Bride ransom is one of the main components of a wedding celebration. And responsibility for organizing it, as a rule, lies with the witness. Thematic redemption is much more popular than the classic one. We have scenarios in the style of knights and the labors of Hercules. Another cool ransom scenario was prepared by Nadezhda Simonchuk.
Thanks to its originality and ease of execution, the bride ransom scenario in the gypsy style will make a pleasant impression on the groom and his accompanying guests. The scenario is suitable for a buyout in a private house or at an entrance .
PROPS:
- Witness - a long skirt decorated with jingling coins, wide sleeves, massive jewelry, a large scarf on the shoulders or on the head.
- Bridesmaids - scarves, flowers in their hair, skirts.
- Money basket
- 5 satin ribbons of different colors
- Poster "Lottery Heart"
- Poster for a poem
- 6 mission cards
- Crossword "Loyalty"
MUSIC:
Musical accompaniment will only be needed for the Fortune Cards competition. This can be any “Gypsy” composition, but it is advisable that the introduction is not slow and quiet. It is better to prepare in advance that excerpt from the song where the music will be playful and cheerful from the very beginning.
Start
You need to meet the groom at the gate or entrance, depending on whether the bride lives in a house or in an apartment. The bridesmaids and bridesmaid greet the groom in gypsy costumes.
Witness: Oh, look girls, what good fellows have come to us. What will your name be? Why did you come to our gypsy camp? (behind the bride)
Witness: That's it! For the bride? Then choose from us! We are young girls, even now we’ll go to the registry office. (The gypsy woman takes his hand and examines his palm)
Witness : Yes, I see, my hawk, that you are sick in a different way. The most tender and beautiful, so beloved by us all. But we won’t just give it away! Give me some money, then maybe we can talk. (the witness or groom gives the ransom and moves on)
Witness : I see you are not a stingy man. Follow me.
Basic traditions of gypsy weddings
One of the main traditions of a gypsy wedding is the fact that marriages in this people take place at a fairly early age. This is no coincidence. In their opinion, at a young age it is easier for a girl to get used to a new family. That is why many gypsies begin to match their children to each other almost immediately after birth. Thus, they agree among themselves that as soon as their children reach marriageable age, they will get married, and, therefore, become related.
It is not uncommon for a girl to be married off at the age of 10. At the same time, she can live in the groom’s family for about 5 years, but only if her parents give their consent. As soon as the bride turns 13-15 years old, she is married off to a gypsy. But, as a rule, the average age of the bride and groom is 16-18 years.
Gypsy bride ransom
The origin of the bride, the wealth of her parents, as well as external characteristics play a decisive role in her choice. Another main tradition is bride ransom. If in Russian culture a young man shows his readiness and ability to support his family, then here it is a kind of sign of respect to the bride’s parents for giving birth to and raising a girl. Moreover, the size of the ransom directly depends on the state of the groom’s family. In ancient times it ranged from 50 to 300 gold coins. At the same time, most of it remains with the bride’s parents, and the rest of the ransom goes to the young people. Now the entire ransom is given to young people.
Ritual of bride abduction from gypsies
Another tradition is the kidnapping of the bride a few days before the wedding. This kind of thing was always done by those young people who did not have the means to pay for ransom. Those whose parents were against marriage also stole. Often the punishment for committing such an act was very cruel. As a rule, weddings are held after matchmaking. Moreover, the girl and the guy may not even see each other until this day.
Nowadays, many Gypsies have slightly changed their customs. Parents no longer order, but only advise. Young people have more opportunities to get to know each other before entering into legal marriage. But the desire to become related to a respected and decent family remains unchanged.
And most importantly, it is customary for the gypsies to pay for the wedding to the groom’s family. They start saving money immediately after his birth, since a gypsy wedding is not a cheap event.
Gypsies do not consider it necessary to register their marriage in the registry office. For them, the wedding itself and its celebration are much more important. If the young people want to formalize their relationship, then this can only be done the next day.
Competition "Lines of Fate"
The groom's passage is blocked by five ribbons; in order to pass further, he needs to correctly answer five questions asked by the gypsy witness. For each correct answer, one ribbon is cut. If the groom does not know the answer, he pays the ransom.
