves. If there was no source nearby, they took ordinary well water.
- Shortly before the holiday, the couple purchased something made of glass or crystal for the house - a chandelier with pendants, a set of glasses or wine glasses, dishes, figurines.
- Traditionally, people tried to drink wine or champagne from glasses carefully preserved from the wedding day. At the end of the celebration, they were supposed to be broken in order to drive away sorrows and troubles with melodious ringing.
There is another sign - to break a mirror that has served its purpose. However, psychics do not recommend doing this. The mirror has its own powerful energy, which is not always favorable. This is especially true for old paintings that are passed down from generation to generation. And by breaking such a mirror, you can greatly harm yourself. So, experts advise limiting yourself to safe glass or crystal dishes.
Customs and traditions abroad
In the West, married couples are also not averse to celebrating their anniversary. How did you celebrate your fifteenth birthday in other countries?
- In Great Britain, on this day it was customary to give spouses a crystal button, symbolizing prosperity and financial well-being. During the warm season, tables were set on the lawns near the house, and guests tried to please the “newlyweds” with original gifts.
- In Germany, this day was celebrated with great enthusiasm. At least fifteen different dishes were required to be placed on the tables. Guests were invited from among relatives, good friends, and neighbors. On fasting days, appropriate food was prepared, but a lot. According to tradition, the spouses were showered with violets, so one of the names for this anniversary was “violet.” The guests sang and danced a lot.
- The French began celebrating the 15th anniversary during the reign of the Sun King. Aristocrats celebrated the anniversary with style and splendor, regardless of costs. The couple sewed new wedding dresses, invited not only relatives, but all neighbors, distant and close friends. At the apotheosis of the holiday, doves were released into the sky as symbols of love and fidelity. If the birds circled overhead for a long time, this was considered a favorable sign.
Nowadays, you can also adopt some of the ancient customs to make the celebration unforgettable.
Competitions
Fun games are suitable for entertainment. Competition program options:
1. “Test of knowledge” The purpose of the competition is to check what the husband has learned from family life over 15 years. Only the spouse participates in the game. Several items of women's toiletry are thrown into the bag: curlers, curling iron, foundation, lipstick, eyebrow tweezers, nail polish. The husband should understand just by its outline, without pulling the item out of the bag, what it is and why it is used.
2. “Cartoon” Everyone who wants to take part in the competition is given a sheet of paper and a pencil. Guests draw a cartoon of the spouses. The one who did it best and fastest receives a bottle of champagne as a prize.
Crystal wedding celebration scenario
You can celebrate your fifteenth wedding anniversary at the request of the spouses. However, if you plan to have a lot of guests, you should take care of renting a restaurant or cafe - this way the host will be spared the tedious chores that happen every day. They will be able to relax and unwind with their guests.
The main guests of this celebration are the parents of the spouses and their children. The former personify adherence to the family way of life and respect for elders. And the second is the continuity of generations, the triumph of life and the prolongation of the family. In addition, it is customary to invite those who were at wedding celebrations 15 years ago.
The table must be set with something crystal or glass. Ideally, all dishes and decorations should be made of this transparent material. The dishes can be absolutely anything according to the taste of those present. The main thing is that they bring sincere pleasure and delight with their taste and aroma. It is customary to drink only champagne from tall crystal glasses. And for dessert you need to serve a luxurious cake.
Crystal as a symbol
Crystal as a symbol emphasizes the purity and transparency of fifteen-year relationships, their beauty and harmony. The play of colors and play of colors are considered a symbol of close, multifaceted cooperation.
On the other hand, crystal is a very fragile material, which, if it breaks, will scatter into many fragments, and they can never be collected into a single whole.
From this point of view, a crystal wedding emphasizes the beauty and harmony of a life lived and reminds that nothing lasts forever.
It is necessary to take care of each other, give in, look for compromises, support all the good things that have united the spouses for 15 years.
Gift for 15th wedding anniversary
Gifts are one of the most important events of this holiday. They are awaited with anticipation and bated breath. The question of what to give for the fifteenth anniversary is quite simple - there must be at least something glass or crystal. Also, according to German tradition, the gift can be supplemented with violets or their images.
- A set of wine glasses or dishes.
- Vases, salad bowls, candy bowls.
- Crystal jewelry - beads, brooches, pendants.
- Crystal decanter with good alcohol.
- Bouquet of violets.
- Any lighting fixtures with glass parts.
- Personalized glasses or plates with engraving in honor of the holiday.
- Glass teapot or samovar in an old style.
- Tea or coffee set.
- Crystal stand for cell phone.
- Souvenirs - figurines, a globe, doorway pendants, figurines of animals and birds, luxurious models of ships, planes and other equipment made of crystal.