Witness: To go further, you need to find the correct answer. And for the wrong answer you will be given some sweets. If you can’t guess again, a bottle of wine will help you. And the third time is no big deal. Pay more or go back safely. Are you ready?
Questions:
1.You have been together for so long, you have looked into the eyes of the bride so many times. Now tell us, tell us the color of those eyes. 2. You hugged a lot and clung to each other. Tell me what she smells like? What perfume does she use? 3. Why is year N significant for her (you need to name the year the young people met). 4. Our bride really loves to read. What is her favorite book? (the question depends on the tastes of the bride. This could include reading, music, or films). 5.Which country does your beloved dream of visiting?
Traditional gypsy matchmaking techniques
Marriages in Roma families take place at a very early age. This is done so that teenagers do not have time to enjoy a free life and become morally “deteriorated.” The best way to meet your future bride or groom is to attend someone else's wedding with your children. The traditions of gypsy weddings oblige all young people present to go “in a circle,” which implies a solo performance of certain steps during a general dance. It is during these general viewings that preliminary agreements for marriage are concluded.
Gypsy matchmaking sometimes begins in a very unusual way, with the help of the so-called “gypsy mail”. For such relationships, distance and country are not a barrier. Gypsies are very easy-going people, so very often the whole family goes to bridesmaid shows. Although now everything has changed somewhat, and parents can no longer so openly dictate their will to their own children. Arranged marriages are a thing of the past, but relatives still want future matchmakers to be not only respected, but also decent. And if both families are also wealthy, then the wedding will truly be a “heavy feast.”
Competition "Heart Lottery"
Five hearts are drawn on whatman paper or cardboard. Inside each of them they write the reason why the groom decided to get married: “the devil got me wrong,” “mom made me do it,” “I’m tired of washing my socks myself,” “for love,” “out of curiosity.” Then each inscription is painted over with chapstick and allowed to dry a little. After this, each heart must be painted over with acrylic paint and left until completely dry. Thus, the place that is painted over with hygienic lipstick can be easily erased with a coin and the word under the paint can be seen.
Witness: Well, you know the bride well, but now answer me, clear falcon, why did you decide to get married? Five hearts are in front of you, choose any one. Make sure you don't make a mistake!
If the groom chooses a reason that does not suit the gypsy, he pays the ransom and chooses the heart again, but before that the witness says:
Witness : But the reason is bad, not suitable for the groom. I'll have to pay off if I haven't changed my mind about getting married.
The groom passes on if he chooses a heart “out of love.”
Ransom in the style of the movie "Twilight"
A Twilight-style ransom requires careful preparation of costumes for the main characters and thinking through the idea. The idea is as follows: the groom in the role of Edward comes to buy his Bella - in her role, of course, the bride. But on the way to his beloved’s house there are werewolves lurking, who demand to prove that he is worthy of this charming girl. Redemption Features:
- Ideally, in addition to the bridesmaids dressed in fur vests, the ransom will be conducted by a slightly inflated, topless guy in the role of Jacob;
- You need to speak tasks in a mysterious, muffled voice;
- Competitions must correspond to the film: for example, push a car away from the entrance to the house (in the film, Edward stops a speeding car with his hand, but it is better not to organize such a competition!);
- Considering that vampires are immortal, you can invite the groom to come up with at least 10 entertainments for his potential wife to brighten up the endless string of evenings;
- In order for the vampire Edward to prove that he will not harm his wife, you need to offer him a choice of several glasses with “blood” (red juice) and invite him to drink one of them. At the bottom it should be written what was in the glass - the blood of an animal or a person. If Edward drank human blood, the search will have to continue, and of course pay compensation for his oversight;
- If the yard is large, you can invite the vampire to move from one part of it to another without touching the floor (the groom should be carried in the arms of friends in such a position as if he were flying from one point to another);
- The ransom can take place under the soundtrack of the film, which will add atmosphere;
- If there is a lot of vegetation in the yard and there is an old truck, this is the ideal place for such a buyout!