- Crystal flowers, napkin holders.
- Exclusive bottles with oil, perfume, eau de toilette.
- Pictures on glass, mosaics and original photos in frames.
It is not at all necessary, and even not recommended, to buy expensive things. Gifts are given from the heart, and taking into account the preferences and hobbies of the couple. This could be an elegant pendant with a photo of the spouses or a pair pendant. The main thing is that it is presented from a pure heart.
In addition, gifts can be intangible. If spouses like unusual and educational surprises, you can arrange for them a tour of the factories in Gus Khrustalny. Or give tickets to a concert of your favorite performer, to a museum or to the theater. You can purchase a certificate to a spa salon or gift the services of a professional makeup artist.
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Beautiful and desirable gifts evoke a lot of positive emotions. The most important thing for spouses here is to correctly guess the hidden dreams of their beloved half. For the 15th anniversary it could be:
- a rock crystal ring, or any other piece of jewelry, including a chic necklace;
- a lovely crystal box for small items will definitely please your dear wife;
- a large floor vase, complemented by a flower arrangement, looks gorgeous;
- a large glass sculpture placed in the hall or living room will give the interior an unforgettable charm;
- expensive prescription glasses or sunglasses can also be a pleasant surprise for the holiday;
- for your wife you can buy a crystal nail file;
- Another great gift could be a glass table for the living room or bedroom;
- a magnificent painting or panel on a glass wall is a wonderful gift for the whole family;
- you can order portraits engraved on glass medallions as a memory of the anniversary;
- glass cutting boards are much preferable to wooden or plastic ones, as they do not harbor pathogens. And making pies on them is a pleasure;
- Any products with transparent crystals are suitable for this holiday - photo frames and picture frames, jewelry, automobile and women's accessories, lamps and electronic devices;
- Crystal decorative candlesticks and stands look great for various purposes;
- If a couple decides to have an aquarium with fish in their house, then their 15th wedding anniversary is the best time for this. A small ball with a goldfish or a huge underwater world with lighting and majestic inhabitants will rest the eyes and delight all family members;
- Flowers for your dear wife are a way to tell her about your love. For this holiday, it is advisable to make a bouquet of 15 items, choosing her favorite flowers. And if your wife doesn’t like cut ones, then you can present a delicate orchid in a pot, luxurious violets or charming fuchsia;
- you can make gifts with your own hands - a box or shelf, animal figurines, a miniature carved tower and much more. For those who are interested in clay modeling or wood carving, great opportunities open up for creating a surprise;
- A certificate to a fashion clothing or accessories store would be a good gift for both the wife and husband. They will be able to choose an elite item to their liking;
- traveling together for newlyweds is a win-win option. It’s quite easy to choose a suitable tour or route if you know about the couple’s hobbies. This can be any Russian or foreign resort, sea cruise or active recreation at a tourist base;
- a massage course will certainly bring joy and help improve your health, and will also demonstrate how caring your partner is;
- Exotic types of entertainment have become available to many residents of Russia. If there are agencies in the city offering hot air balloon rides, skydiving, helicopter flights or river rafting, then it makes sense to use their services. Controlled risk brings people closer together and will benefit family relationships;
- dinner for two in an expensive restaurant is what every woman dreams of. And she will be sincerely grateful for a romantic evening by candlelight;
- Going together to a museum, a concert or a football match is also a suitable way to celebrate a significant date. The most important thing is a lot of positive emotions that distract from everyday life;
- Another family gift is a wall or grandfather clock, as well as a souvenir clock, which can look like a medieval tower or an original sculpture.
A cake baked especially for this celebration will complete the festive evening with dignity. You can put an inscription on it in the form of a touching declaration of love, or decorate it with symbols of fidelity and family well-being. You can invite a professional photographer who will help you remember the most amazing details of the celebration.
Original surprises for a glass wedding
A crystal wedding is a wonderful occasion to arrange an unexpected surprise. Make an original gift, please your loved one with something remarkable, something that has never happened before. The charge of excellent mood received on this day will warm you with memories. And if the gift is material, then it will remind you of a magnificent day full of positive emotions and mutual love. There is no need to chase high prices. Gifts can be the simplest, but with a secret meaning or seasoned with a touch of humor.
- Crystal or glass figurines in the form of doves, swans, cupids, a pair of wedding rings with the number “15” - everything that can become a symbol of your love and unity.
- Crystal slipper for the beautiful Cinderella. An amazing, fabulous gift that will remind you that in life there is always room for good miracles.
- Humorous gift cups-souvenirs with interesting inscriptions: “Beloved” or “Beloved”, “The most charming and attractive”, “The best woman in the world”, “Dear husband”, “Head of the family”, etc.