Additional competitions can be created by re-watching the Twilight Saga. Considering that it is now difficult to find a person who has not seen a single part of this film, such a parody will be highly appreciated by guests!
Fortune Cards Competition
The gypsy lays out 6 cards in front of the groom, on which various tasks are written. Naturally, he does not see the text of the assignments.
Witness: The cards will tell us the truth and show you in all your glory. Choose one for yourself and you will find out what's what.
Tasks: 1. Let the witness praise the groom. If he names 10 qualities, the groom will move on. 2. Either pay money or dance “gypsy girl”. 3.Sing us a beautiful song about your strong love. 4. Write the name of your love to us in money. 5. Shout, not sparing your throat, (name of the bride), I love you! 6.You know exactly, without a doubt, when your mother-in-law’s birthday is. (Trick question! The mother of the bride becomes a mother-in-law only on the wedding day)
Organizing a scene for a wedding with a gypsy
Gypsies were always welcome guests at weddings. Colorful and colorful, with numerous jokes, jokes, songs and dances, they could lift the spirits and make all the guests, without exception, have fun. Today, these cheerful people are rarely invited to weddings, but tradition is tradition, so competitions and jokes with gypsies remain very popular.
If you want to organize a comic fortune telling from a gypsy for guests, it is not necessary to hire a professional actress. Dress up your friend or relative in a colorful outfit and prepare a text for her.
Even if you don’t have enough time to rehearse and learn everything, you can read the words from a piece of paper
Competition “Crossword “Loyalty””
Various letters hang in front of the groom, from which he must form one word. Nearby hangs a poster “Gypsy Generous Prices”, which shows the price for each letter. For example, to open the first letter you need to pay $5, for the second letter – $4, and so on.
Witness: Ay, my brilliant one, the ruby of my eyes, you passed almost all the tests. Have you changed your mind about getting married yet? Maybe someone else you liked? Well, if you haven't changed your mind, then here's your last task. From the letters that you see in front of you, form just one word. If you want a bride as your wife, you must have it. But if suddenly you don’t know the answer, any letter, so be it, I agree to sell.
Thus, the groom must form the word “fidelity” and then it will reach the bride.
Being a witness is a very important and responsible role, so you need to think through all the subtleties and nuances in advance. Do not forget to warn the groom in advance so that he buys sweets and wine , since he will use them to pay for the competition with ribbons if he answers the gypsy’s questions incorrectly.
The main thing is that the witness is not nervous and behaves naturally, is cheerful and has learned her words well.
Then the bride price will be fun and easy, and all those gathered will tune in to a positive continuation of the banquet. After all, it is with the ransom that the mood begins. In order not to forget the page address and share with friends, add it to your social network:
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Discussion: there is 1 comment
- Julia:
June 5, 2021 at 7:01 amWell, I don’t know, gypsy is very much for everyone. Although if the rest of the wedding scenario is not gypsy, then such a ransom is possible.
Answer
Funny bride price competitions in verse
Poems are always an interesting option for any holiday. But in order for an event such as a ransom to be successful, it is necessary to select poems describing the competitions so that they appear to be created in the same style.
Celebrating a holiday in verse involves a certain amount of time and effort. Although you can use small folders with hints, it is better if all the words are learned.
It is also important that they are narrated by a person with a deep voice, who can attract attention to his words even when there is a crowd around him.
You should refuse to hold poetry competitions if the bridesmaids have clear voices and rather weak lungs. For competitions in poetic form, you will have to strain your ligaments and use a lot of air so as not to interrupt the rhythm of the narrative.
If the competitions are well chosen and the poems are funny, then the beginning of the holiday will be remembered for a long time. If the ransom is held in a specific theme, then the bridesmaids can use special paraphernalia or outfits.
In this video you will hear many useful tips for organizing a bride price:
So, for a ransom organized in the form of a pirate invasion, special hats or bandanas, belts with swords and antique pistols are suitable.
It is known that once you start a business, it will continue. Therefore, the wedding day should begin with fun, interesting competitions, because the ransom portends not only a well-spent holiday, but also a successful family life. What competitions would you choose to buy out your best friend?