- Paired crystal glasses or wine glasses with an engraving in the form of a date or holiday greetings are perfect for the occasion.
- A set of handmade expensive chocolates in honor of the crystal wedding.
- A crystal bell is not just a souvenir. Its gentle sound caresses the ear and gives pleasant emotions. With its help, you can establish a family tradition: calling for lunch or dinner, marking the beginning of a working day, or signaling the desire to kiss your spouse.
- A wonderful option for a wedding gift is chocolate nuts with declarations of love inside. You can bake them yourself or purchase a set from a pastry shop.
- A soft rug for the bathroom or bedroom, with a playful inscription, will remind you that a smile is light, and you need to start the day in a good mood.
- Another original gift is a crystal ball for a sorceress or magician. Have a humorous session telling your significant other how much you love, appreciate, and what you are willing to do to prove your love.
- Mugs with inscriptions that appear when heated have been known for quite some time. And a crystal wedding is quite suitable for presenting your precious soulmate with a personal cup with the inscription: “I love you”, “I can’t live without you” or “You are my life!”, as well as any others that suit the meaning.
- The brilliance of natural stones is always mesmerizing - they have a very special, amazing energy. If your husband or wife is suitable for jewelry with rock crystal, diamonds or other transparent, glass-like stones, you can please them with jewelry - bracelets, pendants, cufflinks, brooches, earrings.
- A pair of identical T-shirts with printed inscriptions for the special date is an inexpensive, but very sincere and practical gift. You can order individual declarations of love without revealing the secret until the gift is delivered.
- A salt lamp in the shape of doves, hearts or other romantic little things will not only illuminate the room with soft light and fill it with the smell of the sea, but will also become a symbol of love.
- An apron with the inscription: “To the best housewife”, “To the clever beauty” will amuse and make you want to cook something delicious to please such a connoisseur of her talents.
- If the spouses are relaxed enough, then an erotic board game will help add zest to the relationship and take a fresh look at each other.
- Silk or any other luxury bed linen will turn an ordinary bed into a royal bed worthy of a king and queen.
- Breakfast in bed is a surprisingly pleasant thing that shows how dear you are to each other. And for this you will need a special table or tray on a pillow.
- If your spouse loves sweets, you should not disappoint her. You can buy a crystal dish or candy bowl and fill it to the top with her favorite treats.
Another great surprise for your loved one on this day is a congratulation message broadcast on local radio or printed in a newspaper.
Family crystal gifts - 5 cool options for friends
I want to make an anniversary gift such that both husband and wife will like it. What to give for a crystal wedding from friends:
- A large crystal figurine is an elegant, beautiful decorative element.
- A crystal set of dishes and various glass figurines (glass gifts are also traditional).
- Crystal photo frame with a photograph from fifteen years ago.
- A crystal chandelier, lamp or floor lamp is the best gift for a crystal wedding
- Candlestick will decorate any interior. In addition, you can give a few carved, scented candles.
Expensive crystal tableware will please both husband and wife. There will always be a feeling of celebration. But you can also give glass gifts on your wedding anniversary.
What not to give
The 15th wedding anniversary is a romantic date, which it is advisable to spend in such a way that good memories will bring joy for many years. And, of course, this applies to those gifts that spouses present in honor of the anniversary. Despite the fact that the choice is officially unlimited, there are still things that should not be given as a wedding anniversary gift. This concerns money - it will be spent on household needs, and there will be nothing left to remember the holiday. Also, you should not give work accessories, household items and household appliances - this is too mundane. Such gifts, even if they are needed and planned, are best timed to coincide with another holiday, for example, the February-March celebration of male defenders and beautiful women. And for your wedding anniversary, choose inexpensive but charming little things; looking at them, you can remember the love and tenderness with which the spouses gave them.
Gifts for wife
A gift for your wife for their anniversary should not disappoint women’s expectations, full of romance and warmth. Traditional examples:
- None of the women will remain indifferent to a gift in the form of a ring. Depending on your financial situation, this could be a ring with diamonds, Swarovski stones, or rock crystal.
- Another traditional glass-related gift is a bottle of perfume. The modern design of the bottle is very reminiscent of crystal products. The wife's tastes should have long been known to her husband, as well as what perfume she has long wanted to have on her dressing table.
- Women are romantic people. Any crystal figurine, for example, cupids with arrows, Cinderella’s slipper, figurines of two swans, a transparent box shimmering and burning with all colors will delight you on your anniversary day and will remind you of a pleasant event for a long time.
- Glass gifts include pendants, bracelets, pendants and earrings decorated with transparent stones (for example, amethyst and topaz).